#Do you regret marrying far away# #远嫁到底好不好, have you ever regretted it# Those girls who once married far away for love, do you regret it?
Recently, a woman in Guangxi married more than 3,000 kilometers away, and posted a marriage room prepared for herself by her in-laws on the Internet, which instantly attracted heated discussion among netizens.
This woman was originally from Guangxi, because she worked in Guangdong and met her husband from rural Hebei, so the two of them developed to talk about marriage because of a long time together!
At the beginning, the woman's parents did not agree to her marrying far away, afraid that she would marry so far, in case she was wronged in the in-laws' house, it was not easy to go back to her mother's house, and the people of the mother's family could not help much...
But for the sake of love, the girl insists on marrying far away! Of course, parents are definitely not good!
At that time, the woman came to the man's home for the first time, although she also knew that the man was rural and the conditions were not good, but she did not expect to be so shabby... The marriage room prepared for them by the in-laws, without decoration, is a simple bed, a cabinet, which seems to have air conditioning, and it is already very old! The hood in the kitchen looks dirty and broken, the walls are yellowed with oil stains, and it looks like a room that has been used for many years...
When the woman saw this scene, the heart that could once marry for love was already cold!
Think of other people's marriage is the house decoration is very beautiful, at least there must be a few decent pieces of furniture, even if it is not new, but also scrub and wash clean, big red cover, big red happy word, lively, red wedding!
However, this scene was looked at by the husband, but he did not say anything, maybe in their opinion, this is normal!
In fact, to tell the truth, I am also considered to be a distant marriage, and the result is: diet is not used to, living customs are different, speech is not clear, and concepts are different!!! Even when I gave birth to a child, my mother's family could not come to see me, because it was far away, the road was far away, it was inconvenient to take the car, and I did not take the child back to my mother's house! But fortunately, my husband can understand me who is married far away, and he tries to be considerate of me and tolerate me in life!
In the end, whether to marry far away, in fact, really depends on how the man treats you! If you marry far away, your husband can't understand, everything is in accordance with the customs of the man, then I think it is really not necessary to marry far away...
Another point is very important, whether it is a distant marriage or not, try not to live with the elderly! Not because of disgust, nor because of filial piety, but also because of different ideas and concepts, living under one roof, there will be more contradictions!! Prefer to live in the neighbor's position can be, or the old man is the same as the young man's mind, then it can be, otherwise too many problems in life can not be avoided...
What do you think?
