After my 6-year-old daughter was precocious and took her to the obstetrics and gynecology department, I was so frightened that I divorced my wife overnight

Text | Zhang Thirteen

01

Guo Lei took his daughter Hui hui to measure the bone age, and it turned out that her bone age was 13 years old!

He knew that bone age largely represented the true level of development of a child.

But Hui Hui is only 6 years old, how can she be measured to be 13 years old?

This was a thunderbolt for him, and he couldn't accept this result in his heart.

Confused, he pulled the doctor and asked if it was a mistake.

He thought that Hui Hui was so small that he shouldn't have measured such a large bone age.

But after the doctor frowned, he still told him that the result would not be wrong.

After the doctor gave Hui Hui a more comprehensive examination, he gave the diagnosis that the child may be precocious puberty, and the reason for this result is largely because the child eats foods with high hormone content and high sugar and fat for a long time.

Guo Lei thought about it and felt that the problem must be in his wife Xu Ying.com.

02

Hui Hui is Xu Ying who risked the birth of an elderly mother and ran countless hospital fetal examinations to have a baby daughter who was not in danger.

Hui Hui has slender limbs and beautiful features, like Xu Ying when she was a child.

Therefore, Guo Lei and Xu Ying both spoiled her.

But since she was born, her body has been very weak, and her development has been slower than that of her peers after weaning, and she always looks very weak.

Guo Lei and Xu Ying both broke their hearts for this.

Xu Ying was even worse.

She felt that Hui Hui's body was so weak because she gave birth too late.

So in order to make up for Hui Hui, she will satisfy Hui Hui in everything, as long as Hui Hui says what she wants, she will buy it the next day.

Hui Hui wanted to eat cream cake, Guo Lei did not give it, she took advantage of his work is not at home to buy it quietly;

Hui Hui wants to eat fried chicken burgers, Guo Lei does not allow it, she secretly gets a family bucket for Hui Hui;

Hui Hui wants to drink Coke soda, Guo Lei said that she can't drink it, she will also buy it and pour it in the thermos cup to secretly give Hui Hui a drink...

Under Xu Ying's excessive doting, Hui Hui changed from a thin little girl in the past to a little fat girl.

But her flesh is long, but her height has not improved a little, and she is still a long way behind her peers.

Xu Ying quickly noticed the problem.

She began to worry that Hui Hui was not tall.

After all, she was only one meter and four, and Xu Lei was only one meter six tall, and she heard that her parents' genes would affect development, and she was really afraid that Hui Hui would follow them.

Especially after hearing about the saying that "the mother is short and short", she did not dare to imagine how painful life would be if Hui Hui was as short as her in the future.

In order to let Hui Hui catch up with the height of her peers, she began to learn from her mothers everywhere.

03

Xu Ying added a lot of Bao Mom exchange groups, and was particularly active in the group every day.

After some effort, she finally got a useful message.

A baoma with the online name "Bear Mother" saw her troubles in the group and told her in a private message that Hui Hui would not grow tall because of insufficient nutrition.

"Mother Bear" also gave a very serious suggestion: if you want Hui Hui to grow tall, you must eat nutritional products.

Xu Ying's heart was moved, and she asked eagerly.

After seeing Xu Ying was moved, the voice of "Mother Bear" turned, mentioning that she sold nutritional products, and vowed to make a guarantee with Xu Ying, saying that Hui Hui would definitely supplement her body by drinking the nutritional products sold by her family.

"Mother Bear" also sent Xu Ying a comparison of her child's drinking nutrition products, and told Xu Ying that her children were very thin before, and after drinking nutrition products for a period of time, they began to slam their heads, and now they are tall and strong.

Xu Ying believed it after carefully reading the comparison photos, and quickly found Guo Lei to discuss the purchase of nutritional products.

Although Guo Lei is also anxious about Huihui's development problems, he does not agree with Xu Ying's going to buy nutritional products from "Mother Bear".

He believes that "Mother Bear" is a micro-business, and he must be selling some three-no products, and he is worried that those products are not safe.

In order not to let her be deceived, he also carefully analyzed the marketing methods of micro-businesses, what is the three no products, and how to determine the qualifications if you want to buy.

Xu Ying listened to Guo Lei's analysis and shook her head, and she was immediately angry, and she confronted "Mother Bear".

But "Mother Bear" turned her head and sent her relevant certificates, and the information was readily available.

Xu Ying showed those proof materials to Guo Lei, and Guo Lei studied carefully and found no problems, which was relieved.

