At the end of the year, the parents who work outside the home have embarked on a new year's journey.
Those who are bitter are the children who stay at home.
In the past two days, I have seen a lot of relevant information in the headlines, and the reaction of the parents leaving the home of the child is painful.
The two girls I chose, at least in the videos or pictures I saw, the children did not cry, and the older children also told their father to go home and see her more.
The other little girl saw the emptiness in the room and the loss on her face was obvious.
Maybe these two children are not the first time to face such a situation, or maybe they have cried and made trouble in the face of their parents going out before, but it has no effect.
So, slowly they learned to accept, and even became sensible, and became seemingly able to understand the hearts of their parents.
However, I believe that every child who is forced to leave their parents will be sad and sad, and there will be tears, but we just can't see it, or they no longer let others see it easily.
As parents, we may feel that these children can slowly understand, but in fact, children grow up slowly and are indeed less dependent on their parents, but the psychological trauma caused by parting will always be there.
As for what this trauma will reappear, or affect the people around them, we cannot predict.
Some people will slowly heal, and some people may not be able to let go for life.
The silver pearl in the Korean drama "Watching and Watching" has a similar experience of not living with her parents since she was a child, even if she returns to her parents later, her relationship with her mother has always been bad, and she has always had a knot in her heart.
In our real life, there are many similar examples, children who have not been around for a long time, after being picked up by their parents, all kinds of awkwardness, rebellion, conflict, parents are angry, they need to reflect on what is the reason behind the child's behavior.
Cherish your child and give your child a complete parent-child companion as much as possible.
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