Today to share Xiao Jing's story, as of the end of January, Xiao Jing has been recovering in Wosan for five months, and in these five months, he has exhibited ten key behaviors, each of which is obtained by his step-by-step efforts, and the appearance of each behavior has a representative significance.
First, he can't do without his mother now, no matter where his mother goes, he has to stick to his mother, before the mother went where he had nothing to do with him, as long as there is food around him, the mother also feels that the child is close to him a lot;
Second, he began to react to the name call, although he went out five or six meters with his mother, when he called him in the back, he would also turn his head or look after him with his eyes, and when he first came, no matter what method he used to call his name, there was no reaction;
Third, he would wave goodbye, and after a month or two of intervention, he appeared to wave goodbye, which represented the activation of his body language and the beginning of his language and comprehension function. The initiation of body language is also a very important aspect of the development of speech language, when normal children do not speak, they want to express the meaning of goodbye and thank you, they will use body movements to express, such as making waves, prostrating, kissing, etc., but Xiao Jing did not have any body language before;
Fourth, after recovering for about two months, he can walk on his own, can run and jump in the park or the yard of the community, does not need his mother to hold him at all, and will not lose his temper because his mother does not hold him, proving that his physical fitness and function have returned to the level of normal children;
Fifth, he began to wear clothes, undress, shoes, and socks on his own, and was able to complete the simple tasks in life by himself, and realized the recovery of functions in life, which was directly related to the recovery of his intelligence, understanding and coordination ability;
Sixth, began to execute the password and can complete the task, the mother said that Xiaojing likes to sit on the sofa to eat, but it is easy to dirty the sofa, the mother told Xiaojing before eating: "Take the mat out and spread it on the sofa," Xiaojing took the mat out and spread it on the sofa, so he can not only execute the password now, but also complete it very well, other small things in life, mothers can use language to convey information to Xiaojing. Being able to enforce passwords is a progress that he has made across history, because Xiao Jing could not understand words before, and he was either unresponsive to his mother's password or lost his temper, so he can now understand his mother's password, which is also a process from scratch, which means that his listening and understanding has begun to develop little by little;
Seventh, when he wanted to watch TV, he would take the remote control and hand it to Dad. Before, he would only drag his father to the TV when he watched TV, and would not go to get the remote control. Now he knows that he needs a remote control to turn on the TV, and he needs to give the remote control to His Father first, and Dad can turn it on. This is when he observed the causal relationship, paid attention to the relationship between the TV and the remote control, and also knew the relationship between the remote control in Dad's hands and the TV. This shows that he has established a simple logical relationship;
Eighth, start to rummage through the boxes and cabinets, normal children will also have this phenomenon when they are about one year old, that is, open the cabinet to see what is inside. Although Xiao Jing is almost seven years old, he has no such function at all. One day, he suddenly started to rummage through the drawers at home, exploring the world like a normal child, looking for what he should explore. The same is true in the training center, one day he suddenly ran to the classroom on the third floor, put some training facilities on his head, some licked with his mouth, some patted with his hands, picked up all the training facilities to see, he was looking for answers, he wanted to figure out "what this is for, what is useful, can he eat" and other issues, he is through his perception, in judgment, looking for interesting, he likes things in this world, indicating that his information range began to be broad;
Ninth, at home began to play with dad, especially willing to ride on dad's belly to play. Now he is also interested in people, willing to do some simple and understandable interactions with people, which also marks Xiaojing's return from an autistic state to a normal child's state;
Tenth, there will be no more crying for no reason, and everyone knows that autistic children often laugh or cry without because of it. Xiao Jing was the same before, he would suddenly lose his temper, and his emotions would be more intense, knocking on the ground with his legs, crying, biting his clothes, biting his fingers, and putting some things that he shouldn't eat in his mouth, which might last for about thirty minutes. Now if he is not satisfied, he will vent his emotions, much less intensely than before, and the time will last for a few minutes, or even less than a minute.
Wassan adopted three rehabilitation themes for Xiaojing, the first is to establish a relationship with his mother, we must let him have an emotional reply, it can be seen that this relationship has begun to be established, emotions are constantly being delivered to Xiaojing, and it will get better and better in the future; secondly, language understanding, his current language understanding, although it cannot reach depth, but can begin to understand some simple verbs, nouns, and even some verbs and nouns of human beings from scratch Finally, understand the relationship between cause and effect, understand logic, know the relationship between things and things, and the relationship between people and things.
In summary, in these five months, Wassan let a severe autistic child come out of the autistic state little by little, believing that Xiaojing's future will get better and better, and also wishing Xiaojing a very bright and different happy life.