"Heart Residence": Ge Yue's marriage tragedy is not only because Gu Xin does not love her

"Heart Residence" was broadcast more than halfway through, in addition to Feng Xiaoqin's counterattack career line, the marriage line of the characters in the play also attracted our attention.

It is strange to say that none of the marriages of the younger generation in the play are truly happy.

Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei needless to say, the combination between the two is full of calculations, although these years of married life, they also have feelings for each other, but with the unexpected death of Gu Lei, this marriage has come to an end.

The other two pairs in the play, although they have not yet dispersed, but from the current plot point of view, it will not take long to blow the lamp and pull out the wax.

Between Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu, there is love, but this love is just a continuation of the young heart, after twenty years of time distance, they are no longer the original mutual, two people who are not in the same class, although now because of the touch to come together, but the huge gap, has long been buried for the hidden dangers between them.

Maybe before the end of the play, they will separate and start their own lives.

Fortunately, in the drama version of the story, they will be separated, not because they do not love, but because the reality is too cruel, can love vigorously, for them, there is no regret.

Compared with them, the relationship between Gu Xin and Ge Yue is even simpler.

Ge Yue was a simple little girl, and after meeting Gu Xin, she thought she had found love and happily married him; but she didn't know that in Gu Xin's place, she was just a ladder for him to climb, nothing more.

From the beginning, full of exploits and calculations, coupled with the wrong relationship between the two families, the marriage came to an end, which was completely expected.

After carefully squeezing it, the reason why Gu Xin and Ge Yue were scattered was the result of the joint action of the three forces.

Screenshot of the TV series "Heart House"

They would scatter, and the first reason was that Gu Xin didn't love Ge Yue.

Before Ge Yue, Gu Xin once had a girlfriend named Sun Qi, who had walked a ten-year love run together and had also made vows that the sky would fall into the ground and not change their hearts.

However, after Ge Yue appeared, Gu Xin immediately changed and kicked Sun Qi and Ge Yue together.

The reason why Gu Xin chose this way is because Ge Yue has a high-ranking official father, only he has become Ge Yue's husband, even if Ge Yue's father does not personally shoot, others will look at Ge Yue's face to give him convenience.

Even if you can't go all the way, you won't be far behind.

In fact, in the process of getting along between the two, we can also see that Gu Xin actually does not love Ge Yue-

Although in most families, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the norm, but when there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as long as the husband handles it properly, most of the contradictions can be eliminated, after all, whether it is the mother-in-law or the daughter-in-law, their purpose is the same, that is, they all love the same man.

But every time Su Wangdi counted down Ge Yue, Gu Xin didn't say a word, and then asked Ge Yue to endure it a little longer, saying that Su Wangdi was his mother after all.

Later, when Ge Dad had an accident, Gu Xin's attitude changed by one hundred and eighty degrees - he did not help inquire about the situation, we can accept, after all, Ge Dad could not solve the things, he was even more incapable of solving; what was heartwarming was that in Ge Yue's most difficult days, he not only did not comfort Ge Yue, but also called Sun Qi after getting drunk.

There is something Zhong Wuyan, nothing xia Yingchun, when climbing up, full of ge yue, now Ge Yue can not help himself, he found Sun Qi, such a style, saying that he is a scumbag, not exaggerated at all.

It is said that later he mixed with Feng Xixi, which is not difficult to understand.

They will disperse, and the reason for the second place is Su Wangdi's attitude.

Judging from the words of the characters in the play, Su Wangdi has also experienced the torture of fate, when he was young, the family went to the mountains and went to the countryside, and then returned to the city, there was no even a place to live, or Gu Shilian gave up the house to them, and they had a home in the city.

Later, when Gu Shilian wanted to buy a house and asked them to borrow money, they pushed six or two five, completely forgetting the events of that year, such a persona was a typical city servant.

This is the case in front of his brothers and sisters, and when he arrives at Ge Yue, an "outsider", he will naturally become more intense.

When Ge's father did not fall, no matter where he went, Su Wangdi would move his own family out to show off, although he did not agree with Ge Yue's consumption method, but the basic attitude was still OK.

