A sentence can warm people's hearts, and a sentence can also make people chill.
Get along with your partner, don't be impulsive and hurt the person who cares about us the most.
He's not a natural treat for you, don't take it for granted.
Don't easily hurt each other, with contradictions, think more about each other, get along more harmoniously.
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The person who can make you laugh is the best for you
A good lover must be the one who can make you look up in the midst of a cluttered life and can't help but laugh.
Colleague Li Li, a northeastern girl, has a very cheerful personality.
The light bulb is broken and repaired by herself, 40 pounds of rice can be carried to the 4th floor in one breath, the toilet blocked herself and stabbed, she has always adhered to the principle that what she can do by herself will never trouble others.
Until one weekend, when colleagues in our department had a private gathering, she came with her boyfriend of just two months.
That night we were eating hot pot, and her boyfriend sat on the edge, shoved the dishes from the hot pot with boiling water before clipping them to her plate and whispered to her:
"You have chronic pharyngitis, and it's time to feel uncomfortable eating a spicy throat."
Then silently changed her bowl full of peppercorns to a clean one.
At that moment, it really warmed up this big grinning northeast girl.
Some people say that whether a woman is happy or not depends on whether she will become more and more smiling.
This sentence is most appropriate for Li Li.
In this life, people will meet two kinds of people, one is the person who makes you cry, and the other is the person who makes you laugh.
The difference between these two kinds of people is that what makes you cry is the person you love, while the person who makes you laugh is the person who loves you.
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There is not much good in the vast sea of people
My friend Fifi, for a long time in the past, was a very inferior person.
She always felt that she was ugly, and she felt that others would dislike her.
She said: "Before meeting my husband, I had been in love myself, but I had never met anyone who encouraged me and coaxed me like he did. ”
She said that in the past, when she was in love, people she met always liked to compare her with others.
"Look at how good the other girls are, and then look at you"
"How nice is that girl dressed, you also learned a little"
"You look at you so fat, if you don't lose weight, you won't be wanted"
Remarks such as these pervaded her past feelings.
Fifi is a sensitive and fragile girl, and whenever she hears such harsh words, she will feel very wronged.
It wasn't until her husband showed up that her life slowly improved.
He could always read Yuanyuan's vulnerability and understand her inner small emotions.
He would never dislike her, would not ask her to change, and would not compare her to others.
Since getting married, Fifi has laughed more often and become more optimistic and cheerful.
In fact, what determines the quality of love is not time or marriage, but your lover.
Only people who love you deeply will always take care of your emotions and feelings.
Only people who love you deeply, do not ask for anything in return, and only want you to drop all your troubles and see you with a smile on your face.
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The rest of your life is long, cherish it
The rest of your life is long, if you are with someone who can't make you happy, even if the conditions are superior, you will only live a bitter life.
And with a person who can make you happy, he will be like a smoothie in the summer, like an umbrella over your head when the rain is pouring down, so that your life has more expectations and courage to go on.
There is a detail in the Korean movie "I Love You" that touched me a lot.
The grandfather in the movie is grumpy, has never said love to his wife in his life, and has never made his grandmother laugh.
Later, Grandma got cancer and told Grandpa that he wanted to drink milk, but Grandpa, who came back from buying milk, was told by the nurse that patients could not drink dairy products.
The grumpy grandpa got into an angry argument with the nurse, but finally listened to the doctor.
Back in the ward, I saw my grandmother with a look of anticipation, touched my grandmother's head and said:
"Obedient, you can't drink it now, wait until you're well, I'll buy milk for you to drink every day in the future."
After listening to this sentence, Grandma smiled and said, "It doesn't matter if you can't drink milk, it's already very satisfying to see you make me happy like this." ”
A woman's heart is a cloud in the sky, even if you have lived with the grumpy you for a lifetime, before you died, you coaxed me a word, still let me want to wash your hands and soup for you in the next life.
For the rest of your life, be with the guy who makes you laugh.
He is like a mountain guarding you, like having an armor protecting you.
True love is not a moment, a day, a month of passion like fire, but a life, a lifetime, a lifetime of tolerance and support for each other.
END
Author: Uncle Bei Mo (ID: Beimodashu), look at the cold and warm of the world, write about the sorrows and joys of the world, insist on using words to heal people's hearts, and every encounter with you, I will treat it as a long-term goodbye reunion.
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