Today a friend asked me what I would choose between children and love?
Don't talk about not knowing, usually a friend who giggles and laughs, it turns out that he also has a childhood that can't be looked back.
Her father fell in love with someone else when she was in elementary school. In order to be with his father, the woman did not want two children of her own, and went out of the house to marry her father.
She has four brothers and sisters, her youngest and eldest brother and father, the middle two sisters and mothers, because of a so-called encounter with love, a family of six, since then the soldiers have been divided into two roads.
A woman who does not want children for love, do not expect her to like children more, and if she marries over, she has not shown two brothers and sisters with good faces.
I asked, "So does your dad leave her alone?" She said that her father was busy at work, leaving early and returning late, who had the heart to take care of the children.
Fortunately, she was very competitive and was admitted to Wuhan University with excellent results and became an excellent accountant.
She asked me back: "If love and children, what would you choose?" ”
I don't think I want to say that I will choose children, when I first married, it must be for love, if love disappears halfway, at least there are feelings and affection.
But parents are the child's day, if the child knows that her mother gave up on her for love, it means that her sky has collapsed, and she should not dare to imagine how helpless she should be.
So I hope that every parent is in love, married, two quarrels, heart to others, divorce... In the face of these choices, from the perspective of children, they are the inheritance of their parents' lives, and their parents' every move is engraved in the bits and pieces of her growth.
