The feast is everywhere in the world, although it is said that if you love someone, you will hope to be together for a lifetime.
However, not every love in this world can come to the end. Some people, even if they are very in love at the beginning, but as they walk, they may one day come to the end of love.
At this time, there is no point in staying and pestering again, so it is better to separate earlier, give each other more opportunities, and meet more people. Feelings are like this, after the division and integration, it may be easier to find the good person who belongs to him.
Generally speaking, in the face of a breakup, grasp these three red lines, so as not to regret it.
There is no need for any more intimate contact
Love well when you love, and if you don't love when you say it, then scatter well. Love between men and women is what it is.
When you are willing to accompany each other, it will naturally regard you as the most important existence. But if you've decided to leave, why should you be the closest person?
In the face of a breakup, intimate contact is a red line. Once such a decision has been made, it means that no matter how close you were before, you have returned to the position of a friend, or even a stranger, there is no need for any intimate contact.
Otherwise, it is actually letting the other party take advantage, and one day they will regret it.
Try to be clear on the material level
When you love, you only talk about feelings without talking about money, and after you don't love, you don't have to take care of so many feelings anymore, but there should be one to say.
It is not that people are so realistic, but in the story of feelings, a lot of regrets and grievances are not who loves who a little more, but who pays a little more.
Therefore, in the face of a breakup, we must grasp the red line of material and try to make the money clear, so as not to regret it. Otherwise, once separated, you are just ordinary friends, or even strangers, and then look for each other to compensate, it is actually impossible.
Therefore, you must make the money thing clear, even if it is your things, which are the debts of the other party, although love is not like marriage, but the breakup should also be like divorce, leaving no trouble.
Don't hurt yourself for the sake of the other person
The skin of the body is subject to the parents. In the love story, the most stupid thing is to save the other party, at the expense of hurting themselves, to get the sympathy of the other party.
Of course, if you are in love with each other and are sure that you will be together for the rest of your life, then sometimes, in order to protect each other, in special circumstances, you may indeed let yourself be hurt for each other.
However, in the face of the breakup, you should be dashing, don't hurt yourself for the sake of the other party, and must grasp this red line well so that you will not regret it.
Otherwise, if you hurt yourself, in the end, not only will you not win his back, but on the contrary, you may be looked down upon.