The record | she and the man divorced three times

Text/Wan Xi Source public number: Wan Xi Qingyang

Original title "I and the same man, divorced three times"

01

Xu Ying and Liu Yiwei are flash marriages.

From the realization of holding hands walking the red carpet, it was only 7 months and 9 days.

The wedding dress was too late to be carefully selected, the venue could not choose the favorite hotel, and even the bridesmaids temporarily grabbed their cousins to act as a wedding - very different from Xu Ying's imagination of the wedding.

She has also designed her own wedding countless times in her mind.

The wedding dress should be customized, and the dragon and phoenix should be carefully outlined with gold and silver threads, and each stitch and thread are pinned on the ten thousand feelings of the daughter to be married.

But now, all the plans have been shelved, and her whole person is loose and has no enthusiasm for running the wedding.

Because Liu Yiwei is not the person Xu Ying seriously wants to marry.

The marriage obtained by blind dates is like a rapid match between hardware and hardware, and the focus is on the door-to-door pair, rather than the agreement.

At the beginning, Xu Ying refused, she still had illusions about love, and was particularly disgusted by this kind of "Lalang match" like blind date. But her mother refused to indulge her daughter: "You are 27 years old, is it okay to throw away the unreal fantasies of the little girl?" ”

At 27, the leftover woman's hat became heavier and heavier, pressing the family's heart into the Mariana Trench. The old man even squeezed out tears: "You hurry up and find a good family, we can close our eyes when we die!" ”

Xu Ying was so annoyed that she finally had to raise her hand and surrender, and from those dazzling blind dates, she took out Liu Yiwei, whose parents were the most eye-catching.

He was the nephew of his aunt's classmate, who was 29 years old at the time, and his parents were also asking his father and grandmother for his marriage, and the blind date schedule was full.

These two elderly young people, both men and women with mediocre appearance and ordinary work, have not yet experienced unforgettable love, but they all need marriage to make an account for their families.

Then tie the knot, and help each other.

There are so many helplessness in life, and marriage is just one of the inconspicuous ones. Besides, people lined up to persuade them, "Who's not living with?" ”

The four old men were jubilantly wandering around, the bride and groom did not care about themselves, and the sacredness of the ceremony was erased a lot by the carelessness of the little two. The three words "I do" also speak triumphantly.

The life is plain and uneventful, as if it has arrived early.

02

But less than half a year after marriage, Xu Ying regretted it.

Because Liu Yiwei is completely a giant baby spoiled by his parents.

He was used to eating and stretching out his hands, and the smelly socks and dirty underwear were casually thrown in the bathroom, waiting for his wife to clean and store.

Laundry, cooking, mopping and cleaning the floor is even more hopeless, after work he will collapse on the sofa, while brushing the mobile phone while asking loudly: "Wife, what to eat for dinner?" ”

In the first few days, Xu Yingqiang endured resentment and anger, and achieved the extreme of the new bride's virtuousness and humility. She doesn't like Liu Yiwei so much, but she can accept the fact that she is already a wife, and she is willing to work hard to live a good life for two people.

But Liu Yiwei was not yet aware of her husband's responsibilities and obligations.

Over time, the relationship between the two will inevitably be unbalanced.

Unfortunately, their husband and wife affection is thin, which is not enough to support Xu Ying to willingly become a free nanny.

No, no, even if she loves to the point of collapse, she cannot raise her husband as a son.

Therefore, Xu Ying fell the dirty bowl in the pool on a night of overtime and late return, and the roar almost broke Liu Yiwei's eardrums, and it was logical that the earthquake shattered the unstable marriage.

"Divorce, old lady is not!"

Xu Ying's tears were flying, and her heart was extremely aggrieved, and the action of packing her luggage became sharp, with several points of determination.

Fortunately, not long after the new marriage, there were not many things in the house that belonged to her. In less than half an hour, she packed up the hasty marriage and planned to throw it away like garbage.

Liu Yiwei looked at her in surprise, not quite understanding where her anger came from, but he did not hug his newlywed little wife as played in the TV series, letting her cry and scold but not let go.

Without love, many things would not exist.

So even though the parents strongly opposed it, the marriage was divorced.

03

When Xu Ying found that her aunt had not arrived late, the divorce certificate had been in her hand for more than ten days.

It is a lie to say that it is not sad at all.

Divorce is not a cramping bone, but it is definitely not a small problem with a cold and fever. It is like a wound in life, and even if it is healed, it will leave a shallow scar.

But the child came, and their common child came.

Xu Ying was in a dilemma.

You can quietly do the crowd and pretend that nothing happened. But as a mother, she couldn't bear it in her heart, and at the same time instinctively felt that this matter could not be hidden from the people of the Liu family.

As a result, the child became a bond, once again tying Xu Ying and Liu Yiwei together.

