In fact, as a woman, sometimes you must have your own bottom line, don't feel that you love him very much, he can do whatever he wants, mine on you, parkour around, such behavior is inaccurate, because for a man, when he loves you, he will pay a lot.
But true love often also depends on how you do, if she suddenly finds that you have no bottom line, so that is, he will feel that you are a family-loving woman, always do not cherish you, you feel that you are paying a lot for him and love him, but it is childish, you will find this deep love. In the eyes of others, it is only cheap. So be sure to let a man spoil you as a baby, but have more bottom lines, and men will respect you.
The first point: learn to love yourself and not to cater cheaply
The most important point in love is to learn to love yourself, when you learn to love yourself, you will get countless happiness, when you learn to love yourself, your heart will become very clear and clear, sometimes, everything has a lot of love, but those very cute people, will often give this very much love to give it all to the man, but this too much love will only make you lose your sense of security, and the sense of security no one gives you, it will only make men feel bored, suppressed by your love, breathless. In the end you will have nothing, so the most appropriate way is to learn to love yourself, do not casually cater to him, but to have your own temper, and the children who have a temper and a girl who will cry have sugar to eat.
Second point: Don't be obedient, follow your own heart
If a man says what kind of command to you, you will say anything, then he will feel that you are a woman with no thoughts and no opinions, you will feel that you are very strong, he loves him very much, but he just will not cherish you, because he thinks you are a good one. Aren't people who have no interest say that it's all that?
So slowly he will abandon you because he does not cherish you, and what you get is also a lot of sadness and sadness, it is better to leave such a man to choose a life with thoughts and insights. In fact, there are many people who do not know what they want all their lives, but you must understand what you want, and be clear and decisive, it is really good for your life.
The third point: have your own space, don't take love as all
Learn to have your own space, don't take love as the whole, love is not all, is there only love in your life? Are there no friends without affection, without friendship? Doesn't that matter? If the source of feelings in your life comes from love, then you must not be able to do it, because love can not fill all your feelings, people's needs are very large, you need countless love to care for her, this love may come from friends, may also come from family, may also come from strangers, but everything that comes from it comes from how you go to the community, so don't take love as all have your own space, let yourself think to think, you will be really happy, Men are like this, and when you take love as the whole thing, it always makes him very tired.
What kind of love you think about, you must understand that is such a truth, that is, cherish your own love, or cherish the love of others, and do not take love as the whole, you have to have your own thoughts, a woman with a thought can get more happiness, a woman with a thought will have her own happiness in her own life, learn to grasp her own happiness, such a life will be happy.