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Phoenix man was born poor, after some achievements, he became a little vain, always like to show off with people, hear others praise and praise for himself, which is very unfavorable to him, modesty makes people progress, pride makes people backward, if he begins to become arrogant, it is difficult to achieve further success.
There are some phoenix men who marry a wife from a wealthy family, because of the relationship between his wife, he lives a carefree life, but in order to satisfy his vanity, he lies to his family, saying that everything he has now is obtained by his own efforts, and his family will of course be proud of him.
The mother of the phoenix man feels that her son is so excellent, the daughter-in-law is not worthy of the son, she will humiliate the daughter-in-law and the family, but in fact, she was deceived by her son, underestimated the strength of the daughter-in-law's family, and made a big joke, which not only disgraced herself, but also ruined everything that her son had, and she could not enjoy the happiness with her son.
Today's story comes from the sharing of netizen Li Fei.
Lie to your mother
Li Fei is a phoenix man, he came out of a poor small mountain village, met and fell in love with his wife Duning in college, and as soon as he graduated, he entered Duning's father's company to work.
Li Fei was a very good person, coaxed Du Ning and her parents around, and it didn't take long to marry Du Ning and take control of the company.
When Li Fei and Duning got married, he rented a few luxury cars back to his hometown to pick up relatives and friends, his mother did not expect that he was now mixed so well, Li Fei did not tell his mother that these were all brought to him by Duning, but triumphantly showed off.
"Mom, your son is very powerful, I am now the leader of the company, living in a villa, going out and driving a luxury car, you will follow me to enjoy the blessings, no longer need to live such a hard life as before."
"Son, you are really powerful, your mother did not train you in vain, and our family's life will definitely get better and better in the future."
The mother made jokes in front of her wife and father-in-law and mother-in-law
Li Fei's mother did not know what Du Ning's family was doing, in her opinion, Du Ning was not worthy of her son at all, her son was so good, he should marry a better wife.
After Du Ning and Li Fei got married, living in a big villa, Li Fei's mother was not willing to go back to her hometown, she wanted to enjoy the blessings with her son, she watched Du Ning spend so much money every day, she was very unhappy, in her opinion, Du Ning spent all the money earned by her son, but in fact, Li Fei was working for Du Ning.
Du Ning grew up pampered and habitual, naturally will not change his living habits because of his mother-in-law's one or two sentences, Li Fei's mother was angry, and told Li Fei about this matter.
"Son, you said you were so good, how did you marry such a wife?" I see that she is simply useless, and she will spend money indiscriminately, so you call her parents and I will teach her poor ghost mother's family a lesson. ”
Li Fei did not think that his mother would do too much, so he called Duning's parents to come to the house for dinner.
Du Ning's family not only has money, but also the parents are highly educated and educated, and when they came, they brought a lot of gifts, and Li Fei's mother felt that those gifts must have been bought with her son's money, so she began to taunt Du Ning's parents.
"Dear family, don't you have money to buy any gifts?" Isn't it ridiculous to spend my son's money on a gift for me? I am not rare at all, what I lack, my son will buy it for me, why take my son's money to save face? ”
Listening to what Li Fei's mother said, Du Ning's parents looked puzzled and did not understand what she was saying.
Since my son likes your daughter, I will not say anything more, but you can't spend my son's money unscrupulously, my son earns more, but his money is not blown by the wind, since your daughter married my son, your family has relied on my son to support, don't you think it is too much?" You say that you are not very old, you have hands and feet, why can't you go out and earn money on your own? ”
Du Ning's parents finally understood what Li Fei's mother was saying, they did not understand, how the daughter married Li Fei is Gao Pan, the daughter's conditions with Li Fei are more than enough, their family is not a person who is poor and loves the rich, and did not dislike Li Fei because of his bad birth, but they did not expect That Li Fei's mother would actually say such a thing, and they also felt that their family was now dependent on Li Fei to support themselves.
Du Ning couldn't stand it, her mother-in-law had been saying all kinds of ugly things, and she didn't want to worry about her mother-in-law out of upbringing, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to say such excessive things to her parents.
"Mom, which eye of yours sees that our family is supported by Li Fei, Li Fei is working for me, he works in our family's company, our family is not short of money at all, how can you rely on him to support it, the villa you live in now, the car you go out in, are all my dowries, I ask you to figure it out and then talk."
"What are you talking about?" This house belongs to my son, and the car belongs to my son, so how can my son work for you? I don't believe it. ”
At that time, Li Fei returned, and the mother-in-law hurriedly ran over and asked Li Fei what was going on?
In front of his father-in-law and mother-in-law and wife, Li Fei could not continue to lie, so he could only frankly tell his mother that all this was brought to him by Duning, and his mother suddenly sat down on the ground.
Li Fei's mother underestimated the strength of her daughter-in-law's family and made a joke in front of her family and daughter-in-law, and she really felt that she had lost face.
Ruined everything you had
When Du Ning learned that it was because Li Fei lied to his mother-in-law, her mother-in-law would say these words, and she was indignant.
"How can you lie? The villa we live in, the luxury car you drive, is it through your own efforts? If you hadn't married me, would you have become the general manager? I'm so blind, I'm going to marry you, divorce, I don't want to live with you. ”
When Li Fei's mother heard her daughter-in-law's divorce proposal, she immediately panicked, so she ran over to beg her daughter-in-law's forgiveness, saying that it was all her fault and had nothing to do with Li Fei, but Du Ning did not pay any attention to what she said.
Everyone has their own bottom line that cannot be touched, Duning can not accept others lying, so she resolutely wants to divorce, Li Fei quickly got the divorce agreement signed by Duning, the two people got married not long ago to this step, and the family property has nothing to do with him, he also knows that even if he does not sign, Duning will also go to sue, for the sake of face, he still signed the divorce agreement.
Li Fei's mother originally wanted to humiliate Du Ning and her parents, but she did not expect to beat herself back to the farm, after divorcing Duning, the villa was gone, the luxury car was gone, Li Fei's job was gone, the cost in the city was very large, Li Fei could not find a suitable job for a while, and could only send his mother back to his hometown.
Everyone has vanity, this is very normal, but can not use lies to satisfy their vanity, do so will only put yourself into an embarrassing situation, you simply can not tell their own lies back, no matter at any time, you should live frankly, if you are not so good at present, you should continue to work hard to achieve their goals, must not use lies to maintain their own image, and when your lies are exposed, your painstaking image will collapse.
The vanity of the phoenix man is often stronger than that of ordinary people, because they have suffered too much and white eyes before, so they need the attention and praise of others, but an excellent person will not live in the praise of others, he clearly knows that he has a few pounds, and will only gain a sense of security through continuous efforts, rather than living in a fabricated lie.
It is difficult for a woman to tolerate her partner's deception of herself, she is willing to fight with her partner, and she can accept that her partner has nothing, but she cannot tolerate her partner cheating on herself, in a marriage, cheating and betrayal is the bottom line that cannot be touched, if someone steps on this bottom line, the marriage will come to an end.
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