After the child enters junior high school, early love will inevitably become one of the things that parents are most worried about. At that time, every parent will painstakingly persuade their children to focus on their studies.
But after the child enters the university, many parents will have a completely different performance, when they no longer worry about the child's love, but sometimes continue to urge.
In the past, even if children were admitted to college, parents would tell them to study hard, after all, social competitiveness is getting bigger and bigger, and it is difficult to have a university undergraduate degree in society. Therefore, parents will hope that their children will continue to study for graduate school and continue to study, which naturally means that children cannot waste time in college.
However, with the continuous development of the times, the concept of many parents has also undergone certain changes. In particular, some male parents are even more blunt, hoping that their children will talk about an object in college, and it is the kind that may be married in the future.
This sounds a bit incredible, especially when it comes out of the mouth of the child's parents, which makes everyone feel incomprehensible. Of course, children will not do this many times, because for many young people now, they are more willing to indulge in the online world, rather than talk about a laborious love in real life.
The father of a junior boy said that he repeatedly urged his child to fall in love, and in the face of the puzzled eyes of others, the father said the following reasons.
College classmates know the roots
Although the children in college are all from all over the world, in the process of living and studying together for several years, everyone will become more and more familiar with each other. Even if you can't get a clear picture of the family situation of others, you can at least know enough about the child himself.
Parents hope that when their children fall in love, they can find someone who knows the roots, especially college classmates, and are likely to have the same interests and hobbies because they choose the same major. Under such a premise, the love affair of college students will naturally be more stable.
There are more opportunities for boys in college
Although the boys and girls in the university have reached adulthood, in the strong campus atmosphere, the criteria for their choice of lovers are often to pay attention to the personal aspect. For example, whether the other party has development potential, whether it is talented, whether it is tall and handsome, etc., and many of these college boys will have one or two.
However, after entering the society, the girls' mate selection goals will change. They will value each other's occupation and treatment, of course, this is not to say that girls are realistic, but everyone has the right to pursue a better life, so they hope to find a person with excellent conditions in all aspects as a boyfriend, naturally they can understand.
In college, there was less stress in love
Love on campus is often very beautiful, two people in love will not care about each other's family background, material conditions, so from an economic point of view, if boys fall in love in college, then relatively speaking, the economic pressure will be smaller, after all, they have no income at this time.
But after entering the society, it is different, boys will have their own jobs, no matter whether the work is good or bad, as long as they have income, it means that the expenditure on love will continue to increase. After all, there are no boys who like to cut the door, especially for boys who are already working, whether they are willing to spend money for girls often represents whether they are sincere by girls.
If you fall in love in college, what do you need to pay attention to?
Go with the flow
We all know that twisted melons are not sweet, and the same is true of romances on college campuses. We do not recommend that those children fall in love for the sake of love, and of course do not approve of children entering a relationship at will under the influence of vanity, because the ultimate injury must be themselves.
So with a natural mentality, don't look for death and life in love. If this love does not belong to you, then it is better to learn to let go, to believe that there will be better love waiting for you later, and naturally you will be instantly relieved.
Learn to cherish
Maybe the love in college comes easier, and two young people who are in love are likely to become lovers unconsciously, so it will lead to some people not knowing how to cherish, and even hold the mentality of casual talk, which is naturally very undesirable.
No matter how two people know each other and become lovers, they should learn to cherish this relationship. Because many times once you miss it, it will become a regret in your life. So if the other party is really the person you like, then you may wish to work hard and cherish it, because the feelings at this time are the most precious.
When people are looking for a partner, they all want the other party to be as good as possible, but don't forget that the premise is that they are good enough. Therefore, during college, regardless of whether there is a partner or not, everyone should strive to improve themselves, because this will inevitably benefit them a lot.