But he was still not very assured, so he instructed her that when buying micro-business products, he must clearly look at the nutritional ingredients, manufacturers and shelf life.

Xu Ying agreed to Guo Lei's words with a full mouth, and turned his head to place an order with "Mother Xiong".

04

In the few days of waiting for the courier, Xu Ying and "Mother Xiong" talked happily, and soon became good sisters who hated each other.

When the nutrition arrived, she had already left Guo Lei's instructions behind, and out of trust in the good sisters, she did not carefully examine the nutrition.

Later, at the suggestion of "Mother Xiong", she went everywhere to search for formulas to supplement her body, and gave Hui Hui stew soup for three days and two ends.

After a few months, those nutrients really worked, and Hui Hui grew taller.

Xu Ying was particularly pleased and fully believed in the efficacy of nutritional products.

But she forced Hui Hui to eat nutrition products and various kinds of soups at both ends of three days, and the taste was not delicious, and Hui Hui gradually resisted.

After being forced to drink the nutrition again, Hui Hui cried and found Guo Lei to complain.

Guo Lei is usually busy with work, and He is assured to hand over To Xu Ying every day of Hui Hui.

Hui Hui said that he learned of Xu Ying's behavior.

Frightened, he quickly pulled Hui Hui to find Xu Ying and expressed his strong opposition to her.

He believes that his daughter is still young, and the excessive intake is like pulling up seedlings, which is likely to affect the normal development of the child, and the gain is not worth the loss.

But Xu Ying decided that the nutrition products were effective, and could not listen to Guo Lei's persuasion at all, and after the two quarreled several times, she continued to force Hui Hui to drink nutrition products frequently.

In order to coax Hui Hui to drink nutrition, she will also tempt Hui Hui with fried chicken fries and soda.

Hui Hui couldn't resist these temptations at all, and didn't last long before she fell.

But Xu Ying gradually became dissatisfied with nutrients and stew, she felt that Hui Hui was still growing very slowly, and she went to find "Mother Bear" again.

"Mother Bear" recommended to Xu Ying another product she was selling, which was a functional drink.

She also mysteriously told Xu Ying that drinking that drink would have unexpected effects.

Xu Ying trusted "Mother Xiong Xiong" very much, and immediately placed several boxes of orders, and specifically told Hui Hui to drink more drinks and drink less water in the future.

05

Guo Lei has always disapproved of Xu Ying giving Hui Hui such an excessive amount.

But Xu Ying did not listen to advice, and her personality was still very spicy, and the two would quarrel without saying a few words.

Moreover, Hui Hui has been seduced by the reward promised by Xu Ying, and also stands on her side, indicating that he is willing to eat those nutritional products.

Guo Lei loved Hui Hui, and although he still felt inappropriate in his heart, he didn't say anything more.

At the age of 6, Huihui's temperament and physique really caught up with her peers, and even surpassed many.

Xu Ying was very proud, and often took this matter to count Guo Lei, saying that it was fortunate that he did not listen to him at the beginning, otherwise the child would not develop so well now.

Although Guo Lei also saw the change in Hui Hui's reality, he always felt that something was wrong, and his heart had been hanging, so he often choked back against her.

And every time he saw Hui Hui, who was as fat as a balloon, he accumulated a point on Xu Ying's qi.

Therefore, the two basically have a small quarrel for two days and a big quarrel for three days, and the two words "divorce" are not shouted less.

But when they think of Hui Hui, their idea of divorce invariably endures.

It's just that this marriage relationship still becomes precarious, and it probably only takes a "wind" about the daughter to blow, and the marriage will collapse.

And this "wind" soon came.

06

That day, Guo Lei was in a car accident and went to the hospital.

Although he was only slightly injured, he was taken to the hospital for bandaging.

After Hui Hui knew that he was injured, she begged Xu Ying to take her to visit.

But Guo Lei and Xu Ying always had differences in the treatment of Hui Hui, and after meeting, they didn't say two words, and then they quarreled because of Hui Hui's diet problems.

After Xu Ying's temper came up, she didn't want to care about Guo Lei anymore, so she dragged Hui Hui and prepared to go home.

But as soon as they opened the door, they bumped into a young female doctor passing by.

The female doctor was not angry after being bumped, and saw Hui Hui sitting on the ground, and also reached out to hug Hui Hui up, but just after hugging Hui Hui, her face changed.

Seeing that Xu Ying took the child and was ready to leave, she also stopped Xu Ying and suggested that Xu Ying take the child to do a gynecological examination.

Xu Yinggang and Guo Lei had a quarrel, and their hearts were still holding their breath, and they were even more angry when they heard the female doctor's words.

