In the latest plot of "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are reconciled, but their marriage is still in jeopardy.
The opportunity for their reconciliation was provided by Zhan Xiang, who invited Qingyu to see the concert and then gave Shi Yuan the ticket.
Shi Yuan finally learned to lower his posture and cheekily begged Qingyu to forgive him, but the contradiction between them was still there.
The invisible bomb in front of the two of them now is Shi Yuan's job, because he entered Aimeng because of Qingyu's relationship, and Emin's leader Cindy wants to borrow Qingyu's pillow person to steal more business from her.
Qingyu knows what her former boss had in mind, but for shi Yuan's future, she allows this threat to exist.
Shi Yuan owed more than 500,000 yuan to the financial company, and before they could pay the money, they went to Shi Yuan's house and Gu Qingyu's house to splash paint.
Qingyu offers to pay off the debt for him, Shi Yuan struggles for a long time or refuses, he borrows 500,000 yuan from Cindy, which means that he accepts the offer to compete with Qingyu.
Shi Yuan seems to be very principled, but his principle is limited to his own self-esteem and not being hurt, but he never considers Qingyu's feelings.
The direction of the plot is most likely that Shi Yuan peeked at Qingyu's plan and snatched the list, but it also completely hurt Qingyu's heart.
After the two reconciled, Shi Yuan had offered to resign, but Qingyu did not want Shi Yuan to miss this good opportunity to turn over, so he continued to stay in Aimeng, which had the story behind.
If Qingyu hadn't thought so much about Shi Yuan, they wouldn't have come to this point.
Women in love always want to give more for each other, but the amount of giving may not make the other party feel the same amount of love.
Different types of partners have different rules of getting along, and if they only rely on brute force, the results are naturally unsatisfactory.
The American sociologist Winch once proposed the theory of complementarity in mate selection, that is, the process of men and women choosing a partner is actually the process of discovering the object that can give them the greatest psychological satisfaction. He proposed that a person with a strong desire to dominate would choose a person with a weak will and a very obedient person; a strong person would choose a very weak person, which is the result of "complementarity".
Gu Qingyu chose Shi Yuan to follow the theory of mate complementarity, she is the strong, and Shi Yuan is the weak.
In this complementary mode of getting along, in order to achieve a balanced state of relationship, Qingyu, as the active and superior party, must learn to show weakness and selfishness.
Qingyu and Shi Yuan had three quarrels, all of which were one reason, because Qingyu helped Shi Yuan, but was treated as a "alms" by Shi Yuan, so his self-esteem was frustrated and he quarreled with her.
For the first time, Qingyu found out that Shi Yuan had sold her favorite antique piano online, and she secretly disguised herself as a buyer and bought the piano at a high price.
Qing Yu hid the piano in Zhan Xiang's house, but was still discovered by Shi Yuan.
Shi Yuan said the words very clearly, he said that even the two people who are close to each other also have things that they do not want each other to interfere, and the implication is that you should take care of my affairs less.
The second time, Shi Yuan's mother waited for a kidney transplant to save her life, and Shi Yuan refused to let Qingyu pay for it, nor did she borrow it.
Qingyu had to perform a play with the doctor and tell Shi Yuan that it was the medical expenses borne by the charity.
After Shi Yuan learned the truth, he was furious again, thinking that Qingyu was watching their family's jokes, and forced half a million to return to her.
The third time, Shi Yuan got an offer from Ai Meng, this time it was not arranged by Qingyu behind her, but also related to her.
Qingyu told Shi Yuan about the stakes and told him not to think about himself and just do his job.
But Shi Yuan thinks that Qingyu looks down on him and feels that he does not deserve the job.
Qingyu repeatedly hot face pasted people's cold ass, just like Zhan Xiang to him, knowing that it was laborious and unflattering, preferring moths to put out the fire.
Qingyu really wanted to help Shi Yuan, but Shi Yuan regarded Qingyu's kindness as pity and ridicule.
Qingyu is decisive in the workplace, but indecisive in the love field.
Qingyu chose a poverty alleviation marriage, he was willing to give generously, but the other party did not accept, if you want to continue to live, you must learn to be cruel, put away compassion, and protect yourself.
Choosing to marry, the other party is still a person with strong self-esteem, the only way to keep this marriage is to become selfish, don't think about everything for him, and when he asks you for help, you must also give with reservations.
In marriage, women must learn to be selfish, but also to learn to observe human nature, not all people are worth your unreserved efforts.