Hot love that will be good feelings, two people like glue, two people are eager to stick together all day, a moment will not get the news of each other, it feels like the heart has lost something.
If this state can be continued, it is estimated that there will be no unhappy couples at the end of the day, but the time of hot love is always very short.
Especially in this era when everything is fast, a relationship goes from hot love to flat, and the time between them becomes shorter and shorter.
Just like the original seven-year itch, it has now become a three-year pain, although it has changed its name, but there is no difference in essence, but the time is greatly shortened.
Nowadays, people generally lack patience, many people are eager to make quick gains, and even love has become more and more utilitarian.
Some netizens shared a video in a rural kitchen, next to a pile of firewood, and an iron pot on the ground on an iron frame.
There are also some unburned firewood next to it, it can be seen that this place should have just been cooked, although all kinds of electrical appliances are convenient and fast now, but many people living in rural areas still like to burn their own fires.
There is an indescribable delicacy of firewood rice, of course, there are some purely to save money, and many people's lives are still full of bitterness and helplessness.
Crouching next to the pot was a woman dressed in red, holding a bowl in her hand, and it looked like she was eating, and although the meal was simple, she still ate deliciously.
The camera zooms farther away, and the woman is still carrying a child on her back, looking like she should be a few years old, and he still doesn't understand what just happened, and is still laughing happily.
On the ground next to it, a lot of money was lost, basically a piece, and there were a few pieces of one hundred and some five pieces of ten pieces of change, estimated to be four or five hundred.
The woman asked her husband for money before, hoping to buy a new dress, but the husband actually caught fire directly, took out the money in his pocket and threw it on the ground.
The woman is a full-time housewife, usually at home with children, running the family, has no source of income, and relies entirely on her husband to support the family.
Women eat silently next to each other, children lie on their backs and smile innocently, the husband has disappeared without a trace, and many netizens are very uncomfortable after reading it.
The money on the ground is not picked up, the woman has no money to spend, the next time you go to ask for money to buy something, it is estimated that you have to look at her husband's face, but picking up the money on the ground does not mean completely giving up dignity, and the man will be more excessive in the future.
Some netizens said that they are also a full-time housewife, and her husband went to Shenzhen to work, saying that he would send 3,000 yuan of living expenses to his home every month.
At the beginning, you can also play money on time, and then it is not on time, the husband is more than 6,000 a month, eating in the factory, there is no expense at all, the husband does not pay on time, the couple did not quarrel less.
At home, they have to take the children and do the work at home, the two old people are old, they can't help much, and everything in the family has to fall on their own women.
Once the husband did not send money to the house for two months, he called him and quarreled with him, and the result was that the husband actually said that he spent money indiscriminately, so angry that the woman shed tears.
In fact, 3,000 yuan a month is not enough to spend at all, especially when there are many red and white happy events, and thousands of pieces are taken out with gifts a month.
Later, he found that her husband did not send money on time, he raised a woman outside, he resolutely filed for divorce, and now he lives alone with children.
Although many girls are no weaker than men in earning money, most women return to their families after marriage and take care of their children and families.
Dependent on a husband financially, if you meet a man of good character, you may still be happy, but most people will not meet.
Even if the man did not think so at first, but the wife has long relied on herself, because of the economic initiative, the mentality will inevitably not change, and she will gradually look down on her wife.
This is actually a very wrong idea, whether it is making money outside or running the family at home, it is a kind of payment to the family, it is equal.
You can't ignore your wife's efforts because you don't earn money from housework, any kind of payment should be seen and respected, if you really count the wages, many men don't earn enough to pay their wives' wages.
The wife actually bears half of the labor for the husband, so the husband earns half of the wife's money, but why should the husband and wife be so clear, so there is a joint property of the husband and wife.
Two people together less personal gains and losses, more for each other to consider, more empathy to think about, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, marriage can be happy and long-lasting.