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Boys between the ages of 20 and 25 are the best age in their lives to fall in love. Missing this age group, it is difficult to find a girlfriend, but in the factory, many older boys are already twenty or thirty years old, or not in a hurry, for finding a girlfriend they look very open. But it made the old mother of the family anxious like ants on a hot pot.
The picture below shows my cousin on the left, my neighbor from the same village on the right, and the girl in the middle is from the next village, all three of whom are young people after 95. They went to school and played together since they were young, and now they come out together and go to work in the same factory.
The other day the three of us left in the same factory, my cousin called me and asked me to drive to pick them up, which was a very common thing, but on the way back, we talked a lot in the car, including talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, and to my surprise, all three of them were single.
I was surprised that men should be tall and tall. The woman has to look good, why does my cousin and the boys in the same village look down on this girl.
My cousin first said that he didn't want to be in love now, because without a stable job, falling in love would only make him more stressed, and at this stage, he didn't look up to anyone.
Another boy from the same village said that he and the girls from the next village had known each other since childhood and were too acquainted. Relationships are like iron buddies, there is no such emotion in there. It's embarrassing to screw them together, so it's best to maintain the status quo. The relationship between the three of them is more like brothers and sisters.
In fact, the boys in the factory do not take the initiative to chase girls for many reasons.
First of all, the first is that life is stressful, many people have car loans to repay, and there are mortgages to repay, if you still talk about a girlfriend, it will cost a lot more money every month.
The second is that the mentality of migrant workers has changed. Many migrant workers have low self-esteem, because their income is not high, they do not have the courage to pursue girls, so they find various reasons to escape, preferring to play games in the dormitory, rather than take the initiative to chase girls.
Let's hear what migrant workers think.
Migrant workers: It is difficult to support yourself, and one more person is an extra burden. This is the reality, women's salary is 3,000 but there are 8,000 yuan to spend, and men's work is 8,000 but 300 yuan of clothes are reluctant to buy.
Migrant workers: Love is a beautiful thing for both parties to enjoy, and now boys have to pay time, energy, money and have not been guaranteed under the premise of steady loss and no profit. Of course, fewer and fewer boys will participate.