Author ┃ Xiao Xiaowei Reading aloud ┃ Muzi Teacher
Guidance ┃Liang Shanbo Editor ┃丄學号
On February 20, the Beijing Winter Olympics came to an end.
But this feast on their own doorstep will still immerse everyone in the moment when they win the championship.
But what moved me even more was the story behind their winning.
There is Gu Ailing's challenge to himself, Sui Wenjing and Han Cong's perseverance, Ren Ziwei's adversity to rise, Xu Mengtao's unswerving determination to pursue his dreams....
Savoring their ordinary and legendary lives, I found a common shining point: in order to realize their dreams, they focused on investing, strict training, rigorous life, and lived every day to the fullest.
The power of dreams has changed these champions, and these champions are also looking forward to using their success to inspire young people in Beijing, China and the world to break the restrictions in their hearts and bravely pursue their dreams.
Children have dreams, just like having a weapon that can fight against infinity, can make confidence have a source and make the future have hope under the threat of infinite time and space and the unknown.
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Children have dreams, and the future is more promising
On the sixth day of the Chinese New Year, the Chinese women's team defeated the South Korean team 3-2, and lifted the Asian Cup championship trophy for the ninth time in history, and the Chinese people boiled up, and everyone paid tribute to the spirit of "sonorous roses" that never gave up.
Subsequently, women's football team member Li Jiayue "Jia Ge" sent out a video on the online platform, which resonated with countless netizens.
One of the passages that impressed me was something she said: "I want to make myself a special person, someone who can be helpful to this society and the world."
I also hope that every girl can have her own goals, have her own dreams, have her own life plan, and make herself unique in this society and in this world. ”
Li Jiayue has loved sports since childhood, graduated from sports school, became a professional football player, and dreamed of playing football forever and winning the championship.
This time in the Asian Cup, 32-year-old Li Jiayue came to the competition as she wished and won the championship in one fell swoop.
That's the power of dreams!
As the song "Welcome to Beijing" sings: "Anyone who has a dream is great, and if there is courage, there will be a miracle!" ”
In fact, this is the greatest law of education in the world, the law of dreams.
It refers to the fact that children should have dreams in the process of growing up, only children have dreams, they will have a vision for the future, can have continuous motivation, and children will also create more miracles because of the existence of dreams.
Dreams are the source of motivation to support children to continuously strive to improve themselves, so that children can have a direction and sense of responsibility for moving forward, and walk more steadily on the road of life.
Dreams are also a booster for children on the road ahead, so that children's hearts are full of motivation, and they continue to strive forward and go further on the road of life.
In education, parents should know how to use the "law of dreams", so that children always have colorful dreams, and use their lives to fight for them, so that children can look forward to the future.
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What parents should do
Educational psychology shows that if a person has a dream in his heart, he will live in hope and continue to create miracles of life.
Childhood is the season of dreams, a parent who knows how to love his children, should carefully care for their children's dreams, and use actions with children to design a blueprint for the future, so that the seeds of dreams can grow into towering trees.
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Respect your child's choices
Be a companion on the road of children's dreams
The famous table tennis player Deng Yaping, influenced by her father since childhood, aspired to become a world champion.
She began practicing at the age of 5 and her results were initially effective, but she was refused to join by the provincial team, on the grounds that she was not tall enough and her arms were too short.
After her father knew, he fully respected the child's choice to continue playing and told the child that once he chose, he would stick to the end.
Subsequently, Deng Yaping trained harder and harder in the company of her father and constantly overcame her own shortcomings.
She has won 125 championships, including 18 world champions and 4 Olympic champions, realizing her dream of being a champion.
In the child's choice of dreams, parents may have some opinions, but we cannot control them, let alone criticize the children's dreams.
Parents should become a listener, discover their children's interests and hobbies, be happy that their children have dreams, and praise and recognize their children's dreams.
Only in this way can they fully stimulate their inner enthusiasm and make them have a clear understanding and assessment of their dreams.
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Help your child plan their dreams
Be a guide to your child's dream path
Children are naïve, this is the season when their imagination is rich, and many times, their dreams are wild.
Coupled with the fact that children are not yet mature and have insufficient ability to understand things, many times, children's abilities cannot achieve their dreams.
At this time, parents should help their children plan the path to achieve their dreams, transform their children's dreams into specific goals, help children analyze how to achieve their dreams, and let children clearly recognize the road ahead.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Do the things in the moment well, that is, first achieve one small goal after another, and finally achieve the big goal of life.
The child's dream is his "overall goal", and parents should guide their children to decompose it into countless "small goals", so that children can think deeply and go further towards their dreams by working hard to achieve each small goal.
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Do not splash cold water on children
Be the caretaker of your child's dreams
The Wright brothers are a pair of children with dreams, and more fortunately, they have a father who is good at taking care of their dreams.
When they said they wanted to fly like geese and go anywhere they wanted, the father said to his child in an affirmative and encouraging tone: "As long as you keep working hard, one day you will definitely fly and fly where you want to go." ”
Remembering their father's teachings, the children kept working hard until they finally invented the airplane and flew.
Child psychologists believe that dreams are idealization of a child's self-image.
Encouraging children to pursue their dreams will make them have a strong internal driving force, even in the face of difficulties, they will take the initiative to find ways to overcome, and can also enable children to create performance in future learning and work, and obtain a pleasant emotional experience.
Dreams are the voice of children's growth, as parents, never pour cold water on children, but to give children's dreams a little more strength, take care of children's dreams, even if they are doing "daydreaming".
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To be successful, you must have dreams
Forrest Gump in the movie "Forrest Gump" is a low-energy child with a very low IQ, but it is precisely because of his "simple mind" that he only wants to do one thing, and he sets sail again and again towards each of his small dreams.
His mother often encouraged him to be like others and asked him to be self-reliant.
As a result, he has achieved success time and time again, becoming a university American football star, a Vietnam War hero, a world-class table tennis player, a wrestler, a chess master and a business tycoon.
He was also received by President Kennedy and awarded by President Johnson.
Life has dreams, and dreams are realistic.
Dreams can not be great, but the implementation must be very steadfast in the footsteps, it is the so-called "gathering sand into a tower" and "ten thousand tall buildings rising from the ground".
Success science believes that there is no difference between smart and stupid children, only the difference between having dreams and not having dreams.
If a person wants to succeed, he must have a dream.
When a person has a dream, he has a reason to struggle, which will produce a strong motivation and prompt them to continue to overcome the difficulties and setbacks in front of them until they succeed.
Only with dreams in your heart can you live in hope and continue to create miracles of life.
Let the children be a person with a dream, even if it seems crazy, there will be a day of realization.
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Author┃ Xiao Xiaowei
Xiao Xiaowei, a civil servant and a second-level psychological counselor, is committed to being a sister with her daughter in the name of love.
Reader┃Muzi-sensei
Teacher Muzi, a housewife who loves literature and loves to write, loves to sing and play the piano, also loves to carry simple clothes to travel, is willing to share life with everyone, and loves to use her own voice to convey the power of words, hoping that I can bring a little glimmer to everyone's life.
Shanbo Education Guidance ┃ Liang Shanbo
Liang Shanbo, a first-class teacher, an advanced educator in Shenzhen, the first batch of family education instructors in Bao'an District, the first learning star in Bao'an District, and the editor-in-chief of Shanbo Education Public Account. Engaged in education for 38 years, focusing on the comprehensive quality education of parenting.