And Liu Yiwei, finally brought into the role of husband by the upcoming fatherhood. He began to learn to cook pregnant women's meals, and later in the cries of children, he slowly grew into a real adult.

So, the two people found another day and secretly exchanged the divorce certificate for a marriage certificate.

No one said much, as if nothing had happened.

The marriage is finally decent because of the addition of children, and the life of a family of three is no different from the ordinary people around them: the father is lazy, the mother is slightly impatient, and the child is innocent and lively but never worrying.

Such a life could have been slowly lived to the point of two white sideburns. Like the bowl of porridge that I drank in the morning, I was a little tired after a long time, and I left but I wanted to do it.

If, Liu Yiwei had not met Lin Shanshan...

04

It's not complicated to talk about.

A middle-aged man who has compromised on his life for most of his life suddenly bumps into love when he has little achievements, and for a time he is on fire and insists on divorce to pursue love.

At first, Xu Ying thought it was ridiculous.

Living to be more than 40 years old, Liu Yiwei can even go crazy for a fledgling little girl.

But when I turned my head, it seemed a little sad. After all, they were all pushed into the siege, omitting passion and going straight to marriage, not knowing what love was from beginning to end.

At this thought, the resentment turned into a sigh, and the enthusiasm for catching the traitor and catching Xiao San was also extinguished violently, and all that was left was some hidden pain that could not be easily shown.

But in the end, it is also a couple for more than ten years, Xu Ying can not do the clouds and breeze, so she also mentioned two harsh conditions: divorce does not leave home, children and real estate are returned to the woman.

It is to ensure the healthy growth of children and to maximize their own interests.

Unexpectedly, Liu Yiwei agreed.

As a result, this pair of middle-aged men and women who look like gods and gods have begun a tacit "cohabitation" career.

Unfortunately, Liu Yiwei did not get the sweetness of imagination. The little girl came running for money, where would she have the energy to make love with the uncle who was almost out of the house?

"I love you as a person."

Oh, this kind of talk is only the icing on the cake when the ear is grinding. Liu Yiwei is a good liar, and he has never seen the "world".

Coincidentally, at that time, Xu Ying's father had lung cancer...

She had no brothers and sisters, no one to discuss, no one to share, so as soon as she avoided her father, she washed her face with tears, completely losing her main heart.

Liu Yiwei learned that it was incumbent upon him to take over the burden, escort, keep vigil, wipe his body and even urinate, take care of everything, and also cooperate with his ex-wife to perform the final love play and send the old man away with dignity.

It lasted a year and a half, but it also heated Xu Ying's heart a lot.

Looking around, there are not many people who can rely on each other. After experiencing a life and death, the middle-aged men and women were particularly emotional, and the look in each other's eyes was also much softer.

Even more coincidentally, the news of the demolition came, and it is said that one more account can pay hundreds of thousands of dollars more.

Although the news is not accurate, but if the geographical advantages are exhausted today, the two will remarry in a hurry.

Maybe it was also downhill donkeys, each looking for a step.

05

Logically, Xu Ying and Liu Yiwei should be able to respect each other as guests and calmly and calmly walk to Baitou.

But when life returns to silence, those little troubles that have been squeezed away by pain will all emerge one by one.

Xu Ying is almost 50 years old, her child has entered the university, she has plenty of food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and she is not far from retirement, and it is said that she has reached the time when she should enjoy happiness.

But she wasn't happy.

And the source of this unhappiness, she knew clearly, was marriage.

It has been almost 20 years, even if we have had children together and carried life and death, she and Liu Yiwei are still not the person in each other's hearts. They can snuggle up to each other when the wind and waves come, but they can't enjoy the flowers together when the sun is shining.

In fact, I have long slept in separate rooms.

Sex after remarriage. The number of lives is zero, but the hat of the husband and wife lives next to each other, does not interfere with each other when sleeping, and greets each other politely in the morning. I drink milk and you noodles and live like two strangers sharing a room.

I don't want to argue anymore.

It's not that I learned to be humble to each other, but I finally realized that disputes don't work. Silence is sometimes synonymous with discouragement.

Originally, I also planned to endure it all the time, but most of my life has passed anyway. In the second half of life, he is destined to live for his children and continue to act to create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere.

But the daughter who went out to college suddenly came a letter, handwritten, with earnest words, and the theme was to persuade her parents to divorce. The letter was very long, almost counting her eighteen years of mental journey, and the couple realized that their daughter knew everything.

She knows that her father is cheating, she knows that her mother is stoic, she knows that they will not leave home after divorce, she knows that they are all pretending to be happy...

"Life is not long, but the rest of life is not short, rather than this residual life, it is better to find a new life." 」

Xu Ying finished reading the last sentence and turned her head to look at her husband. Only to see Liu Yiwei close his eyes and gently spit out five words: "Let's get a divorce." ”

"Okay."

She heard her own answer, with a little sadness, but more than that, it was relief and ease.

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