【The duty director of this article: Director Yang Ping】
"Dear Child" is a play that just looking at the poster will feel suffocated, the stick figure house stands on the belly of the expectant mother, and everything in this home has to change with the birth of the child.
The plot is more suffocating, and every minute and every second is the oppressive feeling brought about by the realistic description.
Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, is about to give birth, and the beginning of the whole drama is that Fang Yinuo removes makeup in front of the mirror, the spots on his face and the stomach with stretch marks appear, even if he is looking forward to the birth of the child, Fang Yinuo still can't help but cry in the mirror.
Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, is Fang Yinuo's husband, and before Fang Yinuo gave birth, he could still be regarded as a "good husband", buying massage and cutting fruits, in short, the surface kung fu was still in place.
Fang Yinuo, a middle school teacher, broke the amniotic fluid in class, but after being sent to the hospital, there was no sign of childbirth, and the doctor told her to stay in bed. Fang Yinuo saw that Xiao Lu's work phone was constant, and he comforted him that it was okay to leave for a while. Xiao Luzhen walked away and felt awkward in her heart, and her husband could not accompany her at the critical moment.
Taking this as an opportunity, the two gradually went farther and farther. Xiao Lu's mother is a bit feudal superstitious, she thinks that the placenta is a big supplement, and specially called Xiao Lu to tell xiao Lu to take the placenta home, and she wants to make up for the second son.
Xiao Lu said no, the actual body is very honest, get the placenta and immediately send it to his mother. Because he wanted to take advantage of everyone's absence to secretly send the placenta, Xiao Lu missed the key moment of Fang Yinuo's delivery room.
At this time, Fang Yinuo had just finished giving birth, not to mention the huge physical discomfort, and he was also very tired psychologically.
When the family returned home, Fang Yinuo and his mother were even more upset when they saw the takeaway and wine bottles on the coffee table, and when Fang Yinuo was working hard to give birth, Xiao Lu was drinking wine and eating at home, which was not comfortable.
After being discharged from the hospital, the child once again pushed two people away. Fang Yinuo's mother has not yet retired and has no kung fu to watch children; Xiao Lu's mother is unreliable and inappropriate to watch children. Fang Yinuo chose a nanny who thought he was reliable, but he was not satisfied.
Fang Yinuo, a new mother, is too sensitive, afraid that others will not look at the child well, one moment suspects that the nanny secretly feeds the child milk powder, and the other moment dislikes the nanny's lack of enthusiasm.
Under the pressure, the nanny did not quit, and the new nanny needed half a month to come. In order to make Fang Yinuo not work so hard, Xiao Lu invited his unreliable mother to take care of the child.
Xiao Mu and Fang Yinuo are completely opposite people. Xiao Mu's experience school, a sentence "I have raised two children and what else will not" can prevaricate all the requirements of Fang Yinuo, and bring the clothes he wore to the baby decades ago, because children wearing old clothes are easy to grow up; Fang Yinuo insists on scientific feeding, and the children remember to urinate and urinate in small books when they eat.
The gap in the cognition of the two people made Fang Yinuo even more collapsed, especially Xiao Mu was unreliable, superstitious, loved to play mahjong, and liked to smoke. Fang Yinuo did not allow anyone in the family to smoke in front of the child, but she could not go out of the house during confinement, and she could not control Xiao Mu's smoking when she went out to walk her baby.
In order to stabilize his wife and mother, Xiao Lu chose to lie and whitewash Taiping, while painstakingly advising his mother not to smoke in front of the child when he went out, and at the same time lied to his wife that his mother did not smoke in front of the child. There is no doubt that the lie will be revealed, making Fang Yinuo more sensitive.
Fang Yinuo found that in the small book that recorded the child's movements in a day, Xiao Mu was all scribbled, and she felt more and more that Xiao Mu was unreliable, and she went out to find the child regardless of Yuezi. At this moment, Xiao Mu was watching others play mahjong on the side of the road, and saw that Xingtou did not pay attention to the stroller sliding down the slope... When Fang Yinuo went out, he saw his baby slid down with the car and finally fell to the ground.
I was so desperate to cry when I watched this, even though I hadn't been a mother yet, and the feeling of being able to make a decision at all was too depressing for me to give my precious treasure to someone else.
This is not the most fatal, there are always more troubles in life than imagined. Xiao Lu has a brother who is not doing his job, because Xiao's mother came to take care of the child, and the brother who did not eat well came to find his mother to go home; at the same time, because Xiao's mother dropped the child, Fang Yinuo's mother also came to the home of the two children to take care of the child.
Five people together is not a chicken feather, it is a chicken farm. Xiao Mu spoke and did things in a low voice because of her own mistakes; Xiao Lu's younger brother had a big temper of soft rice and hard food, was not satisfied with Xiao Mu being called, and always smoked in the house; Fang Mu was polite and decent but actually strong, and spoke and did things without mercy.
The contradiction between the two people gradually escalated into a contradiction between the two families, and small frictions accumulated and finally quarreled. In this drama, the part of the nose pointing to the quarrel is not much, the real quarrel is still making people feel powerless, everyone has a different position, Fang Yinuo's new mother is sensitive and meticulous, Xiao Lu is physically and mentally exhausted in order to maintain the stability of the surface, Fang Mother and Xiao Mother both hope to help their children and fight openly and secretly, Xiao Lu's brother is pure to make trouble, annoying and annoying.
Because everyone is born with a different position, no one can feel empathy for others 100%, so the contradiction is almost impossible to solve, the quarrel is a contradiction in the story, and it is also a deep problem that needs to be solved in the real society.
The plot of the first few episodes of "Dear Child" is this road number, the problems that cannot be solved are placed here, without the beautification of art to solve, and not all the dilemmas in reality can find a perfect way out. It is not about selling anxiety, the plot may look at dog blood, but the lower limit of social news can always break through the imagination of ordinary people.
Xiao Lu's wrongness actually began to hint from the first episode, buying noodles for the pregnant Fang Yinuo, he first enjoyed a chili pepper outside, and then went home to pretend to be considerate to "accompany" his wife to eat a non-spicy; Fang Yinuo was in the tense moment of labor, Xiao Lu watched the ball at home to decompress; frequently lied, obviously had gone home but hid in the car and did not go upstairs, and even lied that he had a job and did not return all night.
Therefore, the plot development of the thousands of turns in the back is not too surprising. At present, there are more and more TV dramas about social issues, but the angles chosen to present and the attitudes they want to express are not the same. "Dear Child" at least makes people see how many difficulties there are when the identity of mother is constantly wrapped in the word greatness.