Yu Xiuhua found a post-nineties little boyfriend, and posted a video on the Internet to show love, if it is an ordinary person, or a star, people will mostly send blessings, even if there are people who do not understand, it is unlikely to speak ill of each other, but because this person is Yu Xiuhua, is a cerebral palsy poet, the most important thing is that she not only has money, but also some people covet her fame and fortune, it is reasonable to say that to scold should also scold Yang Chuce, but I looked at the muzzle of online public opinion mostly aimed at Yu Xiuhua.
The netizen's criticism is relatively subtle, meaning that Yu Xiuhua should not express her desires so unrestrained, and she does not hide her love and life at all. What's more, directly burst into foul language, thinking that Yu Xiuhua's behavior is very disgusting, vulgar and arrogant, a cerebral palsy, and an old and ugly woman, unabashedly like small fresh meat, but also filmed a video show of love, to the boyfriend to sell cute: baby, I want to drink water.
I personally do not appreciate Yu Xiuhua, I am not her fan, there are likes and dislikes of her poetry, for her life choices, I will not imitate, and will not follow, but I will respect from the heart, because she did not hurt me, and did not affect the public order and good customs, in the end, but you love me, each has its own intentions.
But why do so many people stand up and scold Yu Xiuhua? Who did she offend? Why are so many people pointing fingers at her? What's wrong with her?
Yu Xiuhua responded to the rebuke of netizens, she said: The essence of any gender relationship is to have a plan, even if it is a young man and woman who are right at the door, he also has a picture, a picture of his youth, a picture of her beauty, this is the essence of the relationship between the sexes, if you have nothing, you have nothing to be remembered by others, to figure, what is the meaning and value of your life? The two of us are together at this stage, very happy and happy, which is a pleasant relationship for both of us, if one day he abandons me and breaks up with me, I will also fulfill him, I think he has a more complete life, because the meaning of everyone's life is greater than the meaning of love.
The essence of any gender relationship is to have a plan, this sentence may be some people do not recognize, think that Yu Xiuhua wants love, but Yang Chu Strategy is her fame and fortune, and the commercial benefits brought by it, think that Yu Xiuhua is the youth of Tu Yang Chu Ce, she wants to figure out the love, but it is an illusion.
But what about illusions? What about true feelings? You don't see how much sincerity pays for the water, how true and how false is it? How many true enemies are not time and money, only end up full of sorrow, it is a fortunate thing to be able to hold hands and look at each other with tears in their eyes, feeling nostalgic for "thinking of going, thousands of miles of smoke and waves, twilight and darkness", sighing "amorous parting from ancient wounds, more that can be, snubbing the Qingqiu Festival" Still you have met the true feelings of love and can not keep each other, afraid of only "this past years, should be a good day and a good scene. Even if there are a thousand styles, who to say? You still love, but the old man has a new love, only to sigh "don't see last year's people, tears wet empty shirt sleeves."
Yu Xiuhua lives more thoroughly than anyone, for love, she is not so real, she only regards love as a life experience, true or false, as long as it has been. And most people's understanding of love is too true, the pursuit of a lifetime and a couple, which itself is a fairy tale, where does the special love and eternity come from in real life? It is not easy for couples to stay together after being divided and noisy, and our biggest misunderstanding of love is that there are always two words.
Love does not exist forever, because love is a bunch of fireworks in a certain period of life, burning the heart with fire, brilliant and dazzling, it is just an embellishment of life, never the theme, if you are too serious, love is too heavy, others bet on youth, and you may gamble on your life.
Just imagine, whose love can be so true? But it's all a trade-off. Obviously it is to see the color of the intention, but to say that it is love at first sight, obviously it is to weigh the pros and cons, but to say that it is a long-term love, even if the white head to the old, in fact, it is just a habit, many things, can not be deeply investigated.
