Something exists
It cannot be changed
01
As the old saying goes, many people introduce the object to find a family situation comparable to their own, easy to get along with after marriage, but also easy to understand.
But nowadays people think that love is greater than conditions, no matter how good your family is, no matter how much higher my income is than yours, as long as we love, then everything can't be taken care of.
How many people insist on being together because of love, regardless of family opposition, regardless of realistic conditions, and Gu Qingyu and her husband in "Heart Residence" recently are like this.
The original first love, after many years to meet again, suddenly the past feelings all gushed into the heart, that moment felt that as long as I was with him is the happiest thing.
No matter whether he sells fish now, you are a white-collar worker, and you can't care about your family's wealth, his family is down, and he feels that as long as we love each other, we can overcome it.
However, in the end, she was defeated by reality, and Gu Qingyu began to separate because the camera saw Shi Yuan move her computer.
In the end, Shi Yuan could not stand to file for divorce.
02
But things were so coincidental, and later she knew that Shi Yuan did not peek at her project book, and at that moment she was stunned, surprised, and regretted.
In fact, in her heart, although she likes Shi Yuan, she still cares about the gap between him and herself, she does not allow him to work part-time, and her behavior towards him is actually disgusted.
He said love on his lips, but he still cared in his heart, and Shi Yuan didn't explain things because he always wanted to prove that he could.
Even if it is not said at the time, it is okay to explain it afterwards, but it is not, when they get married, both people are happy, but in the end, both people are dissatisfied.
Shi Yuan said that he did not like to listen to concerts for a long time, nor did he like to eat steak, he liked to smoke, eat those unhealthy foods, and be free in the alley.
What he did was not himself, but what the other person imagined in his heart, in fact, they were very tired of each other.
One side thinks that I have done this to you, so good to you, why don't you understand, and the other one feels that it is not me that you love, and I cannot be myself in front of you.
In fact, in the end, the gap between the two people is too large, and there is a gap in identity and status, one is an industry elite, and the other is a former fish seller.
So even if there is no misunderstanding this time, next time there will still be a different kind of contradiction, not solved at all, and it is difficult to be happy in marriage.
03
In "The World of Man", Dongmei remarried soon after Bingyi's death and found a husband who was the right person for her.
She and Bingyi's love are very touching to everyone, but remarriage so quickly makes everyone feel that marriage is like water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Some people say that the partner is gone, remarriage is no problem, and he also confessed before leaving, but no matter what, such a short period of time, can only say that her patience with the Zhou family is in the end.
If it is really sweeter, maybe a person will live a long time by thinking about it, but when you have suffered in the previous marriage, and it is not the general bitterness, then not thinking about it may be a relief.
Zhou Bingyi has worked for so long, and Dongmei has lived a life that is not single than single.
The happiness of ordinary people is a luxury for her, not only does she not have the love of a man, but she has to take care of his family and his body.
So the class is different, and the final outcome is already doomed.
04
Just like in "A Rainy Day in New York": "Not a class love, it is always easy to show the horse's feet."
Since the experience of the ancients is summed up by the ancients, it is not a conclusion reached in one or two years, and many years of experience have been accumulated by many families.
It is not that the door is not right is necessarily unhappy, but it is more likely that the door is better.
If there is a big gap between each other in all aspects and still act, then one of them must have made a big step backwards and suffered a lot of grievances.
It is said that there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests.
Not only friendship, but also love, but marriage even more so, because marriage is more realistic.
It may sound cruel, but the differences between different classes can really bring great tests to each other.
05
Two people with completely different inner cores cannot be together for a long time, and their love will show its truest side with a little test.
Rushing to death reluctantly go on, unequal marriage, everyone is tired of walking.
Just because she's willing to fit into your life doesn't mean she's okay with it. Just because you're willing to accommodate her doesn't mean you can stay that way.
Whether it's a friend or a marriage, "door-to-door" is important.
Marriages across classes are hard to be happy, you are either strong enough or patient enough, but it is difficult, and if you are strong, it is only to consume each other.
Therefore, choose a partner, even if you love again, enter into marriage as much as possible to choose to be consistent with your own interests and hobbies, otherwise the two people are harmonious on the surface and awkward inside.
Chai rice oil and salt, daily friction, feelings will eventually be consumed, or choose the one that makes you comfortable, comfortable, able to be your own person, so that you can withstand the erosion of the years.
END
Love emotions, interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way