One night at the age of 28, as soon as I arrived at the door of my house with a pair of children, I was stunned by a man, and the next day I woke up with my son and daughter gone, so I cried and blinded my eyes... My name is

One night at the age of 28, as soon as I arrived at the door of my house with a pair of children, I was stunned by a man, and the next day I woke up with my son and daughter gone, so I cried and blinded my eyes...

My name is Xie Xiuqun, 54 years old, and now a blind man, who opened two massage shops for the blind, and wanted to help me find my son who had been trafficked through well-meaning people.

I was born into a patriarchal family, and as a child, I was tasked with doing housework and pouring tea and water for my brother and parents. I once begged my mother to go to school, but my mother slapped me twice on the ass and exclaimed, "Women are someone else's, still want to go to school?" If you can't marry out, you will lose money. ”

After that, I made up my mind to leave the house. When I was 19 years old, I got married, my husband was an ordinary peasant family, but also a "mother treasure man", in the second year of marriage I gave birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law often said in a yin and yang weird way: "A woman who is not blessed, even a boy cannot be born." Two years later I had another son, which blocked her mouth.

At the age of 23, I discussed with my husband to go out to work, but my husband did not agree, on the grounds that my mother-in-law did not allow me, I was fed up with my husband's cowardice, and said with a gamble: "Then let's leave, I will go out by myself..." Before I could finish, he sat up from the bed with a carp: "You have two children to take away, I can't raise them." ”

Although I was hurt, I agreed, carrying my daughter, holding my son, and leaving the house with two bags on my back.

As soon as I got off the train, I was taken to a place by men who claimed to be fellow villagers in Guangxi, and as soon as I entered the door, I was controlled by 3 men, who took away my son and daughter and pushed me to the car, I immediately realized that something was wrong, punched and kicked them, and would rather die to get the child back.

In the end, they gave my daughter back to me, and wanted to continue to take back my son, but the other party threatened to hurt my son, so I could only endure the grief and get into the car, so we separated from my son.

My daughter and I were sold into a man's house, and he became my second husband, and I cried and asked him to accompany me to find my son, but I searched for nine months without a clue. Then we had another boy, and our days were relatively stable.

Soon after, in order to subsidize the family, my husband went out to work, and one day, I went to the vegetable garden to pull some vegetables back, but I was accidentally eaten by chickens and pigs, and afterwards the chickens and pigs died. I was scared out of a cold sweat, if I cooked with those dishes, it would be our mother-in-law who died. I just remembered that yesterday my sister-in-law was sneaking around in the vegetable garden to spray insects.

I called my husband and asked her to teach her a lesson to my sister-in-law, but he refused, he did not want to offend his brother. I had to say, "I don't dare live here anymore, I'll go to work with you and find my first son by the way." Unexpectedly, the husband said, "If you want to find it yourself, let's separate." Then the phone was hung up, and my heart was half cold, and I didn't expect my second husband to be so desperate.

I left the house again with my son and daughter and got a job as a waiter, living a very poor but happy life, the only regret is that the first son is still not heard.

One day at the age of 28, the incident at the beginning of the article happened, a man stunned me and took two children. I woke up and rushed to find the children, and the neighbor told me that a person who claimed to be my husband came yesterday, when mobile phones were not popular, and I and my previous two husbands had long since cut off contact, and there was no way to verify each other's identities.

Coupled with the experience of being abducted once before, I was very afraid that the children would be sold again, so I had to look around on my own, looking for them during the day, crying at night, and soon after, I was blinded by acute glaucoma.

I was more afraid of becoming blind, but I did not want to give up, while listening to the radio while trying to find a way, later, I went to the blind school to learn massage, in order to practice, I got up at 5 o'clock every morning, went to bed at 12:30 pm, kept looking for acupuncture points on the body to practice, and successfully graduated in just 45 days.

In the beginning, I worked at a massage shop in Henan, and I often told customers about my experiences, hoping that they would help me find children. Later, I met a reporter from Henan, and with his help, I found my daughter and second son, and it turned out that it was my second husband who brought the child back.

My daughter told me that after her father brought them back, she didn't care, and when she was very young, she went out to work with her brother, so that she could live a good life, and now she has a family and children.

I wanted to continue to ask customers to help find my first son, but the owner of the massage shop felt that I was affecting the business and fired me. I simply went to Beijing and opened 2 blind massage shops myself, asking customers to help me find my children. I met a volunteer from the "Waiting for Me" column group, and with the help of the program group, I found my first son.

Fortunately, after his first son was sold, his adoptive parents were very kind to him, and he is now married and has children.

1. Improve legal awareness and call the police as soon as possible after being abducted

Xie Xiuqun's experience has the imprint of the times, when communication was not developed and people's legal awareness was not strong, so after she and her children were abducted, she did not call the police, but lived with her second husband. Later, the two children were taken away again, and she did not call the police, but went to look for them alone in silence.

In case you or your child is abducted, you must call the police at the first time, and you can also use the Network to let everyone help find your child.

2. Fighting against fate, there are always more ways than difficulties

Xie Xiuqun has been wandering and experiencing ups and downs in her life, but she has always been saving herself. Her parents did not like her, so she resolutely decided to leave; the two husbands could not support the house, she broke a path on her own; whether she was abducted or blind, she never gave up. No matter how hard life is, she moves forward step by step on her own.

Fate is uncertain, but the way is always more than difficult, as long as you do not give up and move forward bravely, you will be able to see the light.

3, laugh at the suffering, always with a grateful heart

Most people who encounter such suffering will complain about the world. But after experiencing all kinds of tribulations, I saw a kind of freedom in Xie Xiuqun, she actively faced life and always had a grateful heart, which may be exactly what the saying: those who can't kill me will eventually make me stronger.