"Dear Child" did not fall into the trap of some domestic dramas "levitating", and had the courage to break the filter and discuss the truth of fertility and marriage. And the bullet screen even has some people who think their husbands are good. Nice point: bring takeaway to the pregnant wife, cut the apple, rub the leg, the child comes out and asks my wife how? Everyone's standards for men and dads are really low.
There is also a point that makes people sick: the sister-in-law's flattery to the host. The man went home late at night, the sister-in-law immediately brought water to deliver food, see this immediately can guess the plot behind, the sister-in-law wants to be lazy, first pull the man, and so on when there is a contradiction with the mother later, tell the man that the postpartum depression of the mother is all her wild thoughts.
This drama is really too real, from the state of the couple before pregnancy to the scene of giving birth to the child to the evolution of the postpartum family conflict, completely realistic and unpretentious, and the female protagonist is more delicate than Qin Hao. There is no selling anxiety at all, and real life is far more exciting than TV dramas. The terrible thing is that most Chinese family fathers are not only inferior to Qin Hao's scumbags, but the mothers do not have the backing of their mother's family...
Is this all good for men? Good husband? This is usually under-educated, and many bad men can only see it when they have children, but they can see it from many small things before giving birth. This actually reflects a very common phenomenon in real life: women always love small and cheap and lose big. Carrying a bag and cutting an apple and rubbing a leg ("he's nice to me") can be exchanged for a free nanny and fertility machine without complaint or regret.
During the confinement period after the wife gave birth, the sister-in-law left, she was alone at home, the husband came back to cook a bowl of noodles for her and did not put salt, the wife was not tasty, the husband was impatient, said a sentence I worked a day is also very hard ah, at that time it broke the defense, women can also go to work to earn money, there is the ability of men to give birth to children, as if men have paid a little, cooked a noodle is very aggrieved, a little bit can not understand the hardships and efforts of women with babies.
People with a little empathy can see the double torture of the birth of a child on the heroine's body and mind, but there is a bullet screen that says: a woman has become really terrible when she gives birth to a child. It is difficult not to feel that this is a male speech, and his statement also represents many men in reality, in their eyes, all kinds of pain encountered by women in the process of childbirth are deserved, and women are like this. The heroine is suspicious of the ghost is postpartum depression is hypocrisy!
As a husband, you must put your wife first, more respect, more tolerance, more understanding. You can't make a mud between your mother and your wife, and you must take the initiative to adjust the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. From everyone's point of view, in fact, there are their own reasons, but the torture of pregnancy and childbirth on the mother is too great, physical and mental torture, too terrible.