I was 63 years old, lived alone after my wife died, and two months ago my daughter-in-law took me to her house and gave me 500 pocket money every month. But the son is still arguing

I was 63 years old, lived alone after my wife died, and two months ago my daughter-in-law took me to her house and gave me 500 pocket money every month.

But the son is still arguing, saying that it is not wrong for them to do this as a husband and wife, how good it is for the family to live together, and the son still thinks that I have too much to do, saying that I do not understand them, I really have words of suffering.

I am 63 years old, more than 3,000 monthly pension, my wife has been dead for five years, for five years I have lived alone, my daughter once wanted to pick me up, but I think the floor where they live is too high, although there is an elevator, but once the power is out, it is very inconvenient to go up and down the stairs.

The house where I live now is left to me by my mother-in-law, I married my husband, and I got married here, although this building is not too big, it is relatively old, but I have lived for so many years, I am used to it, cleaning up clean, tidy up, living is also very comfortable.

I also have a son, 36 years old, his wife is two years younger than him, this year 34, I have a grandson, seven years old this year. My son is a technician in a factory with a monthly salary of more than five thousand yuan, and my daughter-in-law is the manager of a supermarket with a monthly salary of about five thousand yuan. Although my son and daughter-in-law also have a lot of income, I will still subsidize them every month.

The relationship between my daughter-in-law and me is also quite harmonious, although it is inevitable that there will be a little unhappiness and a small contradiction, but if the tongue cannot touch the teeth, it is a family, don't worry too much, there is nothing that cannot be done.

One night two months ago, my daughter-in-law came to my house, carrying a lot of fruit, and said she hadn't come to see me for several days. My son also came, my son said to me: Two days ago, I listened to a colleague in the unit said that his mother seventy-one, like you, is also living alone, three days ago, his mother died suddenly in the night, two days later was found by the neighbors, sudden brain congestion, if there was a person around at that time, you can still rescue it, this matter makes me very worried about you.

Daughter-in-law said: Mom, you are also living alone, although you are still healthy, but your age is not small, there is no companion around, we husband and wife can not rest assured, today is to pick you up and live with us.

My son and daughter-in-law have filial piety, and of course I was happy, so I packed up my things and went to my son's house with them. My daughter-in-law has already prepared the room for me, the new sheets are laid, the room is clean, and I feel extremely happy. Isn't it just for this day to have children?

The daughter-in-law also gave me 500 yuan, and the daughter-in-law said: Although you have money, it is your own, and these 500 are our children's filial piety to you.

My son and daughter-in-law are so sensible, and I am extremely relieved. Since then, I have lived in my son's house with peace of mind. They all have jobs, and during the day, I help them cook, wash clothes, clean up the room.

After living here for two months, I got bored and I missed my own home, which had a lot of my old sisters and we often chatted and walked together.

One morning, my son and daughter-in-law were all at work, and after I cleaned up my room, I planned to go back to my house to see. I've lived there for many years, and I've had feelings, so I took my own taxi back.

But when I took out the key and was about to open the door, I heard someone talking inside, so I knocked on the door, and sure enough, there was someone inside, and it was a middle-aged woman who opened the door.

I asked her: Who are you? How do I live in my house? The middle-aged woman was surprised, she said: It was Xiaoli who rented the house to me, and Xiaoli said that it was her house.

Xiaoli is my daughter-in-law, and I asked again: What is your relationship with Xiaoli? How did you get here? The middle-aged woman said: Xiaoli and I are colleagues, I am a countryman, just came to work in the supermarket. The next day to the supermarket, I want to rent a house, close to the supermarket is the best, Xiaoli knows, she told me that she has an idle house, just no one lives, just rented to me, monthly rent 1500.

Hearing this, I understood that my son and daughter-in-law took me to their house because they wanted to rent out my house, the monthly rent was 1500, they gave me 500, and they still had 1000 left.

I was shaking with rage.

I don't blame my son and daughter-in-law for renting out my house, I'm angry that they don't consult with me, and if they really have this plan, I won't support it, after all, we live together, the family has a care for each other, and there is an extra income, which is good for everyone.

But they didn't tell me the truth, they rented out my house privately, and left behind the rent money that belonged to me, I didn't think about the rent money, but the son and daughter-in-law's practice, which made me sad.

I would like to ask my son and daughter-in-law why they did not consult with me beforehand. I also considered that it was not worth it to cause family conflicts, and I also wanted to pretend not to know about it, but I felt depressed in my heart.

Someone lived in my room, I could not always get rid of people, so I was very angry and returned home, my son's house, my daughter-in-law just was not there, I asked my son: You rented out my house, why didn't you discuss with me beforehand? You come to discuss with me, and I will not disagree.

But my son thought I had a lot of things to do, he said: You see how good we live together now, you still have 500 more pocket money every month, we also have more income, you are old and worried.

Shouldn't I ask my son about this? Am I really a lot of things?

1: You are the owner of the house, you have the right to decide the purpose of the house, your son and daughter-in-law rented out your house without your consent, it must be their fault, you asked about this matter, it is reasonable.

2: From your story, I understand your thoughts, you do not disagree with renting out the house, you care about your son and daughter-in-law to hide the truth, their approach, it is really difficult to accept.

At this point, I advise you to accept the facts, after all, your son and daughter-in-law are not outsiders, they have no malice, and it is still very important for the family to tolerate each other.

3: There is a problem with your son's way of speaking, and his own mother, how can you say that you are a lot of business. You can show your attitude to your son and daughter-in-law, and you tell them that you don't care about them renting out the house, you care that they don't ask for your opinion, so that when they encounter similar things in the future, they must know how to respect your wishes.