In an interview, when AngelaBaby was asked about her child's interest class, Baby confessed that she was a "chicken blood mother". Although Spongebob is only 3 years old, in addition to the normal kindergarten study, he has to take 5 additional homework lessons a week: drawing, roller skating, skiing, English and Chinese classes.
3-year-old children, it is the age of liveliness and fun, it is not easy to start learning early, it is not easy to think. But the baby is frank and afraid that the child will lose at the starting line, so at the age of 3, he began to cultivate the child's interest in all aspects.
In the cultivation of children's interests, mothers in the world are the same! The same anxiety, the same "chicken blood". Can't help but think of the examples around me, spent more than 500,000 yuan in 6 years, signed up for more than 10 interest classes, and the child did not stick to the 3rd grade of primary school.
It cost more than 500,000 yuan in 6 years, applied for more than 10 interest classes, and one did not stick to it
Friends and lovers are only children, both parents doctors, accountants retired, the family conditions are very good. With the third generation, grandpa, grandma, grandma, and grandpa are going to do whatever it takes to raise children from an early age.
I heard that girls play the piano better, and bought the piano early. From the age of 3, I enrolled my children in many interest classes.
Every week children take piano, drawing, lego, roller skating, eloquence, dance, science experiments, taekwondo and English lessons. Weekends are full of queues, and classes are held at other times.
In the second year of dance practice, the teacher began to teach the child to lower his waist and split the fork, and also asked to practice the basic skills every day, and the child practiced crying once and saying that his legs hurt. The old man looked at the pain and said that he did not expect to dance in the future, and his legs would not practice if he hurt.
Lego studied for a year, and the little girl felt that the interpolation was not interesting to stop; after 3 years of painting practice, she did not like it very much, nor did she insist on it.
In the first grade, my friend reported calligraphy to the child again, because the weekend time was really not open, and the elementary school stopped a few interest classes.
In the 3rd grade, the cultural curriculum became more difficult, the learning task was heavy, and the piano lessons that the children had always insisted on were also more and more difficult because of the more difficult the examination repertoire was practiced, and they could not persist, so they chose not to learn again.
From 3 years old to 9 years old, children like to want to report and friends they feel good, large and small children have signed up for more than 10 interest classes, and now most of these interests are because they don't like it, too far away too time-consuming, too difficult, and children can't stick to it and give up.
And now when friends want to give their children another big language and composition improvement, children are afraid of difficulties and do not want to learn.
In the child's interest class, friends regret it, invested more than 500,000 yuan in 6 years, spent so much energy and time, the child did not stick to it, and now encounters some difficulties The child wants to give up, hey, nothing persisted to the end.
We all hope that children are excellent, from childhood to children to report a lot of interest classes, but psychologist Li Meijin teacher said: interest classes are not more the better, some interest classes have no effect and waste energy and waste money, these 3 kinds of interest classes have almost no effect on children.
These 3 kinds of interest classes do not need children to participate, and it has almost no effect on them
1. Interest classes that do not conform to the laws of children's psychological development and growth
In recent years, many educational institutions have seized the educational anxiety of parents, and children have fooled their parents into enrolling in classes before the age of 3, some of which are obviously not in line with the growth and development laws of children at this time, such as the roller skating class of baby to the small sponge newspaper.
3-year-old children, the balance system is not perfect, the leg bones are still growing stage, at this time learning roller skating, with a certain danger, serious and even lead to child leg deformation.
Roller skating lessons are good, but for 3-year-old children, it is not in line with the growth and development of children at this time.
In addition, there are some courses that claim to be able to improve quickly, and they are not suitable for registration. For example, "fast reading", which was all the rage in previous years. The training said that they can read 3,000 Chinese characters a minute, and after their training, the reading speed and reading volume can be increased by more than 10 times.
When they are training, they let children read strong story articles, and after reading, children can remember 60% of the plot, say specific scenes and character dialogues, and use this method to declare that children can read more than 5 million words a month.
It is such a simple scam, many parents spend high prices to enroll their children in classes, but in fact, it has no effect.
Regarding reading speed, brain scientists have done research: reading is limited by the human eye jump, the human eye can only gaze at 3-4 Chinese characters at a time, and people with good reading habits read 1100 words a minute.
In real life, no one can look at ten lines at a glance and understand the details of a book at the same time.
Therefore, the interest classes that claim to cultivate prodigies and the interest classes that do not conform to the laws of children's growth and development are mostly false and unsuitable interest classes that cater to the needs of parents.
2. Interest classes that children don't like
My classmates said that she learned the piano when she was a child, but in fact, she didn't like it at all. Every day after writing homework, her mother forced her to practice the piano, and she did not want to play anymore, because her mother at home was relatively strong, and her resistance was useless, from the second grade of primary school to the second grade of junior high school, until the piano level ten certificate was obtained.
She basically did not play the piano when she was busy with high school courses, went to college, left home and finally did not have to practice the piano, and did not touch the piano again after work.
Speaking of the experience of being forced to learn the piano by her mother when she was a child, she said that it was all painful, even if she was forced to learn it by her mother, she would not touch it after work, because she really did not like it.
Therefore, the interest class that children do not like is difficult to adhere to, and it is not very helpful to children.
3. Training courses with imperfect qualifications
Today's training institutions have uneven qualifications. Many new teachers have no experience with children, and if they are not careful, they will cause great harm to children. In particular, interest classes with high professional requirements such as dance.
In previous years, there have been many reports of children's lumbar spine and spine injuries caused by excessive force, excessive weight-bearing splitting or insufficient strength in the lower back.
Therefore, the choice of interest classes and small training institutions with imperfect qualifications must be cautious when choosing.
How to choose interest classes for your child and cultivate your child's interests
1. According to the child's interests and hobbies
Interest is the best teacher, and children really like it from the heart, so that they will not feel bored.
For example, my daughter likes to draw very much, from childhood likes graffiti, the older to paint colors, draw lines, paint landscapes, once a week painting class for my daughter, not class but play, because like, children learn not to feel tired at all.
2, interest classes do not report too much, choose 2-3 long-term persistence is good
There are too many interest classes, children are tired and have not learned well, and children's weekend time is occupied by interest classes, there is no time to play, and children are not happy.
Teacher Li Meijin suggested that there should be no more than two a week, and set aside two and a half days for children to play.
3. The combination of dynamic and static activities in interest classes
When children learn dance, music and other interest classes, cheerful music and rhythm, emotions come particularly fast, and children are prone to impatience for a long time.
At this time, learn a quiet interest, such as painting, chess, etc., the combination of dynamic and static extracurricular classes, to make up for their own shortcomings, to cultivate children's personality optimistic, cheerful, but not impatient.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!