Now a little news online, almost every day a fear of marriage small news. Marriage is also slowly mixed with some alternative words from "happiness and happiness", and many social news have confirmed the sentence that "marriage is the graveyard of love".
In this era, it seems that unmarried and infertile is the mainstream, but there are still people who go against the current.
Today, I would like to hear the reasons why all young people who marry early choose to step into the "graveyard of love" early.
01
"Only those who are handsome are called young and early married, and a person like me who looks ordinary can only be said to have reached the legal age of marriage." Xiao Chen, a 24-year-old married man, joked.
02
At the age of 23, Jerry and his first love girlfriend stamped at the Civil Affairs Bureau and became a legal couple. His brother teased why he was willing to be trapped by marriage so early, he said that it was not early, the seven-year itch had arrived, and it was time to get married to stop the itch.
Some early marriages are the sequelae of early love.
03
"Isn't marriage a necessary stage of a mature relationship?" If the relationship is mature, it doesn't matter how early you get married. Chloe, who was the president of the university's debate club, is still articulate, looking at the 23-year-old with a big belly, and she does not lose the eloquent style of that year.
04
Marriage is at the top of Xiaoye's life list: "If she is destined to be my future wife, why don't I exercise my rights early?" "I know that he must have been forced by his wife to revisit "Why Sheng Zhen Mo" together recently, but this guy who does not lose his body and appearance career can think of a way to take him for himself, as if there is only marriage.
05
24-year-old Terry accepted the marriage proposal of the rich second generation boyfriend during graduate school, diamond rings, luxury cars, villas and private nannies and drivers, after answering "I do", can get half of the ownership, such a cost-effective transaction, as a high-achieving accounting student Terry can not be unaware.
Marriage, for many people, is just a transaction.
06
Mary, 25, sighed: "I don't want to get married so early, but I heard that sperm before the age of 30 is the healthiest." ”
As soon as the words fell, his eyes blinked and looked at his 30-year-old husband next to him. I looked at them carefully, and only then did I see the words in my eyes, and the two words written in my eyes were "to create man"!
Early marriage is sometimes a compromise between one party and the other.
07
The giants have already started a family, and this sentence is not wrong at all. If the two giants are in love with each other, the parents of both sides will never stand idly by and immediately open a large-scale scene of the CP, thinking about how to move the Civil Affairs Bureau to their homes every day.
"It's not married yet, it's really hard to end." When the 22-year-old Li Lei said this sentence, he was a little unlovable, but he could also forgive his parents' mentality of wanting to hold their grandchildren, and after consulting with his girlfriend, they all wanted to take advantage of their youth to give birth to their children, so that they could restore their freedom.
Some people have children to regain their freedom, and some give up their freedom.
08
Tan Yan felt that the advantage of early marriage was that in the past few days of the New Year, relatives who used to love to point fingers seemed to become sculptures. The husband in the system, the children are complete, the family is happy, it is really difficult to pick faults in her.
She listened to the praise of her relatives, tried to squeeze out some smiles, her eyes glanced in the direction of 3 o'clock from time to time, the eldest daughter and the younger son fought to grab a toy car, and the red face was red, while the husband sitting next to him was still happy to brush the vibrato, and finally the car robbery war ended under a cry and Tan Yan's shouting.
However, before leaving, the second aunt, who did not know each other, asked more: "In fact, you can consider the third child." ”
"If early marriage and early childbearing are to block the mouth of others, it is really not necessary." ——Helpless advice from Tan Yan.
09
When the rising property price and human income have a huge contradiction, Anna decided to pull her boyfriend Jackson into the water and get married and buy a house. Husband and wife provide housing, and the repayment of the loan does not linger.
The two of them also secretly changed their marriage vows: "Whether it is good times or bad times, rich or poor, health or disease, happiness or sorrow, we will provide for the house together." ”
After the real estate certificate came down, the two laughed happier than when they got the marriage certificate, but they had just graduated from college, but they had to bear 6,000 mortgages per month, preferring to sit in the house they bought and eat curd milk rather than watch the sunrise in the rental house.
In these years, some people divorced in order to buy a house, and some people got married to buy a house.
10
How many early marriages are the curse of Bongzi's marriage.
When the young and ignorant Joe spent the Spring Festival with his girlfriend, he was hit. It is said that every boy likes to be a "dad" just after graduating from college, but Joe is now severely allergic to the word.
Two people often have to argue about which brand of diaper to use, the monthly salary is only 6000 he wants to save some money to buy a cheaper brand, but was put on the charge of "not caring for children" by his wife, Joe chose to hide in the corner to play a game of negative emotions of the king's assassination, passing by and seeing his wife throwing a "alas" and leaving.
Early marriage is not terrible, naked marriage is maddening.
11
Tao Yin and Shun Wei were urged by hormones to drive into the church, in order to better reveal each other's true face, try love before marriage in advance, rent a small apartment, and open the world of two.
After three months of experience, both sides agreed that this person could live a life. For example, Shunwei has a cleaning habit, will take the initiative to do housework, will classify and fold Taoyin's underwear; Taoyin will fill the snacks at home in time when there is a ball game, and will help Shunwei cut his hair at the end of each month, and she will cut the left side thinner than the right, so that Shunwei's head shape is symmetrical left and right.
They don't like children, reach an agreement to continue renting after marriage, no pressure of childbearing and mortgage, and devote all their energy to dealing with the feelings of both parties and having fun in time.
Some people always say that marriage is the grave of love,, even if it is a grave, who is willing to bury you who really loves? 」 Shun Wei squinted his eyes at Tao Yin and said.
In the countercurrent of early marriage, we see the impulse to be overwhelmed by love, the embarrassment of not taking safety measures, and even mixed with factors other than spirit.....
Marriage may extinguish the flame of love, but the residual temperature after the flame is extinguished may be the norm of ordinary life, and they who have entered the marriage early but still have not fled, are extremely covetous of the warmth brought by this residual temperature.
Marriage is a "natural" state of intimacy, when we are responsible enough for our own lives, and enough to understand our own wishes, making any choice is complete, even not making a choice is complete.
Click "Watching" and whether you decide to step into marriage or not, I hope you are happy.
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