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In love
，
It's not just a sweet romantic process
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It is also the best time for two people to learn more
Some couples can survive the test and get married
Some find it not suitable to be together
Just like the heroine in the next case
When she found that the two men's concepts and habits were very different
Or choose to break up in hesitation
Juanjuan is an authentic southern girl
Even the delicate voice is particularly recognizable
There is such an only child in the family
Nature is not good for parents to pamper
At home, even a handkerchief was reluctant to let my daughter wash it
Dad, on the other hand, was a notoriously good man
Juanjuan's father is at home to support the family and do housework
How many years
I also didn't let Juanjuan's mother fry a dish
Although her mother was bent on letting Juanjuan find a big money
But Juanjuan was bent on finding a husband who would hurt like her father
soon
The southern girl met a guy from the north in college
Deng Hua
Deng Hua's hometown is in the northeast
After the college entrance examination, he came to the south alone to study
And his tall one of eighty-six meters
Unusually conspicuous in schools
Soon Juanjuan noticed him
Both young men are of love age
After a few chats, I started falling in love
After falling in love, Juanjuan's whole body is radiant
In Deng Hua, she could see the atmosphere of the northern man
You can also see the delicacy of the southern man
In her heart, southern men always have some small family temperament
Not manly enough
The tall and handsome Deng Hua made Juanjuan's girlish feelings greatly satisfied
Walking around Deng Hua is particularly secure
But knowing that the mother would certainly not agree
She had to keep the relationship a secret for the time being
But where in the world are there walls that are impermeable?
The two were in love for less than three months before they were accidentally seen by a neighbor
Juanjuan and Deng Hua were on a date on the commercial street that day
The shoulder-to-shoulder look just happened to be looked at by the downstairs neighbors
Sure enough
As soon as she returned home, her parents came to a three-session trial
Her mother was waiting for her at the door of the house while knitting sweaters
And Dad was also rubbing Mom's shoes
Juanjuan hadn't entered the door yet
He was blocked by his mother
Ask her what she did today
Look at the mother's expression
Juanjuan knew that the love affair was exposed
So he willfully sat down on the couch
Directly admit that you are in love
As soon as mom heard it, she immediately came to the spirit
Sweaters are also not beaten
A jin asked her boyfriend whether he was the boss or Xiao Kai
Juanjuan rolled her eyes in disgust
Said to be part-time workers
Eat with a salary
As a result, the father laughed first
Also sighed
The mother counted down her daughter's eyes
One side talked about the daughter of the next door neighbor
：
“
You look at the daughter of your aunt's house next door
Looks far worse than you
But everyone is married to the United States
！
You say you can't argue a bit
Give your mom a long face
”
Let's get down to it
But I still asked about the young man's family background and plans after graduation
When he learned that Deng Hua was a northerner and that his parents were ordinary workers
Mom turned her face completely
She told her daughter that she had to break up early
Such outsiders will have a lot of trouble in the future
But the wayward Juanjuan did not listen to her mother at all
It is not that when he graduated, he would go back to his hometown with Deng Hua
That's it
The mother's anger was almost unstable
I thought my daughter was just talking to her
But I didn't expect it to be three months later
She really sneaked to Deng Hua's hometown in the northeast
Juanjuan thought of falling in love with Deng Huadu for half a year
Anyway, Deng Hua's family will have to see each other sooner or later
It's better to make a good impression early
For this meeting
Juanjuan also secretly learned to cook from her father at home
Just to be able to perform well in front of the future mother-in-law
So he lied to his parents that he was going on a trip and took the train with Deng Hua.