Some people use the theory of truth to fake Yu Xiuhua's love, but more people reprimand Yu Xiuhua's reasons may not be known: because this woman with cerebral palsy has done things that normal people and healthy people can't do, she can live in the mud, write poetry in the clouds, she, an old and ugly woman with cerebral palsy in the eyes of others, bravely fights against her fate, truly and bravely expresses her emotions and feelings about life, she tears off the disguise of many people, which makes many people feel some acceptance is powerless.
When a light comes in and makes the filth and filth appear, the light has sin — Nietzsche.
She said: To love someone is to sleep with him— it sounds awkward and ugly, but isn't that the essence? It's just that she said it;
She said that she liked Li Jian, she wrote the sentence "cross most of China to sleep with you" to express her li li likes, because of these words, she was scolded vulgar, scolded disgusting, but if you often watch film and television dramas, you can easily see similar comments in the bullet screen or under the related videos of these male stars, "Milk fierce, little milk dog, I want to be his wife, I want to be held by him" and so on, how come no one comes out to rebuke these women? And Yu Xiuhua is in love with Bajing, but the other party is younger, so many people come out to criticize her and even insult her?
Because she has cerebral palsy, and is old and ugly, she has the ability to make small fresh meat with her, but many women and men who think they still have some posture may not be able to fulfill such a wish.
These people use morality as an excuse to vent their grievances, but in fact they are full of imbalances.
Can't an old woman with cerebral palsy make some money by writing a few poems and keep a low profile? Run out and shame! This is the inner monologue of many people.
Xu Jianren sends short videos to record life every day, is she not allowed to record life? Is her cerebral palsy short? She is still self-sufficient by reading, and has the ability to break free from unhappy marriages, which is much more noble and ambitious than many women who are dissatisfied with their husbands and families and cannot give up the glory and wealth that the other party gives them!
I remember a neighbor whose husband was more capable of earning money, but there was a woman out there, she was always complaining and cursing at each other, and I said that since you are so miserable, why don't you divorce? It's better than sitting at home and scolding him every day.
She said with a straight face: If I hadn't left this house and couldn't live, I would have divorced him a long time ago...
This is the reason why many women maintain marriages, but it is this part of the people who scold Yu Xiuhua the most fiercely.
They believe that their compromise with life is more noble than Yu Xiuhua's struggle for life. In fact, they are just cowards in front of life, but they still have to laugh at brave people like Yu Xiuhua with the attitude of a successful person.
Of course, there are also many people who bless Yu Xiuhua, believing that Yu Xiuhua is transparent and intelligent, and sees through the essence of life. These two voices are playing against each other on the Internet, and in a way, they also represent the game of people's values at present.
Recently I was watching "Heart Residence", and I can see the truth by comparing the heroine feng Xiaoqin in the play with Yu Xiuhua. Those who sympathize with Feng Xiaoqin and take sides with her, most of these people are women, because they are easy to substitute themselves into the plot, they can accept Feng Xiaoqin's practice of concealing her unmarried children and using her husband's family as a springboard for life, but they can't accept Yu Xiuhua's self-reliance and rely on her own ability to find small fresh meat to fall in love, you say strange? It's just that they can all use Feng Xiaoqin's various means, and Yu Xiuhua's talent they can't have.
Therefore, they want to overthrow Yu Xiuhua, they say: Yu Xiuhua is bad at customs, Yu Xiuhua is humiliated, and Yu Xiuhua is not low-key at all. And they shouted that I had given birth to a child for my husband's family, and the husband's family should offer me as a god, they relied on their husband's family to support themselves, and the children they gave birth to would raise them old, but they shouted that I gave birth to a child for your family, they forgot that the child also called her mother, and they also had to support her, they were parasites with feminism as the banner, but they came to laugh at Yu Xiuhua, an independent woman who really relied on herself.
To be clear, this does not include stay-at-home mothers who work hard for the family, only women who have the idea of fishing for women.
Yu Xiuhua is physiological cerebral palsy, and they are psychological cerebral palsy. She is just not physically healthy, and these people are mentally unhealthy.
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