Quanzhou Anshen Psychological Hospital: In the character formation period, children show defects in character will, and parents should pay attention to it and help and guide in time.
First, let children learn to live and learn to master themselves. The arranged substitution of parents is one of the important reasons for the weakness of children's personality. Some parents are obedient to their children and don't let them do anything. This is equivalent to depriving the child of the opportunity for self-expression, resulting in a shrinking of the child's ability to live independently.
Second, let the child reach out to peers and exercise themselves. Psychologists point out that children's personalities are most evident in games and daily life, which is also the best way to correct bad personalities. Imitation is a major feature of children. Parents should let children with weak personalities often be with brave and brave friends, and then do some things that they usually dare not do, and slowly get exercise.
Third, respect the child and do not expose the child's shortcomings in public. Relatively speaking, children with weaker personalities are more introverted and emotionally fragile, and parents should pay special attention to protecting their self-esteem. If the child's shortcomings are exposed in public, it will hurt the child's dignity, and invisible bad stimuli will strengthen the child's weakness.
Fourth, let the child speak boldly. To do this, the kung fu is still on the parents. First of all, parents should restrain their impatience and not scold or force their children to speak. Second, some children of the same age and weak personalities can be invited to participate in group activities. At this time, parents can guide them or simply avoid them, so that they have a free and unfettered language space. If conditions permit, parents can often take their children to some places with open horizons and large spaces to encourage children to vent loudly.