For the rest of your life, please advise more, in the current relationship, it can be said that it has done a good guidance demonstration.
The little couple eats a jealousy, makes a twist, has a misunderstanding, says a breakup, bows his head and apologizes, experiences some things, more and more identify with each other, and every step is the restoration of the little couple's love relationship.
But let's talk about what the two protagonists gained at the beginning of this relationship, in addition to love.
Gu Wei's biggest gain is in the workplace and growing up in himself.
Gu Wei is a genius doctor, the medical skills are not said, but probably from childhood homework is too smooth, received less blows, so the first time lost his hand on his teacher's surgery, this is simply a double blow, so that he has a psychological disorder, can no longer smoothly pick up the scalpel, which is fatal to a surgeon's career.
The teacher he respects, the person who guides himself into the industry, he failed to save himself, it is a blow to everyone, although his operation is no problem, the teacher's family also understands him, but it is indeed not easy to survive the level in his heart.
In fact, shortly before being fired by Lin Zhixue, Gu Wei had an operation, he had a psychological disorder, but as a doctor's instinct is to treat diseases and save people, but after the operation, he was afraid in his heart, and his hands were shaking in front of the washstand, which once again proved that his medical skills were no problem, but it also invisibly increased his psychological burden.
It is conceivable that if there is a next time, Gu Wei may still be able to stand firmly in front of the operating table, but he will probably try his best to avoid such a next time.
Whether it is that he himself loves this profession more, so he also wants to overcome difficulties, or Lin Zhixue put himself in the same psychologically hurt but repeatedly defeated posture to open up small talk, so that he has further courage to overcome psychological obstacles, but this is an opportunity, let Gu Wei completely get rid of the psychological magic barrier, successfully pick up the scalpel, continue to be a surgeon, do what he wants to do, this undoubtedly changed Gu Wei's life, otherwise he will have to do research, maybe then he can also make good results, but, That's a second-ditch choice.
After that, the medical incident exposed that Gu Wei was an evasive personality, he shut down to escape, let the people in the investigation team wait for him, others were looking for evidence for him, talking, only himself, missing, and his girlfriend saw the parents for the first time in front of the old man, unable to give a lifelong commitment, unable to face a man's career setbacks in a short period of time, and only wanted to be quiet.
It is understandable that these short-term avoidant personalities may be able to summon up the courage to face difficulties after they are calm enough, but no one is waiting in the same place.
After time has passed, the position may not be vacant, and the girlfriend may not look back.
This incident is an opportunity for the growth of Gu Wei's personality, when he has not completely recovered to the time when he thinks he can face it, he chooses not to wait for the perfect self to appear, bravely comes out to face it, and can tolerate the timely and safe second operation of the patient when doubting his faith, which is a testimony to his inner strength.
And the School of the Forest?
In the TV series, the growth of Lin Zhi school is not in the career line, mentioning that she overcomes difficulties and plays the cello is not much, many places are Lin Zhi School playing the violin frustrated, a setback on the tripod, mentioned that the biggest thing is that she hurt her hand in order to practice the piano, got tenosynovitis to rest, more is to show the tenacity of an ordinary girl's perseverance.
Therefore, the growth of Lin Zhi school is not in the career, but in the family.
As when discussing the marriage of two people, Lao Lin and Gu Wei's parents said that Lin Zhixue was not smart, but he was brave, kind and tenacious, and he would definitely be able to support a family.
This conversation, the words of Lin Zhixue's parents, is not an exaggeration to say that it can be enshrined and properly anti-terrorist marriage.
Before Old Lin did not get sick, Lin Zhi School was like a child who was late for the rebellious period, everything needed to be worried about by adults and needed to be taken care of, but when Old Lin was sick and Ms. Li's psychological defense line was also somewhat untenable, it was Lin Zhi School who stood in front of her parents, and she seemed to grow up overnight.
After that, she fell in love with Gu Wei, she was completely in love with Xiao Bai, and did not open the trick, but after the opening, she understood what love was and bravely resolved the contradiction between the two.
Knowing that Gu Wei is busy, she can wait, know what is the complexity, can accept a person waiting for a movie to end Gu Wei before appearing, and then can be particularly happy and the staff said that this is my boyfriend, he will be late, but never miss the appointment.
Although she is ordinary, but this kind of acceptance, but how many girls can not do open-minded, wait for the boyfriend for three hours, miss the good movie, eat half the meal, the boyfriend said to go away, she can also smile and face, as long as the boyfriend says to give her an explanation, constantly connect with each other, mutual trust, she can accept, she can accept that the boyfriend's work is more important than herself, and support, and have their own work and dreams do not think wildly, this is already very good.
Therefore, the biggest growth of Lin Zhi School is to be able to support a family, a family needs, she can bravely stand in front of the people, a family busy, she can be the backing of the person, after all, about the career, she has not been able to say more brilliant, has been in the stumbling to insist on herself, there is nothing that can make her stagnant.