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Talk about programmer socialization Most programmers only write sage codes, do not hear things outside the window, over time, in the technical aspect of the achievement is very high, but, over time, social can

author:IT person Zhang Feihong

Talk about programmer socializing

Most programmers only write sage codes, both ears do not hear things outside the window, over time, in this area of technology attainment is very high, but, over time, the ability to socialize without attention, will slowly degenerate, become do not love to deal with people, in the eyes of others will feel that this person is not easy to communicate, their personality becomes more closed, social will be repeatedly frustrated Finally, forming a vicious circle, serious may also get depression.

Technology is precious, if you relax your mentality, you will find that writing code and driving taxis, delivering takeaways, cement workers are no different, not that I despise other types of work, but 365 lines, lines out of shape, a flower a world, a leaf as the same, each industry wants to do the head is not easy, have to focus, hard work and persistence.

I often see some programmers from the company to clock in to work home, sometimes did not say a word, under the calm appearance, the heart should be turbulent, the so-called authorities fans, may not be conscious, or feel that there is nothing to say, say more than better to show me the code. I think in fact, there is no need to be so rigid, in fact, people are social animals, programmers are people, there must be a need for socialization. Social topics can also be all-encompassing, there is a family, there is parenting, there is technology, there is reading, there is investment, there is financial management, there is management, etc., since there are so many topics, then at noon when eating, when returning from work, when resting and drinking tea, why not open your heart to contact the outside world?

Everyone is a book, the quality of this book is poor, there are wonderful chapters, there is the value you need to exchange, the essence of social networking is actually value exchange, the so-called communication creates value sharing to bring happiness.

I used to look down on those who were perfunctory, inconsistent in appearance, felt that the other party had no morality, no merit, did not love to talk to each other, invisibly set up a chimney for themselves, and then think about it, in fact, it is not necessary, in fact, they exaggerated things, the so-called white in the black, in fact, should be in turn the black to see the white, the threesome must have my teacher, choose the good and follow it, and the bad ones change it.

Socializing between colleagues on different channels is awkward and awkward and boring, like a bad product experience, is this perception overly sensitive?

The universe is 14 billion years old, the earth is 3 billion years old, you and I meet but the moment of the time and space tunnel, not more than one step is not a step earlier, can be encountered by chance in the nanosecond time, then cherish it.

Programmers really have to get out there, and that bit of code really isn't all we have.

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