"My husband found a pair of unsuitable high heels in the trunk, and I ended my ten-year marriage and let myself go"

Surprise has become something that young people are looking forward to more and more, maybe for their ordinary life, suddenly there is a person to prepare a surprise for her, it will be the most memorable thing in life, but many times we will find that the surprise may become frightened in an instant, so that we can not realize that we have been hurt in this surprise.

Most people are willing to prepare surprises, it must be some important festival, or what anniversary, because only in this way, both sides will deliberately prepare surprises for each other, if you say that the ordinary day, you prepare a surprise, may also cause a psychological burden to others.

In our lives, basically girls prefer surprises, because for them, surprises may indicate that the other half cares about themselves, expresses the love for themselves in the other half, if the other party is not prepared for anything, then the relationship between the two people may not be so close.

It is Yuhua who shares the story today.

The transformation of marriage

Speaking of Yuhua and her husband two people married, there have been ten years of time, from the initial two people's feelings were opposed and questioned by their parents, to now the two people have become bland, sometimes Yuhua feels that he should not be so plain with her husband, maybe such a mediocre feeling, in the end there will be no good results.

But what kind of story of a ten-year marriage can have a drowsy love affair? Two people have been married for ten years, neither side has children, initially they were also urged by each other's parents, but the two people think that each other's feelings are good now, if there are children, the feelings may change, so if so, let it be natural, so until now they have no children.

Yuhua felt that the two people did not have children, so they would go to the nursing home when they were old, so that the two sides could still be together, and there were many partners around. What she didn't expect was that her husband had recently become more strange, and her former husband didn't want to travel at all, he felt that traveling was too tired, it was better to stay at home, and earn so much money every month.

Now the husband does not know whether it is because of the upgrade, or because of other reasons often travel, and each time is several days, Yuhua feels very strange, he wants to talk to her husband, after all, the two people do not have children, there is no need to work so hard. The husband said: "Before, I always thought that the two of us were plain and simple, but now it is not necessarily, you said that in case we have no economic foundation, but it is not OK, so I should still go out and earn more money." ”

In the face of her husband's attitude, Yuhua felt that she was happy to die, others were eager for her husband to go out to earn money, and she wanted her husband to accompany her at home. He thought that his happy life could be maintained like this, but all this was blossomed by the rain, and her husband's car went out to play with his girlfriend, and found that the problems in the car had changed.

Spot problems and question your husband

Yesterday Yuhua's girlfriend called him and asked her to go out to the mall together, Yuhua said: "Okay, then let's go out in the afternoon, just at that time my husband came back, then I drove his car to go, so that the two of us are also convenient, there is no need to take a taxi every time, and things to buy more, it is very hard." ”

Therefore, after her husband returned, Yuhua went out directly with the car keys and did not tell her husband about this matter. After walking around with her girlfriend, she bought a lot of things and was ready to put them in the trunk, she found a pair of shoes in the trunk. The girlfriend said: "You are a really strange person, we both went out shopping, why do you still have a pair of shoes behind you?" ”

Yuhua said, "What, people just drove back, it must be people's shoes, I never drive, there is basically nothing about me on this car." The girlfriend said: "Impossible thing, you see that these shoes are a pair of women's shoes, is it not a surprise prepared by your husband for you, and you were bumped into by the two of us?" ”

Yuhua glanced at her girlfriend, but with great anticipation in her heart, she said, "Or I will open it and take a look, in case it is a style I like?" Yuhua opened it to see that the shoes were not particularly new, and Yuhua said: "This does not look like a new pair of shoes, you see that this side is worn, it is estimated that it is not for me." The girlfriend said: "If it is not for you, it will be strange, you said that your husband just came back from a business trip, how can there be a pair of women's shoes in the car?" Could it be that your husband is cheating? ”

Yuhua said, "Oh, don't be fooled, this may mean that I finished wearing it one day and threw it into someone's car." The girlfriend said: "It's okay, let's try it to know, if it's not your yard, we will take it up and ask your husband what is going on?" How can I betray my good girlfriend? Both of you have been married for more than a decade. ”

Yuhua said, "Okay, then I'll try." After trying for half a day, Yuhua found that his feet could not be stuffed in, this time he was sure that it was definitely not his own shoes, and his girlfriend was in front of him, the other party must have felt that her husband was cheating in his heart, Yuhua said: "I remembered, some time ago she told me that she sent her colleague home, it may be her colleague' bar!" The girlfriend didn't want to say anything when she saw him, so she didn't continue to ask.

There is a problem with the relationship between husband and wife

After Yuhua sent her girlfriend back, she took the shoes back, and just at this time her husband woke up, and her husband saw the shoe box on the table and asked, "You took the shoes from my trunk?" Yuhua did not speak, and her husband shouted, "How can you not look at it?" Just go up and get this thing, it's not yours, it's in my trunk. ”

Yuhua couldn't bear it, she said, "What kind of temper have you lost with me, and I haven't had time to question you yet?" Why is there another woman's shoe in your trunk, and this shoe is not a new shoe, obviously, he did not buy it for me, how can he put whose shoes he put? Who did you go out on a business trip with? Why do people put everything in your car? ”

The husband said, "Isn't it just a pair of shoes?" Do you have so many questions? Yuhua said, "I know that I have been with you for ten years, and it is my problem to have a child for you, but you can't choose to cheat, so why don't we have a ten-year relationship between the two of us, doesn't this matter?" The husband felt that his wife was unreasonable, he did not speak, Yuhua said: "Since I have found out, then simply the two of us will divorce, I really can't stand to talk to others want to use a husband What is it like?" So I think since you've cheated on you, let's end the relationship. ”

The husband listened, and did not want to hide it, he said: "I did cheat on our ten years of feelings but can not withstand this person, for me, he gave me a more disgusted feeling, so I think people are better than you, although you filed for divorce, then the two of us signed the agreement, right?" I was ready for it, and I didn't know how to talk to you. "In the end, the two men signed the divorce agreement, and the two sides never bothered each other's lives again.

Later, a friend asked Yuhua how to get divorced, and Yuhua said calmly: "My husband found a pair of unsuitable high heels in the trunk, and I ended my ten-year marriage and let myself go." ”

Many times, we always feel that others are preparing surprises for themselves, as long as they don't know, but in real life, surprises may often become frightened, one second you will feel that others are preparing everything for you, and the next second you will find that people may just leave you and prepare all this.

Emotional things, each of us groping different, most people in the emotional world pretending to be crazy and stupid, everyone feels that since two people are together, then cherish each other's lives, don't always calculate the gains and losses of two people, if everyone calculates these things, then it will definitely be unhappy in the end, after all, no one wants to lose something themselves.

So no matter how many years your marriage has, it needs to be managed well, don't always think about using time to beat everything, but you push all the problems to time, you don't pay any effort, then you will inevitably have a contradiction in the end, or there will always be someone in your relationship who cheats first, instead of this, it is better to concentrate on business from the beginning to avoid encountering various problems in the later stage.

Today's topic: If you were Yuhua, what would you do?

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