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Hello everyone, I'm a can.
I don't know when, the bed-sharing social fire.
The so-called "bed-sharing socialization" refers to the social way in which single men and women share a room and sleep in the same bed in the name of roommates.
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Especially in cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, where the cost of renting is huge, it will appear.
According to the Shell Research Institute's "Graduation Season Rental Insight Report", 70% of graduates have shared a house, of which 87% are "bedshaking families", which is equivalent to 60% of graduates who have shared beds with others.
That's interesting. In a small space, a long time, the concentration of two people getting along will reach a peak, either doubly liked, or doubly disgusted.
The chemistry inside will also spawn a lot of stories.
Jar and Can interviewed several young people with experience in sharing beds, not only to save money, but also to dream, struggle, suffocation embarrassment and some small luck.
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Men sleep together
The most embarrassing thing is to look at each other
Splice bed for 6 months
Old demon Male 28 years old in the insurance industry
To put it bluntly, there is no money.
Last year, I got a job in Shanghai and squeezed into a 28㎡ studio with friends.
The family is surrounded by four walls, the most conspicuous is a 1 meter 8 bed, whimsical embarrassment - change the big house, no money; add another bed, no place.
With our wallets tightened, we decided to sleep together.
The brotherhood of men is real, but sleeping together still feels disgusting.
When you see a dark face, a stout body huddled in a bed with you, when two male bodies are close to each other, you can even hear each other breathing.
You have no interest in it for an instant, and you may even reject the other person's body.
We both fell asleep, and we were used to back to each other.
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Of course, there are also some contradictions in life.
I like to be clean and go to bed after taking a shower, and he can sit on the bed and play with his phone after playing basketball.
When I wake up, I like to fold the quilt, and the other party feels too pretentious, this kind of behavior is like a little woman.
He also has a loud voice, talks on the phone every day with his own speaker, and qingqing me with his long-distance girlfriend.
And I couldn't stand the noise the most, especially when I couldn't see other people showing affection, which instantly stung my single fragile soul.
Later, I couldn't stand it, so I moved away.
Some people can be ordinary friends, but they can't be bedmates. Friendships that we thought were full of expectations can sometimes bring double disappointment.
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Have a good bed mate
It is the light of my life drifting north
Spelling bed for 1 year
Little Fat Pig Female 23 years old New media industry
Sleeping in a bed with a stranger is probably the boldest thing I've ever done.
As a member of the North Drifter, when I came to this city with full of dreams, I was immediately punched in the face by reality.
The rent of more than 1,000 yuan can only be rented to a single room more than 40 kilometers away from the center of Beijing.
3,000 yuan, you can't achieve the freedom to rent.
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Moreover, the cost required is not only the rent, but also one payment, early payment of management fees, and so on.
So I compromised with reality – finding a same-sex carpool.
Seeing the other party's dense bed requirements, the initial feeling is reliable, casually chatting a few words, and then transferring the money to the other party.
Next, I took the large and small luggage to the rental house, and the real netizens ran to the scene.
Cramped and awkward.
In order not to offend the other party, I pretended to be polite and friendly, and carefully approached the other party.
Sleeping very hot, I dare not turn on the air conditioner, it seems that the other party is not afraid of heat?
Sleepy at night almost fainting, do not dare to let the other party turn down the volume of the phone...
Our relationship broke the ice, and it was the night when I worked overtime until 1 a.m.
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When I went back to the rental house, I found that she had not slept and had been waiting for me to go back.
"Why are you only coming back now?" I'm worried about you. ”
Hearing these words, it is like a warm current rushing into the whole body. The city is big, crowded, and everyone seems to be chasing goals and interests, while I am carefully cared for by a "stranger".
Since then, we've become close friends.
In bed, watch handsome guys together, talk about work, chase variety shows, and complain about miserly landlords and inactive properties together.
Later, because of the job transfer, she left.
But when I think about it, it still warms my life.
03
She sleeps and talks in dreams
Woke me up
Splice bed for 2 months
A Lu female 23 years old Guan Peisheng
My bedshare friend is a college classmate.
Ben lived in a dormitory, and now I live in a bed, and we both think there is no problem.
The point is, my job requires frequent business trips and renting a room alone is not cost-effective. And she, on the other hand, wants to save money.
We just hit it off.
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She is especially suitable for being a good wife and mother, and the room she shares is neatly organized, the sheets and quilt covers are cleaned regularly, and everything in the house has a storage cabinet for sorting and sorting.
Occasionally, when I come back from a business trip, I will find a small note on the door: Welcome home.
It is impossible to say that it is not moved.
But I couldn't stand it for 2 months and moved out.
Because she snores a lot at night and occasionally talks in dreams. Sometimes when I was half dreaming and half awake, I always heard someone talking in my ear in the middle of the night, accompanied by a cool breeze, which was really a bit of the smell of midnight fierce bells.
Later I told her what scumbags say most often: you are a good person, you are really good, but we are not suitable.
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Some people say that it is the real warriors who dare to share the bed. I said: It's also possible to be really poor.
After all, in the face of high rents and meager salaries, those who enjoy independent space have to bow their heads.
However, according to the Shell Institute report, only 20% of people have been sharing beds for more than a year.
cr: Liu Xiaotao_ Beijing photographer
For most people, this is also just a stopgap measure.
In addition to those warm and intimate roommates, it is more of a confusing behavior reward, snoring, sloppiness, night owls, etc., any one of which is suffocating.
What about you? What are your thoughts on bed-sharing? Welcome to leave a message to discuss with cans and cans
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