The urban emotional drama "Heart Residence", starring HaiQing and nursery rhymes, is currently being broadcast, and there are three marriages with wrong doors.
Among them, Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei belong to the foreign daughter-in-law Local Lang, while Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu, Gu Xin and Ge Yue, these two pairs belong to the marriage of poor men and rich women, but the marriages of two pairs of poor men and rich women are destroyed in the inferiority of men, which shows that men's inferiority is terrible.
These two men, who had low self-esteem to the bone, finally let their marriage go into decline.
However, Gu Xin and Shi Yuan, they belong to the two extremes of selfishness and non-selfishness respectively.
Selfish extreme - Gu Xin
Gu Xin can give up his first love girlfriend Sun Qi, who has been in love with him for ten years, because of selfishness, and then turn around and marry Deputy Director Qianjin Geyue.
Ge Yue in the play is still quite sweet, and Ge Yue in the original book looks like he is not proud, not tall, and not intelligent, but because his father can give Gu Xin support in his work, Gu Xin would rather marry an ugly duckling.
In the face of Ge Yue's mother's cold words and ridicule, Ge Yue's father was condescending, Gu Xin sent people to the fence, simply inferior to the extreme, fortunately, Ge Yue was pure like a blank piece of paper, which could give Gu Xin a little comfort at that time.
However, after Ge Yue's father fell, Gu Xin directly played a face change, and did not say that Ge Yue's attitude towards pregnancy changed greatly, and he also wanted to find his first love girlfriend to reunite.
Gu Xin, who was inferior and selfish, his attitude towards Ge Yue was even the coldness of the perfunctory process, and even he blamed his parents for the reasons for his unhappy life, but he did not reflect on his selfishness and inferiority, of course, the most important reason was because Gu Xin had never loved Ge Yue.
He only used and calculated Ge Yue in a vague way.
Unselfish extremes - shi yuan
Shi Yuan can be regarded as a fallen nobleman, his self-esteem is still very strong, he is completely different from the phoenix man in the general sense, Shi Yuan is not like Gu Xin in marriage to only take care of himself.
But there is a saying that extreme self-esteem is inferiority.
Shi Yuan's extreme self-esteem led to his inferiority complex, which always haunted his marriage with Gu Qingyu, thus affecting the relationship between the two.
He refused to let Gu Qingyu help him, nor did he want to communicate with Gu Qingyu, and he was always affected by his mother's idea of not being willing to be mediocre, which led Gu Qingyu to try to help him to sneak around and go around the bend.
Therefore, even though he and Gu Qingyu are in love, they cannot really enter each other's hearts.
The unsuitable family situation and life experience lead to the inability of their three views to be consistent.
The encounter between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan tells us that marriage, only love, is really not enough.
The failure of the marriage of these two poor men and rich women stems from the inferiority of these two men engraved in their hearts, so no matter how accommodating they are, how much they love them, and how much they want to enter their hearts, they still can't get rid of the inferiority mentality.
This is also the root cause of marriages with wrong doors and difficulties in harvesting happiness.
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