Story: Back at my mother's house, I was pulled by my mother-in-law with a piece of blue and purple, and my mother sat on the kang without making a sound
In the northeastern countryside in the 1980s, the widow Liu Xiuqin turned over and couldn't sleep. In the seven or eight years since her husband died, Liu Xiuqin was basically abused by her mother-in-law.
Liu Xiuqin was frightened for a while, and went back to her mother's house and said to her mother that she had not dared to sleep for half a month, and now she was all a picture of my mother-in-law and my little uncle and daughter-in-law strangled to death.
Her mother-in-law advised her: Bear with it, it is not easy to get in and out of a family, how to serve your mother-in-law away, you remarry, or the people in the village gossip.
Liu Xiuqin is the only female teacher in the village, loves to dress up, and is the eldest daughter-in-law of her mother-in-law Wang Yue'e.
Wang Yue'e had three sons and a girl, and the eldest son had been dead for many years (legend has it that he committed suicide). Since the death of her eldest son, her mother-in-law Wang Yue'e has always looked down on Liu Xiuqin, saying that a widow dresses so gorgeously every day and goes out to show off.
The mother-in-law did not let Liu Xiuqin wear high heels and asked her, and you could only wear them when the second daughter-in-law was not at home. Every time she went out, her mother-in-law was eager to experience Liu Xiuqin's whole body: what does a widow do when she dresses beautifully! The mother-in-law Wang Yue'e was obviously toward the second daughter-in-law, obviously doing nothing wrong, afraid that she would run away one day.
The mother-in-law had a birthday, Liu Xiuqin bought a dress for her mother-in-law, and the second daughter-in-law said it was ugly. The second daughter-in-law is especially good at provoking trouble, and every time she quarrels with her in-laws, she provokes them.
In fact, in the third year after her husband's death, Liu Xiuqin had long wanted to leave this family.
Because her mother-in-law mentally abused herself, and her own mother did not understand herself, Liu Xiuqin once took a bottle of sleeping tablets and almost swallowed! Finally, I was robbed by my mother-in-law: I want to die, and I will die behind me!
Her mother-in-law, Wang Yue'e, originally had an aunt and Liu Xiuqin in the same school, both teachers.
The girl has no status at home, the whole family always bullies the young aunt, and finally the aunt and the girl divorced.
After the divorce, the mother-in-law always gossiped with the people in the village, saying that the eldest daughter-in-law and her third aunt also hooked up, and ran to school for a long time. My aunt was an honest man, a lonely personality, no father and no mother, and later he committed suicide by drinking medicine, leaving a poor child.
Mother-in-law Wang Yue'e scolded Liu Xiuqin, on the one hand, she complained that Xiuqin did not take good care of her eldest son, on the one hand, the second daughter-in-law picked inside and out, and the second daughter-in-law hated Liu Xiuqin for having a good job and a good look. Always talk about her affair in front of her mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law beat me and scolded me, saying I was a broom star! The second daughter-in-law always denigrates me! Liu Xiuqin and her mother said.
You can't stay away from the man in the future! This sentence of the mother deeply stimulated Liu Xiuqin, and even this sentence of the mother had more weight than the abuse of the mother-in-law for several years.
Liu Xiuqin completely collapsed, and her soul was not guarded for a while.
Wang Yue'e's third son, that is, Liu Xiuqin's younger brother-in-law, got married, and the third daughter-in-law who just entered the door was spicy, more cunning than her mother-in-law, and she was not a fuel-saving lamp. The mother-in-law can only clip her tail and be a person, she is tired of dealing with the third daughter-in-law, there is no extra time to be difficult for Liu Xiuqin.
After the little uncle and daughter-in-law entered the door, the mother-in-law drove Liu Xiuqin to live in the small room.
The mother-in-law said that the house was hers, and not a single brick was yours! Give Liu Xiuqin a single room to lean against the toilet, and Liu Xiuqin cooks rice on the side of the family's toilet.
