Quanzhou Anshen Psychological Hospital: Every baby likes to be caressed, teased and close to adults, which is the initial "collective desire". When a child is mentally satisfied, his body and mind will grow healthily. When your baby is one year old, this collective desire is stronger. He especially enjoyed playing with children of the same age and began to turn to social needs. But there are also some children who do not adapt, which is not normal. The reasons may be:
1. Psychological repression of parental discord or family setbacks, resulting in children's lonely personality and unwillingness to accept people.
2. Some families that are dependent on adults keep their children in private homes because they have not left the arms of adults since they were young and their ability to adapt to the environment is relatively poor. I love to cry after kindergarten, and some even have neurological disorders: crying to urinate, but I refuse to pee in the potty, and when I take off the bedpan, I pee my pants. It is often difficult to adjust to life in a nursery rather than play with children and prefer to be alone.
3. Environmental constraints Some parents are too doting on their children, too strict in protecting their children, and are not allowed to go to the street. Children are timid because they have lost the opportunity to interact with others for a long time. It is unnatural to meet strangers and will not take the initiative to play with children. Some only children, because of their parents' doting on them, have developed a willful, domineering, and selfish personality, and they do not get along well with their children.
In short, whether it is a spiritual factor or other reason, the common denominator is the lack of opportunities for communication. Therefore, parents should stimulate their children's lively nature and give them some time to play with their partners. We should create opportunities for timid children to encourage them to engage with others. Unsociable children have a hard time adapting to future group and social life.