On the spot, she sprinkled all the breath she had held from Guo Lei on the female doctor, pointed at the female doctor and scolded: "Your doctor is young, why is your mouth so vicious!" My daughter is only 6 years old this year, you actually let her go to the gynecological examination, What a heart! How can there be any gynecological diseases when the child is so young, isn't it just bumping into you, how can you curse people like this! ”

The female doctor quickly denied it and wanted to explain, but seeing that everyone around her was gathered around, Hui Hui shrunk beside Xu Ying with a look of fear and fear, and she finally resisted and did not open her mouth.

07

But xu Ying saw that the female doctor did not defend herself, and she felt that she was reasonable, and the scolding was even more intense.

Seeing that the female doctor wanted to leave, she took the female doctor's hand and refused to let go.

Even though other medical staff came to persuade her, she still refused to give up, loudly cursing the female doctor for her moral integrity, and saying that she would write a complaint letter to the hospital to complain.

This noise attracted Guo Lei out.

He was startled when he saw the battle, and quickly took Hui Hui into his arms, and then pulled Xu Ying, intending to mediate the contradiction between the two sides.

It took him a lot of tongue to persuade Xu Ying, and by this time, he basically understood the ins and outs of the matter.

He felt that the female doctor did not look like a person who would curse casually, and he also believed that there must be a reason for the incident, so he dragged the reluctant Xu Ying to follow the female doctor to the office.

After entering the office, the female doctor first calmed Hui Hui's emotions before telling the truth.

Originally, when she lifted Hui Hui up, she accidentally found that Hui Hui's chest was bulging, but the child was still young and should not have this kind of physical feature, she suspected that Hui Hui might be precocious, which suggested that Xu Ying take Hui Hui to do gynecological examination.

Although Guo Lei understood the kindness of the female doctor, Xu Ying was still very angry and refused to apologize.

She kept counting, her daughter was still young, she was raised so well, how could she be sick.

When the female doctor saw that she did not listen to the advice, she could only stop her mouth, but just turned her head and told Guo Lei that if the time was convenient, she could take the child to do the examination.

08

That night, Guo Lei, who was lying on a hospital bed, kept thinking about what happened during the day, and the more he thought about it, the more unsteady his heart became, so he looked up information about precocious puberty on the Internet.

The more he investigated, the more he was shocked, and only then did he know the seriousness of the situation.

He sent xu ying what he found.

But although Xu Ying was surprised, she still did not think that her daughter would get that kind of disease, and even thought that he was alarmist.

The two had another big fight over this.

Guo Lei racked his brains for Hui Hui, and finally came up with a way to persuade her to agree to take Hui Hui to the hospital for examination.

He asked her if she wanted to know how tall the child would grow in the future, and if she wanted, she could measure the bone age.

She was moved, so she brought Hui Hui to the hospital and asked Guo Lei to accompany her to the examination.

The test results came out, and Hui Hui was indeed precocious.

Guo Lei held the report, his hands trembling.

Xu Ying also changed her face after knowing the diagnosis results, but she did not think that it was her own reason, and she also argued with Guo Lei.

Guo Lei could no longer hold back his emotions, and the man in his thirties covered his eyes and fell on the cold floor.

He remembered what Xu Ying had done in the past, and he couldn't help but be full of sorrow and indignation.

He hated that he didn't stop her from giving Hui Hui a drink of nutritional products, hated himself for conniving at her to force Hui Hui to drink those soups, hated himself for spoiling Hui Hui, letting Hui Hui eat sweets without restraint, eating high-sugar and high-fat junk food, and letting Hui Hui drink so many drinks.

Those nutritious, tonic soups, donuts, candy, fried chicken fries, cokes... All are murderers.

And he and Xu Ying are accomplices.

09

However, things have reached this point, Xu Ying still can't believe that Hui Hui's precocious puberty is a problem of excessive intake and excessive intake of high-sugar and high-fat foods.

She looked at Hui Hui in a daze, and after suddenly thinking of something, she suddenly realized that it was definitely useful to drink nutritional products, but I didn't buy it right, I will change something else next time..."

Guo Lei saw that Xu Ying still did not know the mistake, and he still had to continue to buy it in a ghostly way, and he was disappointed in his heart.

Instead of arguing with her about right or wrong, he filed for divorce from her.

In the days to come, he will continue to treat Hui Hui with him, only hoping that she will grow up healthy and healthy.

Author: Zhang Shisan, 28-year-old uncle of small fresh meat, 13-line emotional author, the mother's family of all women.

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