"Dear Little Kid" is getting more and more bloody. In order to save Hehe, Xiao Lu and Yinuo planned to have another child on the dog blood, but they did not expect that the two people would actually come to the truth, which made the audience unacceptable. Especially seeing the scene in the play where Dong Fan went to find Xie Tianhua in heavy rain, two people crying outside the door and crying inside the door, it was really painful and angry.
However, Xiao Lu and Yinuo did not break through the bottom line in the end, and they gave up. Yinuo returned to the hospital, saw Tianhua, and told Tianhua what had happened. It can be seen from this incident that Yinuo learned to communicate actively.
It is precisely because she takes the initiative to communicate, indicating that she and Tianhua will have a perfect ending.
1, the least good at communication of a promise
Although Yinuo is a teacher, she is not good at communication, especially family relations. You can see from the way she gets along with her parents, she is a person who likes to make her own decisions everywhere.
At that time, she took Xiao Lu to meet her parents, and her mother actually did not approve of her marriage, but she herself was willing, so she insisted on marrying Xiao Lu.
It is also for this reason that Yinuo's mother will always pick xiao lu's faults. This is also the trigger for Yinuo's divorce from Xiao Lu.
After Yinuo's divorce, Yinuo's parents saw that Tianhua was very good and wanted to match him with Yinuo, but Yinuo did not say anything. It wasn't until Yinuo saw that her daughter Hehe wanted a father that she was relieved.
Yinuo's plan to have another child with Xiao Lu was also decided by himself, and he did not discuss it with his parents at all. Later, he only informed his father, and his father was so angry that his father was screaming. Later, Yinuo's parents went to Tianhua for her happiness, hoping that he would not marry Yinuo.
Seeing Yinuo's parents begging Tianhua so humbly, it really hurt them.
In fact, many times, Yinuo is not good at communication because she wants to carry a lot of things on herself, and she does not want to trouble others. However, such a personality will also make the people around him hurt.
2, because not good at communication, so the marriage failed
The most important problem of Yinuo and Xiao Lu's marriage is that they lack effective communication.
On the day Yinuo gave birth to the child, Xiao Lu happened to have a job. Yi Nuo said in a particularly atmospheric way to let him get busy, don't worry about her. However, from the look in her eyes, she could see that in fact, she still hoped that Xiao Lu could accompany her.
Yinuo said no, Xiao Lu was serious, so Yinuo had a gap in his heart, and Xiao Lu did not know that Yinuo was not happy in his heart. If Yinuo could be as delicate as Dong Fan at this time, maybe the two people would not have so many knots. However, she was used to carrying a promise on her own in everything, and she always put everything in her mind, so when the relationship between the two people broke up, all she recalled in her mind was Xiao Lu's bad.
If Yinuo can communicate with Xiao Lu well, perhaps many knots can be opened.
Yinuo's personality, many girls have, that is, they are used to letting others guess and let others take the initiative. However, practice has shown that no matter how smart a boy is, it is difficult for him to guess the real thoughts in the girl's heart. Don't talk about the boys in the TV series, they are far from the people in life.
The boys of idol dramas only exist in idol dramas. In life, if you want your husband to do something, then telling him directly is much more efficient than letting him guess, and you can be less angry.
So don't learn this bad habit from Yinuo.
3, Yinuo learned to communicate
Perhaps with the increase of experience, Yinuo gradually learned how to communicate. Because she also found that not communicating will cause more misunderstandings.
I still remember that time she made an appointment with Xiao Lu, originally just wanted to tell Xiao Lu to stay away from her in the future, but she let Xie Dan see it, and then misunderstood what they had. After this matter was told to Tianhua, Tianhua was obviously in some pain, and went to drink alcohol for several days. And she didn't want to use Tianhua's money, which made Tianhua also sad, and Tianhua thought that this was a manifestation of not treating him as a family.
After experiencing these things, Yinuo also gradually matured, and she also felt that she needed to communicate effectively with Tianhua when necessary.
So, when she and Xiao Lu really planned to come but didn't come, she decided to tell him about it. She found it difficult to communicate verbally, so she adopted the WeChat communication method.
It is precisely because of this communication that Tianhua let go of his heart knot, and later found that after Yinuo was pregnant, Tianhua was really happy, otherwise he thought that the child was Xiao Lu's.
This communication saved Tianhua and also saved Dong Fan.
From this move, it can be seen that Yinuo is finally willing to open his heart to Tianhua, so that their marriage can last.
Communication is crucial in marriage, so learning to communicate is an essential step in running a marriage.