After the fall of Ge's father, Su Wangdi immediately became another person, even if Ge Yue was present, she would count the Ge family to others, worried that this relative would affect her son's future.

Because in the matter of buying a house, the Ge family has more money, so they have not objected to the fact that their son lives in the Ge family, and I even think that they will be proud of it or not necessarily - after all, not everyone can have the opportunity to become a high-ranking son-in-law like the Ge family.

When Ge's father had an accident, Su Wangdi immediately urged her son and daughter-in-law to move back.

I even think that if there is a girl with a better family than Ge Yue in the future, even if Gu Xin does not bring it up herself, they will divorce Gu Xin and marry another girl.

After all, ge Yue now had lost the qualification to let Su Wangdi show off.

In the marriage of Gu Xin and Ge Yue, Su Wangdi is not a good mother-in-law, but Gu Xin's mother-in-law cannot say that it is beneficial.

At the beginning, Ge's mother looked down on the Gu Xin family, that time the two families sat together to discuss the marriage of their children, because Su Wangdi was not elegant enough, so as soon as the Gu family left, she began to count her own relatives to her daughter.

If this is the case, but later Gu Xin and Ge Yue are already married, and she still poses like she has just been on it, one moment instructing Gu Xin to do this, and the next to instruct Gu Xin to do that.

Later, Ge's father had an accident, but in Ge's mother's heart, she still looked down on Gu Xin.

"If you didn't have Yue Yue's father, would you be able to have today?"

"If Yue Yue hadn't liked it, would I have married my daughter to him?" Was he climbing high, didn't he know? I look for my son-in-law with my eyes closed, and I will be better than him. ”

We can't force Mother Ge to approve of Gu Xin, but saying this in front of her son-in-law is really too hurtful.

Strangely, mingming's family is still down, and Mother Ge still can't let go of her wife's pie, and she has to ask a nanny to cook, completely ignoring the situation at home. Although the skinny camel is bigger than the horse, she has always been "generous" that it is not a long-term solution.

(At this point, Mother Ge is quite similar to Shi Yuan's mother.) ）

It is true that Ge's mother said this because she was distressed about her daughter and was afraid that her daughter would be wronged, but her heartache would not only be unable to exchange Huixin's gratitude, but also push Gu Xin farther and farther away.

At that time, Ge Yue would only be hurt even more. To some extent, Gu Xin and Ge Yue's marriage problems, Ge's mother also played a role in fueling the waves.

Gu Xin ran out to drink and see Sun Qi, which happened after the mother-in-law's "lesson".

Of course, the reason why a marriage will fall apart is never only the responsibility of either party.

As a netizen said, the character of Ge Yue is full of contradictions - children who grow up in such a family may be ruthless and willful, but most likely they will not be like Ge Yue, who is completely a little white rabbit without the slightest intention.

Every time she faced Su Wangdi's rebuke, she was resigned, even in front of Gu Xin, she did not refute it, in this way, it would only promote Su Wangdi's arrogance.

Don't fight back, but every time she goes home, she tells her mother these things and lets her mother stand up for herself, on this issue, Ge Yue is like a child who has not grown up.

Of course, these deficiencies did not affect Ge Yue's good wife, after all, no one was perfect, Jin had no feet, if it were not for her persistence, the Gu family would not have climbed such a high branch.

Thinking about it carefully, their marriage was full of bugs from the beginning, coupled with the help of Su Wangdi and Ge Mama, this marriage is not over, but it is not normal.

Happy marriages are all similar, but unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes.

But in the matter of running a marriage, there are several key words that are common, one is love, the second is understanding, and the third is tolerance-

Love is the premise, even if it is a marriage that partners live together, after getting along for a long time, they have become relatives, and family affection is the strongest way to love each other;

Understanding is the guarantee, the parties in the marriage need to understand each other, each other's families also need to understand each other, only by understanding each other, the marriage will be truly long;;

Tolerance is the key, two people from different growth environments, it is full of all kinds of confrontations and even contradictions, if the families of both sides do not tolerate each other, small contradictions will become big contradictions sooner or later, maybe a small quarrel, will end this marriage.

(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）