Quanzhou Anshen Psychological Hospital: We may have heard: My child has been very obedient since he was a child, and he watches TV in addition to reading books during his breaks. This semester, I rarely speak. Is it a sign of autism?
With the end of the summer vacation, a new round of study has begun. Parents are most worried about whether their children can concentrate on learning and get along well with their classmates.
In fact, parents have their own standards for whether their children are good or not, and they always think that children are obedient. However, when children are accustomed to obedience, they do not know how to express different opinions. But they have all kinds of ideas in their minds, which will explode after accumulating to a certain extent, usually manifested as boredom, non-interaction with classmates, and so on.
Usually, if parents find that their children only read books, watch TV, rarely talk, and rarely mention school activities and classmates, they may be too introverted and need timely counseling.
Introverted children are generally accustomed to listening to their parents and obeying their parents, and parents will ignore the factors of their children's personality. Among the children who come to counseling, most of them have formed personality disorders, which has a lot to do with parents' blind emphasis on learning and neglecting the shaping and cultivation of children's personality.
When educating their children, parents should not blindly pursue their children's test scores, but also teach their children how to get along with classmates, teachers and elders. You know, children are people, not learning machines. If you have time, communicate and talk to your children more and encourage them to participate in group activities. Also pay attention to changes in your child's learning, hobbies, and emotions. In addition, for introverted, withdrawn children, pay special attention to their interpersonal communication, because interpersonal communication can improve the child's personality shortcomings, so encourage them to get along with classmates and partners.