"I often think in my heart that if his health is not good, it is also a good thing!" He may have to walk in front of me, I may close my eyes, my eyes may be able to close; if I go before him, if he walks behind me, I may not be able to close my eyes..."
The implication of a mother of an autistic child, who has raised her child for 21 years, said such a tear-jerking remark in front of the camera, the implication of which is simple: if her child dies before her, she can still be blind after a hundred years, because she can leave this world without any care; but if she dies and the child is still unattended in the world, then she will die blindly.
The mother's desire to live longer than the child is not cruel, nor selfish, but a special expression of maternal love. Poor parents in the world, this mother wants to take care of her children for a lifetime, but she is worried that if she leaves the world before her children, then the children will be helpless and live a miserable, even life worse than death, which is a phenomenon that this mother does not want to see.
Every child is like a blank sheet of paper, and a child with autism is obviously like a more fragile piece of white paper, some people call them "children of the stars." If they can't get rid of the quagmire of autism, then their lives can't take care of themselves, their growth and development are slow, and they don't want to accept anything new, and they don't even want to change the strange habits of life.
A friend's school has an autistic child who yells during class and makes dangerous moves at the end of class, such as jumping down several stairs, and he will cry for no reason. During the class, he never spoke, nor did he want to communicate with other people, every day after going to school, this child often peed his pants, he could not even write his own name during his studies, the classmates around him discriminated against him, the teacher was helpless against him, and the days passed, the child's condition has not improved...
Some people say that children with autism are "children of the stars", how should such children be educated? Or how should such a child be treated? If parents focus on education and training, and psychotropic treatment is supplemented, there is still a certain hope to change the current situation of young autistic children.
First of all, parents should let autistic children try to imitate various standardized behaviors, such as accompanying children to do radio exercises, teaching children how to do housework, etc., trying to awaken children's perceptual ability, so that children can learn to live independently step by step. Of course, to achieve self-care in life, the difficulty is not general, but parents do not abandon, do not give up, then all miracles may happen.
Secondly, parents should carry out more parent-child interaction activities with children with autism, so that children can express their emotions in an appropriate way, such as using expression discrimination to let children feel the specific emotions of parents, such as using eye-to-eye to make children feel the joy and sorrow in their eyes, such as using hide-and-seek to make children feel the joy of life, first let children communicate with parents, and school teachers can also encourage other children to play with children with autism.
Third, parents can turn to psychologists to carry out systematic and targeted psychological treatment for their children, and they can also take their children to the psychiatric department of regular hospitals to seek auxiliary treatment on drugs, find ways to alleviate the child's autistic symptoms, and restore normal "dredging and troubleshooting" for the child as soon as possible.
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