Good afternoon, here is Lao Yu.
The various news of the remarriage of the big s can be seen on the hot search almost every day recently.
Yes, it's really a family.
Some messages also said: This family simply made a reality show.
We have also said before that the big s concept of marriage and love is of little reference significance to ordinary people, because she has enough confidence to try and make mistakes.
In real life, marriage and divorce require caution.
Recently, Mango Tv has a marriage and love variety show "Spring Day Delayed Departure", which focuses on the divorce story of ordinary people, unveils the "scars" in front of the camera and then learns to say goodbye to the past.
When ordinary guests tell their divorce stories in front of the camera, it will make people feel sad and regretful, and they will feel that divorce is not a shameful thing. Marriage is for happiness, and so is divorce.
In his eyes, I was a fertility machine
"Are you willing to leave her no matter how rich or poor, whether you are healthy or sick?"
"I do."
This vow appears at many people's weddings, but how much can it be done in the end.
Guest Lu Ying was divorced after half a year of marriage, and when she told this past, she could not hide her sadness.
During a physical examination shortly after marriage, Lu Ying was found to have nephritis and needed to have a renal puncture examination, which would affect her to have children in the future.
The husband asked her whether she was the first to treat the disease or the husband's child, and she chose to treat first, after all, there is no future without health.
During the hospitalization, the ex-husband was pretty good to him.
And the operation is over, and his love is over, perhaps the ex-husband thinks that there is no future without children.
For two weeks after Lu Ying was discharged from the hospital and returned to her mother's house to recuperate, he did not visit or call.
Later, Lu Ying had to offer to eat together, and as soon as she sat down, her ex-husband said coldly:
"Let's get a divorce"
And then I didn't say anything about it.
Lu Ying was also discouraged and handled the divorce, and later she also knew that not long after she was discharged from the hospital, her ex-husband told Lu Ying's father that he wanted a divorce, and it was the father who considered that his daughter had just finished surgery and her body had not yet been cultivated, please don't rush to mention it first.
Before his wife had finished the operation, the man turned his face faster than he could turn the book and ran away.
People have the nature of seeking advantage and avoiding harm, but it is obvious that the ex-husband regards the other half as a tool for succession, and once it is worthless, it is abandoned like a.
Such a man, who recognized his true face earlier, left him without loss.
The perfect master of time management
Another guest, Litchi, was surprised when many people around her heard the news of her divorce.
Her ex-husband is the perfect man in the eyes of others, good for her and good for her family, and happy in her career and marriage.
When Lychee was pregnant, she felt that all the good things had fallen on her, and she was a super happy person.
But as soon as she came out, Lychee found that her husband had cheated.
When the two were married and honeymooning, the ex-husband was in contact with someone else, and the movies the two had watched together, and the ex-husband would also take the third one to see.
Even the two movies are separated by half an hour, and after watching this one with Lychee, I rushed to watch it again with another person.
After learning these things, Lychee suffered from postpartum depression and also wanted to divorce.
The lawyer said:
"The child has just been born, you don't want to divorce first."
In order for her newborn child to have a complete family, she endured for 4 years.
As a result, her ex-husband did not regret changing Ben, and finally she couldn't help but explode herself, and she finally made up her mind to choose divorce.
This society requires women to be good wives and mothers, and to maintain a harmonious family relationship for the sake of children.
Too much demand is placed on women but too few are regulated for men.
What every marriage requires is for both parties to run together, not for one person to work on.
As Da Zhang Wei said on the show:
Don't please indifference, and don't live up to enthusiasm.
The same is true of the marriage of Wu Yating and Wang Quexin, the two have been married for 5 years, they have not made principled mistakes with each other, they seem to be a very happy couple, but in the end they are divorced.
It's that he's not trying his best enough and she's insecure.
Wang Quexin once said to Wu Yating:
"I often tell my wife that one day I will leave you, and I will carry my own bags to live a life alone." 」
The two children are almost all taken care of by Wu Yating alone, while her husband is still like a child who does not grow up.
Little things pile up and wear out the initial heartbeat, then in the end, forget it.
At present, many people will be afraid of marriage, perhaps understanding that it is difficult to maintain a marriage with love alone.
A family that has chai rice oil and salt also has responsibilities and interests.
The marriage stories told by these guests of "Spring Day Late Departure" are more like things happening around us.
But thankfully, they did not continue to consume themselves in unhappy marriages.
After a failed marriage, choosing divorce is courage to pursue happiness again, but rebuilding after a collapsed marriage is not so easy.
Only after dissolving self-doubt step by step and discharging the depression in your heart can you start to start again.
As Fu Seoul said:
"I think people are so wonderful, that is, no matter how afraid you are, you will love, and no matter how hesitant you are, you will leave again, late or early." 」