That day Liu Xiu'e cried for a long time. After the death of her husband, the mother-in-law lay in bed for two years, taking care of herself, and the sister-in-law did not extend a hand, and now they jointly bully themselves!
Now that she has been driven to live by the toilet, her mother-in-law has taken her second daughter-in-law to the sky, and she has seen her third daughter-in-law and a rat like a cat.
The mother-in-law is grasping the weakness of a cultural person, does not dare to tear her face, and desperately bullies to death, and makes up for nothing.
The in-laws say bad things about themselves everywhere, and Xiuqin hopes that her mother's family can speak to herself, at least she can care about herself, but her mother's attitude makes Xiu'e completely lose the courage to live.
At that time, she didn't talk much, and Liu Xiuqin was even more reluctant to make contact with people.
One morning, Liu Xiuqin walked around the dry well in the courtyard for half a day, wanting to jump. Suddenly, a cat came out and meowed at her feet, and for a moment, she thought of her husband, who was a filial piety!
The husband was actually forced to die by his mother-in-law! The husband is the adopted son of the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law does this to herself, the husband wants to speak for himself, but forced by the prestige of the adoptive mother, in the end the husband himself can not think of it...
My husband has suffered, he has suffered sins, I am dead, what will happen to my children?
Xiuqin knew that when her mother-in-law said in front of her neighbors that she had provoked men, she was actually letting herself give up her children and then sweep herself out of the house! The last straw that overwhelmed him was the suspicion of his own mother.
Xiuqin said that one second she was still washing fruit for her mother-in-law to eat, and the next second she was scratched by her mother-in-law, if it were not for the neighbors, she would be smashed to death by her mother-in-law with a fan! What was even more infuriating was that the second daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law complained that I had stolen the beans she planted.
Xiu'e returned to her mother's house in the last few days and complained to her mother, but her mother only cared about knitting sweaters and did not talk.
He has been bullied all these years, and her husband has not supported himself and committed suicide. The mother's family does not speak for themselves...
Liu Xiuqin's liver and intestines were cut off at this time, and she wanted to become a shrew, but she couldn't do it herself. Depression every day.
Finally, Liu Xiuqin wrote a suicide note:
No one can appreciate what it's like to be abandoned by someone closest to them! How my mother-in-law treats me, I can bear it, my own mother does this, I really feel desperate!
After the separation of the family, all the dishes of the mother-in-law's family will not be poured into the gutter and will not be eaten by me. The mother-in-law preferred sons to daughters, just because the second daughter-in-law gave birth to two sons, walking with her nostrils facing the sky. After I gave birth to my daughter, she was not to be seen for a hundred...
When I went back to my mother's house, my mother was on the kang, and I saw that my legs were blue and purple, and I didn't say a word.
After writing the suicide note, Xiuqin, full of hatred in her head, went directly to the kitchen to pick up the knife and smashed it on her mother-in-law's bedside table.
Liu Xiuqin decided not to go against the grain and completely broke out. That night, Xiuqin shouted a word of conscience for the first time: If you move me again, this knife will not be on the nightstand, do you believe it!
The mother-in-law was so frightened that she did not dare to close her eyes one night.
The next day, on the Qingming Festival, the mother-in-law went to sweep the grave and let the second daughter-in-law greet Xiuqin. Xiuqin stared fiercely: I will not go! The whole family returns to find that Xiuqin has jumped into the well.
Liu Xiuqin hated her bottomless tolerance, but in the bones of her mother's family, after her daughter married out, she did not treat her as a family.
As Liu Xiuqin wrote in her suicide note: Once a woman is married, her husband is her day, and her children are her destiny. Today, the sky is gone, nothing is gone.
Unfortunate marriages are mostly formed by the joint action of both parties, if it were not for Liu Xiuqin's bottomless tolerance, her husband would despise life so much! The mother's family does not pay attention to it, the in-laws are abused, and Liu Xiuqin will not go to the end of the road.
Neighbors believe that in the matter of Liu Xiuqin, this sentence of the biological mother seems to have become an accomplice of the mother-in-law.
What do you think?