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In the face of pressure from all sides, who has not shouted a few words to a rich woman to ask for support? People always want to take shortcuts, flying up the branches to become a phoenix dream of anyone will do, this aspect is gender-neutral, otherwise people will not create the word phoenix man.
When one party is stronger than the other, the weaker party will gradually have such a mentality that you are stronger than me, then you should pay more, such a mentality is not good. Since you have become a husband and wife, you must bear common responsibilities and obligations, and naturally want others to pay, enjoy the efforts of others, and so on, but forget that others can make you a phoenix but also can make you turn back into a sparrow at any time.
Husband and wife are one and one glory and one loss, externally it is true, internally we are also independent individuals, pay is necessary to have a return, even if they are not equal, but a heart in our no matter too much, but if you enjoy the pay of others with peace of mind, and even have to ask others to pay, do not blame others for beating you back to the original form.
Netizen Xiao Fei met such a husband, and the final result was also very happy, she dumped the scumbag and raised her son alone.
01. Found a so-called considerate husband.
Xiao Fei is rich, very rich, she is an executive in a company, at her age to be able to do such a position is not lacking in suitors, but Qian Xiao Fei is not lacking at all, material needs she can meet herself, what she wants is a person who can be considerate of her to take care of her and care for her, her husband Chen Ming meets such requirements.
Chen Ming is very handsome, otherwise he would not let Xiao Fei fall in love at a glance, Chen Ming after detecting that Xiao Fei was interested in him, he launched a fierce attack on Xiao Fei, and Xiao Fei himself also had a good feeling for Chen Ming, and the two people were naturally together.
Chen Ming's work ability is very general, Xiao Fei also knows that Chen Ming has a face that is useless, Xiao Fei does not care about these, her man is good enough for her, and Chen Ming has also done this, at least before marriage, Xiao Fei has always been very satisfied with Chen Ming, he has done what Xiao Fei thinks her boyfriend should do.
Chen Ming learned cooking for Xiao Fei, Xiao Fei likes to eat desserts, to go to the master to learn baking, Xiao Fei likes to play tennis, he also goes to learn, anyway is to try his best to turn himself into Xiao Fei's ideal boyfriend, Xiao Fei said that she has always felt that Chen Ming this person is very strange, you say that he is not capable of this person, he learns these very quickly, to say that he has the ability to work things but always deal with it badly, can only say that his mind is not put on the right path.
The two people finally chose to get married, Chen Ming's salary is not high, and Xiao Fei is not short of money, symbolically received a little bride price, after marriage Chen Ming naturally moved into Xiao Fei's home, doing his best to do this gentle and considerate husband, of course, most of the family's expenses are Xiao Fei. Chen Ming's hometown is not in this city, he did not tell the friends at home of his marital status, whenever he drove home in that valuable luxury car, Chen Ming actually enjoyed the envious eyes of his friends, and the more he would not say that these things were actually not his.
And it didn't take long for Chen Ming to take over his mother, this is his mother-in-law, Xiao Fei of course will not say anything more, but the mother-in-law is very different from her in many living habits.
02. The husband actually proposed the AA system with her.
After the mother-in-law came, she told Xiao Fei that she could do the housework without spending so much money to hire a nanny. After Chen Ming learned about this matter, he complained to Xiao Fei about how to let his mother work as soon as he came? Xiao Fei also didn't bother to talk to him straight and said that it was your mother who wanted to do it herself, and she couldn't stop it, so she didn't complain about me here.
But the mother-in-law to do housework is always not as meticulous as those professionals, always need Xiao Fei to find someone to clean again, and the mother-in-law's cooking skills are not good, the cooking is always not in line with Xiao Fei's appetite, once even the expensive Aolong bought by Xiao Fei was directly fried with oil, and also fried paste, these Xiao Fei endured, she could not stand is that Chen Ming actually said that his mother is an elder, Xiao Fei should respect his mother. Xiao Fei was simply angry, if she really did not respect Chen Ming's mother, she would not have known how many times she had been angry.
Of course, after Chen Ming realized that he was wrong, he would also apologize to Xiao Fei, but later Xiao Fei found that Chen Ming came to comfort her every time because of money. After the original impulse receded, she wanted to explain what was good about this man, except for the appearance and the inside was an empty shell, nothing to say, Xiao Fei found at this time that although she liked gentle and considerate people, she longed for the kind of person who could match her soul on the same level as her vision, what she wanted was the resonance of the soul.
One of the things that infuriated her the most was that she was temporarily suspended because of some things at work, and she thought of letting Chen Ming take on more responsibilities during this time, and when her position was restored, she would talk about the rest. But what she didn't expect was that what awaited her after returning home was a contract, and Chen Ming wrote this contract as soon as he heard that she was suspended, stipulating that the two people would start the AA system from today. Xiao Fei was surprised by their shamelessness, mother and son usually eat her and drink her and use her, how can people be so faceless, and blame themselves for being blind, she simply signed the contract sharply, and very politely invited the mother and son out of her home.
But Xiao Fei's own work ability is placed there, and the main responsibility for this mistake in the work is not her, it did not take long for the company to notify her to go back to work, this time it was Chen Ming's turn to be dumbfounded, the final result of the short-sighted person was that she could not hold anything, and at this time Xiao Fei also checked that she was pregnant, and it had been three months.
Chen Minglai begged her forgiveness, saying that he was confused for a while before proposing the AA system, he was a bastard, but he was also the father of the child in Xiao Fei's belly, the two people should jointly bear the responsibility of raising the child, he hoped that Xiao Fei could give him another chance.
"This child is in my belly, and it will also be born in my October pregnancy, you just provided a sperm from beginning to end, and wanted to use this to kidnap my whole life, this wishful thinking really rang out, I can give my child a better life and a better education, he doesn't need you, the so-called father." 」 After saying that, he politely invited Chen Ming out.
One day Chen Ming complained in his circle of friends, but forgot to shield Xiao Fei, he sent a sentence that my wife is really cruel, I would rather have children to bear the cost, rather than cancel the AA system. Xiao Fei felt that this person was too ridiculous, and replied that how he did it as if it was my fault, is this AA system not what you mentioned, how do you regret it now, she still wants to comment on something, and the circle of friends is deleted by Chen Ming.
No matter how lowly Chen Ming begged, Xiao Fei's heart had already decided, Chen Ming's kind of man stayed around to do what, raising a pig can kill and eat for the New Year, Chen Ming will only add to the blockage, the two individuals divorced, after the child was born, it was also the grandson that Chen Ming's mother wanted in her heart, but with Xiao Fei in the middle, the two individuals could not see their sons.
AA system is the husband and wife family or friends between the average sharing of economic expenditure, he has advantages and disadvantages, everyone has a ledger in their hearts, no one wants to be the party who suffers losses, the AA system is to solve this contradiction, his drawback is that if the division is too clear, the feelings will naturally fade. But many people put forward the AA system, his essence is actually to protect their own interests, do not want to take too much responsibility from the family, such a person is naturally very irresponsible, as soon as possible to separate as well.
Couples who really live in harmony will not overemphasize the family responsibilities that everyone has to bear, they are considerate of each other, and they understand that the payment and return are proportional, and they will work together to advance and retreat, rather than choosing to fly separately in the face of great difficulties.
Blindly enjoying everything brought by others, this kind of feeling is deformed in the end, one side is really economically paid, the other side is verbal, action is also for their own purposes, and there is no need to maintain it if they cannot achieve balance.
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