The train is not fast
Although it is a sleeper
But juanjuan still had back pain when she got out of the car
Deng Hua's home is in an old neighborhood
Although the environment is average
Fortunately, the size of the house is not small
Put a bunch of gifts on the table
Juanjuan greeted Deng Hua's parents politely
Deng Hua's parents responded
While busy making phone calls
It turned out that it was a coincidence that several relatives also happened to be coming
Juanjuan knew that there were still elders coming soon
He took the initiative to run into the kitchen and said that she had come to cook a hand
Deng Hua's mother was a little surprised to hear it
But immediately let the kitchen out
The expression is very satisfied
Juanjuan counts the ingredients in the kitchen
While thinking about playing well
Prepare to make a good impression with your cooking skills
Busy for two hours
She made sweet and sour ribs
Braised pork and other hard dishes
While waiting for the food to be served
Juanjuan was already hungry on her chest and back
Just as she was getting ready to come to the table for dinner
Deng Hua's mother stopped her in the kitchen
The voice is not big or small
You can't get to the table
Our rule here is that when there are guests
Women can't come to the table to eat
You move a stool and eat something in the kitchen
Juanjuan was stunned to hear
This kind of rule is even more unheard of
Although she thought it was ridiculous, at this time she was more angry
Because from start to finish
Deng Hua didn't even come out to help her
She was really sitting on the little bench
Finished eating
Deng Hua sat outside without saying a word
I finished eating that day
Juanjuan bought a ticket home
......
When she returned home, Juanjuan locked herself in her room for several days
Parents have never seen a daughter like this
I thought it was because I was against her falling in love that it had become like this
The mother did not dare to stimulate her daughter at this time
Just let the gentle dad go in and communicate
The father bought his daughter's favorite sugar fried chestnuts and put them on the bedside
Ask your daughter what's going on lately
See the daughter does not speak
Dad continued to ask
Juanjuan
Is it not your mother who is against your love affair?
In fact, your mother hurts you the most
If you really like Daddy, go and persuade again
？
Juanjuan immediately looked up and said
No
Father
I actually went to Deng Hua's hometown the other day
Didn't travel
Dad was speechless in astonishment
The look was full of anxiety
Then he asked with great restraint
that
..
So how do you feel
Have you thought about it?
Juanjuan shook her head in frustration and said
I took the initiative to cook the meal that day
But I made the meal alone
Eating is not eligible for the table
I don't think I can accept this habit.
Juanjuan's father was relieved and went out without asking too much.
He also reassured his wife that juanjuan would handle his feelings.
Sure enough, two days later, Juanjuan still proposed to break up with Deng Hua
Juanjuan in the case fortunately broke up in time
Otherwise, going into marriage must be a constant trouble
This also tells us that women should understand the following two principles before marriage
02
One:
As a woman
Must be before marriage
"Bone in the egg"
Marriage means very different things to men and women
Men are always in a relationship
Have additional pardons and options
And on the issue of marriage
The trials and pressures women face are even more severe
In fact, the more two people are in the unfamiliar stage
The more necessary it is to use a magnifying glass to see the shortcomings of the other party
This pre-marital investigation work
It is very necessary and important
Juanjuan in the case
If you find out after marriage that your in-laws are so feudal and backward
At that time, it will not be easy to get out
Even if it can be divorced
It must have also suffered a lot of grievances and injuries
Remember to walk into marriage
It's not that simple
Not by means of a momentary hormonal impulse
Pick the bones in the eggs before marriage
Maybe it will allow you to avoid a failed marriage
03
Two:
Women are in front of marriage
Remember not to be too emotional
When a woman meets love and marriage
It's always easy to lose your mind
And women who love brains
It's easier to make bad decisions when choosing marriage
In fact, women have to understand
Marriage is a very practical and dangerous thing
So before entering into marriage
You have to be rational
Observe carefully
Before seeing the other person's truest appearance
There is no need to rush into marriage
Women are able to rationally choose marriage
More than just a necessity to survive both
It is also an important check on whether you can be happy in life
The complexity of society
Making marriages more and more dangerous is also becoming more and more dangerous
And reason is when we choose marriage
An effective substance that can be relied upon
04
The burst of love is insane
But the subject of marriage is profound and complex
These two things are the same but completely different
Exactly how can the transition between these two things be accomplished
Maybe it's up to you to be lucky
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