It is said that do not tutor homework mother Cizi filial piety, a tutoring homework chicken flying dog jump, do not know when to start, tutoring homework has become a nightmare for many parents, usually gentle mother, once to accompany the child to write homework can not help but beat the child, tutoring children Homework This job is really not something that ordinary parents can control.
No, a bao mom in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, confirmed this with her own personal experience.
At about 9 p.m. on January 8, a 46-year-old woman was admitted to the emergency room of Nanjing Brain Hospital, and according to the doctor, when the woman was sent to the hospital by 120, her hands and feet were completely unable to move, and she could not speak, and the doctor judged that it was likely to be a manifestation of acute cerebral hemorrhage.
After communicating with the family, the family said that the patient was usually in good health, had no underlying diseases, and was tutoring the child to write homework before fainting. Because of his excitement, he suddenly felt a little dizzy when he was throwing a tantrum at his son, and then he fainted on the ground.
Fortunately, the family's response was more timely, the first time to send the patient to the hospital, after the doctor's examination, the patient was a stroke, that is, acute cerebral infarction. The situation was urgent, the doctor immediately performed intravenous thrombolysis treatment for the patient, the patient's blood vessels were unblocked, and after 6 days of hospitalization in the hospital, he recovered and was discharged.
Doctors remind: winter is the high incidence of cerebrovascular disease season, and emotional agitation is a common trigger, once a stroke needs to be sought as soon as possible, the best time for thrombolytic therapy is within 3 hours after the onset of the disease.
After reading the news, many parents expressed their empathy: "My family is also like this, every time I can only meditate on my own biological", "I am almost a little distance from this mother, every day I am angry to the point of fainting", "the same world, the same mother".
It turns out that the tutoring homework is really not a paragraph, and there are not a few similar news on the Internet, before there was a bao dad in Shanghai who was on the hot search because of tutoring children's homework.
It turned out that when this father was tutoring his children's homework, because he could not control his emotions, the more he tutored, the more angry he became, but he was reluctant to beat the child, so he could only hammer the wall to vent his anger, and he did not expect that this hammer would hammer himself into the hospital.
After the doctor's examination, the fourth and fifth metacarpal bones of the father's right hand were obviously swollen and were diagnosed with fractures. In the end, this father was arranged to be hospitalized for surgery, and he also hit the steel plate in the palm of his hand, which was also on the hot search.
After the matter was exposed, many parents have laughed at themselves, because they may have to live for ten years to help their children with homework, but they are angry and angry, and their children's homework still needs to be tutored, but many parents actually have some misunderstandings when tutoring their children's homework.
While blaming the child for not paying attention, he casually interrupts the child
Many parents often complain that their children have no concentration when writing homework, although people do not know where their minds have drifted here. In fact, the child's own attention concentration time is limited, and only the things that are of interest will show concentration in a short period of time. But many parents not only did not seize this precious time, but also often interrupted the child, such as asking the child if he was thirsty, whether he wanted to eat some fruit, sending a cup of milk to the child for a while, etc., seemingly caring about the child, but in fact, it is constantly destroying the child's concentration, and it is difficult for the child to concentrate on writing homework.
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Many parents ostensibly help their children write homework, and people also sit next to their children, but in fact they are absent-minded, and some parents even brush up their mobile phones. Imagine that the child is seriously writing homework, parents are brushing videos and playing games next to them, how can the child concentrate on writing homework?
Can't help but yell at the child
Friends often complain that they don't want to be angry with their children, but every time they write homework with their children, watching their children drink water for a while and go to the toilet for a while, a bunch of reasons seem to be uncomfortable as long as they write homework, and they can't control their temper. As everyone knows, the more this situation is, the more parents must control their temper, yelling at the child to write homework not only can not play any role, but will only let the child write a shadow of homework, so parents must hold back and hold back, control their temper.
What is the correct posture to help your child with homework?
Clarify who is responsible for learning
Experienced parents know that tutoring children's homework sometimes often has to be said several times a question, and parents who encounter acute children are eager to do it themselves after teaching it several times, or tell the correct answer directly to their children.
But parents should not forget to accompany their children to write homework in order to help children develop good learning habits, not to simply complete homework, parents should still be more patient, guide children to solve problems on their own, let children learn to learn actively, rather than looking for parents as soon as there is a problem.
Create a good learning atmosphere
If you want to let your child concentrate on learning, the most important thing is to provide a good learning atmosphere for your child, and when your child writes homework, parents can take a book and quietly accompany them, and do not interrupt the child at will during the process. Even if you see that the child carelessly writes wrong, do not immediately point out, you can wait for the end of the check with the child, guide the child to find the error and correct it, so that not only the effect is good, but also will not disturb the child's homework thinking.