My mother-in-law left after living in my house for a year, because she had to help my sister-in-law to take the children. When I cleaned up the house after she left, I found 10,000 yuan in the shoe box in the closet, and I hurried to give it to my mother-in-law

My mother-in-law left after living in my house for a year, because she had to help my sister-in-law to take the children. When I cleaned up the house after she left, I found 10,000 yuan in the shoe box in the closet, I quickly called my mother-in-law, put down the phone, I had mixed feelings, I made a decision.

The mother-in-law is 65 years old this year, she and her father-in-law have been living in the countryside, she has two children, her husband and sister-in-law, and her husband's grades are good, and he has been studying until college. The sister-in-law's grades are slightly worse, and because she is a girl, the family already has an older brother who is in college, so the sister-in-law is studying secondary school and majoring in nursing.

When my husband and I got married, my husband's family gave 50,000 yuan, my family gave 100,000 yuan, plus the money in our hands, we paid a down payment to buy a house. But later I learned that the 50,000 yuan given by the husband's family was actually the money earned by the sister-in-law in these years, because she had less time to study, so she first participated in the work, this money was given to her in-laws, and the in-laws gave us.

The sister-in-law reached the age of marriage, she found a doctor, they lived in the town, across the in-laws and in-laws are closer, usually, when the farm work is tense, it is also the sister-in-law's two sons to go back to help the in-laws, I feel, we owe the sister-in-law too much.

Just a year ago, the father-in-law died of a sudden cerebral infarction, leaving the mother-in-law alone, and the mother-in-law was so strong that she collapsed after losing her father-in-law, and the family's farm work could not be done, and there was no energy to do it.

After taking care of the father-in-law's affairs, the mother-in-law is also sick, the medical conditions in the city are relatively much better, I discussed with my husband to take the mother-in-law to the city, and then we will give her a pension. Although the sister-in-law is a nurse, she lives with her in-laws, and her mother-in-law can only follow us.

Since coming to the city, it may be a change of environment, a change of mood, the mother-in-law in our company of the body has improved significantly, I will give the mother-in-law 2,000 yuan a month living expenses, let her take this money to do our family's usual grocery expenses, if it is used up, then look for me to take.

Mother-in-law in the end was used to work and work used to be a person, came to the city idle, the health of our home to clean up, housework she all-inclusive, buy vegetables to cook and wash dishes one-stop, even I changed the clothes, she washed by hand, I said no, put in the washing machine to wash it, but the mother-in-law still insisted on washing by hand, she said that she can save water.

My mother-in-law has a habit of always going out for a walk after eating, sometimes it is two hours after a break, and when she comes back, her body is always sour and smelly, and every time I joke with her about how to walk like going into the garbage heap, she smiles at me and rushes to take a shower.

Unconsciously, my mother-in-law lived in my house for a year, and time passed really fast. One day my mother-in-law suddenly said to me that my sister-in-law had called her, that she was about to have a baby, and that she wanted her mother-in-law to take care of her for a while.

I asked strangely, what about her in-laws, did you go to the convenience? My mother-in-law told me that as early as half a year ago, her in-laws went to help his husband's brother take the child, and said that she would bring it for a year to come back, so she thought of her mother.

I listened, although reluctantly, but I still had to agree, how good the sister-in-law was to us, the 50,000 yuan at that time, later we wanted to return it to her, she insisted on not, saying that the money was also for her parents, if the parents gave us, we would also take it, just as her little heart.

She said, she is in a small place, we are in a big city, we use more money, I listened to her words, really moved, I am really blessed, having such a good mother-in-law and sister-in-law, it is really my greatest blessing.

I said to my mother-in-law: I will send you tomorrow, and if her mother-in-law comes back, you can call us at any time and we will pick you up. Remember, you'll spend the rest of your life with us, don't go back.

The mother-in-law nodded and said to me, let me not send her, too busy, just take her to the station. Then my mother-in-law told me that she should not lose the things in her room, and she would still use them when she came.

The next day, my mother-in-law packed up her things, I sent them to the station, after getting on the train, I took 5,000 yuan to her, let her buy nutritional products for her sister-in-law for 3,000 yuan, and keep 2,000 yuan in her hands for backup. She started not to, pushed for half a day, and I insisted on letting her hold it.

After I got home, I went to my mother-in-law's room to take a look, it was really clean, I opened the cabinet and found that she put the shoe box inside, I was a little strange, I opened it to see that there was a bundle of money inside, I clicked, a whole ten thousand yuan.

I thought it was my mother-in-law who took it out and forgot to take it, so I called my mother-in-law, and after I finished calling my mother-in-law, I immediately took the money and drove to my sister-in-law's house.

It turned out that my mother-in-law had been in the city for more than a year, and the time she walked at night was to pick up empty bottles and sell them in cardboard boxes, and for such a long time, she exchanged the money for the whole money, ten thousand yuan. She thought about reading for her eldest grandson, so she put it in our house and prepared to tell me after a while.

I arrived at my sister-in-law's house, I was afraid that my sister-in-law had an idea, only when I was with my mother-in-law, I gave this money to my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law did not want, she said that she kept the eldest grandson, she also said, you don't have any burden, when I go to the city again, I still have to pick up empty bottles, this time I want to pick up my little grandson ten thousand yuan, so you both have, this is the money I earned by labor, you must accept it, this is my little heart for my grandson.

I listened to this, it is really a mixture of feelings, the mother-in-law is really a kind person, but this money, I take it in my hand is too heavy, I use it and feel uneasy, do I want it in the end? #Emotion# #情感咨询 #

@Tender Mao Dan Analysis:

After reading your story, I think you first collect this ten thousand yuan, although the money is not much, but it is also a wish of your mother-in-law, you can save this money first, and if your mother-in-law is useful and gets it later, you are looking for an opportunity to return it to her. This intention will not be uncomfortable if the mother-in-law is not accepted.

You have a good mother-in-law and sister-in-law, you must be good to them, of course, you are also a good daughter-in-law, will harvest their true feelings for you. Kudos to you guys!