In the TV series "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu, played by Tong Yao, and Shi Yuan, played by Feng Shaofeng, officially carried out cohabitation life.
Compared with Gu Xin and Ge Yue, who have the same bed and different dreams, and Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei, who are separated by yin and yang, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan seem to be the happiest two in the play at present. They are not only the green plum bamboo horses of both sides, but also the big houses where they live independently.
In life, they can maintain a certain degree of independence from their original families, and they can understand each other spiritually, and their small days should be more comfortable.
But it is not difficult for careful viewers to find that there are actually three major crises hidden under the surface of the happiness of the two, and the ending of this flash marriage will be very sadistic.
First, strong women and weak men + machismo
Gu Qingyu is not only the eldest daughter in the family, but also a foreign company executive, who works vigorously and has a strong desire to control, and is a typical strong woman.
Shi Yuan is the only son in the family, and his backward life in the family road continues to decline, and he is almost crushed by a huge debt of 1.5 million.
The two of them obviously belong to the relationship between strong women and weak men in marriage, which means that how to maintain the relationship between husband and wife is the biggest problem.
In real life, failed marriages where women are strong and men are weak are not uncommon. Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, Big Baby and Huang Sect Master are all examples.
In the early stage, when the man is more famous, the husband and wife can still be at peace with each other, and even if they live apart for a long time, they can maintain a delicate balance.
In the later period, as the woman's reputation gradually surpassed the man's, their marital relationship began to have irreparable rifts.
If it is ugly, there will be a "luminous script", and then tacitly break up, old and dead;
Decent people will "debunk rumors" many times, choose a good day and then part ways.
It can be seen that although the rise of female power is a general trend, in fact, not all men can accept being "overwhelmed" by their wives, and the more "machismo" and more face- and dignity-oriented men are, the more difficult it is to maintain a marriage in which women are strong and men are weak.
If Shi Yuan was just a "little man" with no great ambitions, and could be at ease to become Gu Qingyu's "Xiannei Helper", then naturally there would be no accidents.
But from the details of the two dating, it can be found that although Shi Yuan is poor, he still insists on paying the bill, and even shows a strong willingness that "men should take care of women" everywhere, realizing that he really can't afford it, and his eyes are still full of resentment.
On the bright side, Shi Yuan is very "gentlemanly" and knows how to take care of and protect his partner;
But from the bad side, knowing that their economic strength does not allow them to want to be strong, it is actually a manifestation of "machismo".
Therefore, Shi Yuan's situation is actually that the machismo is caught in the marriage of strong women and weak men, and it is not difficult to guess in combination with real cases:
If Shi Yuan can't correct his machismo, as long as he ends the sweet period of the new marriage, under the impact of time and life trivia, he and Gu Qingyu will eventually go farther and farther, and the end can only be divorce.
From the existing plot, we can clearly see that the things that will impact Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are quite tricky problems.
Second, "force majeure" mother + no mother since childhood
Shi Yuan's bipolar mother is undoubtedly the first obstacle.
In reality, how many couples are not in harmony can not be separated from the intervention of the original family. Once a strong parent indiscriminately intervenes in their children's love life and marriage, a "protracted war" is often inevitable.
And Shi Yuan's mother happens to be this kind of "unreasonable" parent, she not only looks after Qingyu unfavorably, but also chooses to give each other several "dismounts" when she meets her daughter-in-law for the first time, making the scene extremely embarrassing.
Although Shi Yuan's tough stance made Shi Mu restrain somewhat, it was obvious that she was angry and would definitely continue to find trouble in the future.
What is even more inexplicable is that due to bipolar disorder, Shi Mu cannot listen to good words and persuasion at all, and cannot accept too strong language stimulation.
Shi Mu's prejudice against Gu Qingyu is simply a "force majeure" between their husband and wife.
On the other hand, Gu Qingyu is a person who has lacked maternal love since childhood, has a relatively good and strong personality, and belongs to the type of eating soft and not eating hard.
Such a straight girl meets a mother-in-law who loves to find stubble, which is simply "Mars hitting the earth". Once or twice Gu Qingyu can also suppress the anger in his heart with good upbringing, and it is difficult to guarantee that he will not turn over on the spot for a long time, resulting in a situation that is even more out of control.
So the question is, one is a sick mother who does not listen to advice, one is a good and strong wife who suppresses herself, Shi Yuan in the middle is still a somewhat macho person, what good way can he think of to coordinate the bad mother-in-law relationship?
Third, obsessively licking the dog + heart machine brother and sister-in-law waiting for the opportunity to move
In addition to the difficulty of coordinating the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, zhan xiang and Feng Xiaoqin also have a destructive force that cannot be underestimated for the "external force factors".
Zhan Xiang's admiration for Gu Qingyu has simply reached the point of "hopeless", not only willing to do "licking dogs" before she is married, even if she knows that the other party is married, she still shows an obsessive attitude, looking ready to "take over".
As long as he found that there was a crisis in the relationship between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, it was difficult to guarantee that he would not take advantage of the danger of others and take advantage of the void.
In addition, Feng Xiaoqin, who will stop at nothing to achieve the goal, will undoubtedly become Zhan Xiang's right-hand man in "digging the foot of the wall".
Because Feng Xiaoqin needs to do everything possible to please Zhan Xiang, so that she can get funds from him to build a nursing home. Knowing that Gu Qingyu was the only "soft underbelly" of Zhan Xiang, who did not enter the oil and salt, Feng Xiaoqin had no reason not to turn his eyes to "Sister A".
From some tidbits, it can be seen that Feng Xiaoqin seems to have secretly provoked the discord between Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu.
Whether she is "good intentions to do bad things" or deliberately, Feng Xiaoqin will become a "helper" to destroy Gu Shi's marriage.
There is "force majeure" mothers on the inside, and there are obsessive licking dogs and cunning sisters-in-law on the outside.
There are also major hidden dangers in the marriage relationship between the two people that are irreconcilable between machismo and the state of strong women and weak men.
I'm afraid that Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, the newlywed couple, are showing how sweet they are now, and how bitter they will be in the near future!