Quanzhou Anshen Psychological Hospital: In daily life, people often use "five tastes and miscellaneous chen" and "complex entanglement" to describe some indescribable emotional feelings. Mixed moods are like the pleasure of a glass of fruit, which may be mixed with lemons, grapefruit, apples and grapes... Each fruit represents a mood, and when they are mixed together, it's hard to taste the ingredients added to the juice at once.
When we are young, our emotions are relatively simple and direct. Maybe a situation only stimulates one emotion, like a glass of pure juice, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy. For example, when you see your mom, you'll be happy; eat something delicious, you'll be satisfied; when you see a monster in a comic, you'll be scared; going to kindergarten and separating your parents will make you sad; if you want to be rejected, you'll be angry...
However, as you grow, you will gradually discover the same thing. On different occasions, at different times, and with different people, we have different emotions. In addition, the effect of events on our meaning, culture, and cognitive attribution can change our inner feelings.
For example, the feeling of rejection in public is not the same as the feeling of rejection in private. While rejection can cause feelings of regret, loss, and sadness, perhaps being rejected in public can be embarrassing, and regretting doing so can create resentment and anger on the rejected party. Close people and estranged people will also reject themselves, and being rejected by people close to them may make them feel more complicated - disappointed, aggrieved, unwilling, sad, complaining that they treat themselves like this...
The same thing, maybe everyone feels exactly the same. But in general, the more important things for you, the people you are more close to, will make more waves in your mind.