Wen Neng was admitted to Harvard, the Olympic champion of Wuneng; his appearance can be on the cover of fashion magazines, what a spirit, and he can sleep 12 hours a day.
Doesn't it sound like the setting of an 8-stream Mary Sue novel.
But someone really collected all the above labels.
She is Gu Ailing, who was predicted to be a purple micro star.
In the winter Olympics freestyle skiing women's big jump final, Gu Ailing faced the world's number one player, successfully challenged the 1620-degree two-and-a-half-week turn on the biggest stage for the first time, and won the gold medal with a high score of 94.50 in the last jump.
△ This is an action that she has never made public before, and it is called the real "Fairy Show".
It was her first Winter Olympic medal herself! This is also the first time that Chinese athletes have participated in the Big Jumping Platform of the Winter Olympics!
The most powerful thing is that Gu Ailing is still on the Internet at 2 a.m. (commenting on Zhu Yi on the Internet), getting up in the morning to participate in the competition, easily breaking the record and taking the championship, and not his main event!
I started learning to ski at the age of 3,
At the age of 9, he won the National Junior Championship,
At the age of 15, he won the gold medal in the World Cup in Italy.
The 17-year-old Team USA noticed her and threw an olive branch at Gu Ailing.
But Gu Ailing made a decision that surprised everyone.
Refused the invitation of the American team, voluntarily renounced the American nationality, and joined the Chinese nationality.
In the next two years, she won a total of 12 gold medals for China.
Not only did she become famous at a young age in the sports arena, Gu Ailing was also "riding the dust" academically, with a full score of 1600 sat (equivalent to the domestic college entrance examination) She scored 1580 points and was admitted to Stanford University.
This 18-year-old girl is indisputably the kind of "other people's child".
However, in private, Gu Ailing is actually no different from ordinary children...
Spontaneous, lively and curious.
Sometimes I make mistakes, and I have fractured my ski three times.
Her dazzling resume is the result of her tireless efforts.
Whatever she does, she adheres to the principle of building a clear worldview.
A perfect life is not innate, and behind her every step of success is the growth trajectory accompanied by "other people's parents".
Never limit, allow children to have more possibilities
Her mother is a native of Beijing and graduated from Stanford.
His father was an American and a graduate of Harvard.
Such a family is destined to have "other people's parents" from an early age.
Mom and Dad are academically excellent, but they also love sports in their spare time.
Mom used to be a member of the Peking University Short Track Speed Skating Team and is now a part-time ski instructor.
At an age when other children were still playing with the balance bike, Gu Ailing had already stepped on a snowboard.
Perhaps in the eyes of most people, such a gene, Gu Ailing is destined to be trained into a professional skier. But Her mother Gu Yan never forced her to have some great achievements in skiing.
Instead, she liked to play the piano, and her mother sent her to learn piano;
She liked to dance, and her mother sent her to study ballet.
At a young age, Gu Ailing has been accompanied by her parents and has tried various sports forms such as rock climbing, horse riding, cross-country running, football, basketball, archery and so on.
piano
marathon
As long as she wants to try, her parents will send her to feel it.
Until one day, Gu Ailing and her mother took a cable car at the ski resort.
By chance, she saw the free skiers flying and spinning in the air, and the whole person was shocked and shocked.
It was probably from then on that Otani AiLing chose the path he wanted to take in the future.
At the age of 8, she officially joined the North-South League ski team in the United States, becoming the only girl on the team.
At a young age, I found my own direction in life, which is really powerful.
And the parents who silently supported her behind her and gave her enough space to choose were even more admirable.
Even if the "double reduction" policy is now in place and the extracurricular tutoring classes outside the school are suspended, many parents of Wangzi Jackie Chan and Wangnu Chengfeng still let their children run to various interests and hobbies tutoring classes.
The daily study is tired enough, the various study plans are not easy, and some "interest" cultivation is also needed.
However, Gu Ailing's parents never forced her to passively accept some hobbies, and what her parents did the most was companionship.
Even if it takes 4 hours to drive from school to training ground, they will accompany them personally, rather than borrowing from others.
They give their daughter enough opportunities to contact the world, let the child clearly understand what is really important to them, and then the child will choose his own life path.
Never deny, the child encounters difficulties and actively encourages
Where is the child's growth smooth sailing?
Gu Ailing, who is on the road to growth, has not encountered difficulties.
4-year-old Gu Ailing once got tired of practicing and wanted to give up.
The grandmother who practiced with her (mom's mother, but Grandma Gu shouted) did not blame her, nor did she force her to continue practicing, but told her: "Ai Ling, Grandma came to play once to see." ”
Just like that, Grandma played a sentence and sang a sentence. This form attracted Gu Ailing, who said "this is fun" on the spot and took the initiative to say that he also wanted to try it.
Grandma was with her like this, playing a sentence and singing a sentence.
Edutainment, play and play, the piano is also practiced.
In such a company, Gu Ailing never said that he did not love to learn.
In fact, when children are not in a good state of learning, most of the situations are not intentional, and it does not mean that they really want to give up. It's just that they may need to change the way they learn.
Gu Ailing's grandmother understands this very well, and her mother naturally knows it.
The road to competitive sports has never been as simple as imagined. Behind the glittering gold medal is more than a decade of hard work.
Injured, frustrated, and encountered bottlenecks that they could not break through when training.
None of these difficulties defeated Gu Ailing, but made her more and more frustrated and courageous. All this is thanks to the support and encouragement of the mother behind it.
When Gu Ailing was 13 years old, he encountered great difficulties in participating in the adult competition for the first time.
It could be the reason for the venue, or it could be that she was too young and too light, and she kept falling down, unable to complete the full game action.
Such a blow was too great for Gu Ailing, who had been very good since childhood. At one point, she wanted to give up her love of skiing because she couldn't figure out what was going on.
At such a time, how can you get less encouragement from your mother?
She encouraged her daughter not to give up on her dreams because of a little frustration, and accompanied her to a year of high-intensity trampoline training.
A year later, 14-year-old Gu Ailing returned to the original arena, she has overcome all the difficulties, can complete the action that has fallen countless times on this arena with high quality.
The companionship and encouragement of her family are crucial to Gu Ailing's growth. Because of the trust and strength they give, Gu Ailing has always firmly believed that he can do it, and there is no difficulty to defeat me.
Never hit, the child's dream is always great
I often see interviews with Gu Ailing, and the title or content of the article likes to use "genius" to describe her.
However, a gifted child, the genes of her parents are important, but the efforts and persistence she has made for her dreams along the way cannot be denied.
All along, Gu Ailing has been unique, intelligent, profound, and intelligent.
She didn't give up other aspects of her development in order to become a professional skier.
Sat is close to full marks, and has been invited to work as a model at Fashion Week many times, and various fashion magazines have invited her to shoot.
Behind these identities of the slanted pole girls are inseparable from the good education of their parents.
A girl whose heart is full of internal drive, once she has a dream, nothing will stop her progress.
Even if you start from scratch, you are fearless, have a clear goal, are motivated, and keep your feet on the ground.
The role of parents is not to fill their children with a bucket of water, but to light a fire for their children's dreams.
Family education has a great impact on a child's growth.
Every child has an imperfect side, guide him correctly when he lacks a goal!
Actively encourage him when he encounters setbacks!
When the mood is low, listen to understand him!
Respect your child's ideas and accept more possibilities for your child.
In limited companionship, create an infinite parent-child relationship and become the envy of everyone as "other people's parents".