I am 57 years old and my wife died six months ago. After being introduced, I met Ms. Liu, 63 years old. We've been dating for more than a month and I lent her 20,000 bucks. Last night, she came to me and sued

I am 57 years old and my wife died six months ago. After being introduced, I met Ms. Liu, 63 years old. We've been dating for more than a month and I lent her 20,000 bucks. Last night, she came to me and told me the bad news. We don't know what to do.

I am a rural person. A year ago, my wife contracted diabetes, spent all her savings, and finally left.

I have only one daughter, married to the far north. She only came back twice before and after my wife's death, but I understand her too. First, she was busy with work, and second, it was too far away to travel back and forth.

After my wife died, my daughter took me to the city to live with them. I don't do anything every day. Being at home alone every day is really boring. My daughter and son-in-law both have their own jobs and can't stay with me all the time. I've been tired all my life, so I can't control myself. I stayed for a month and went back to my hometown.

After returning home, although I was separated from my daughter by two places, my daughter called home more often than before, and would call me for 3,000 yuan on time every month to pay my living expenses.

I live alone, and there are still a few acres of land in the house. I can't spend much a month. I was basically self-sufficient. I basically saved all the money my daughter called me.

For a month's money, the next door neighbor Sister-in-law Li wanted to kiss me, and I pushed her away for a long time. After all, at this age, I was so embarrassed that I needed someone else to kiss me. Finally, Sister-in-law Li showed me a picture of the other party, and I agreed. The woman in the photo doesn't look old but looks kind.

Listen to the departure of The surname Liu, 63 years old, and his spouse went into a car accident ten years ago. For so many years, she lived alone, had a clean nose, and had a son who worked in the city.

"Anyway, your daughter is not around." If you find a wife, your life will be taken care of by someone else and your children will be liberated. You don't have to worry so much about you, don't think about yourself, but also think about your daughter. I think Ms. Liu is a good match for you. ”

Sister Li's words made me shake. At my age, if something happens at home and my daughter is far away from home, I'm anxious. I don't think about myself, but I also think about my daughter. So I promised to get along with Ms. Liu first.

In this way, Ms. Liu and I began a formal relationship. In the first few days, Ms. Liu was very kind to me. She would come to my house every day. Every time she came, she would bring something to my house. She didn't forget to help me clean the house. I didn't know she was really my wife.

A week later, we officially confirmed the relationship. Finding a wife in the countryside is as simple as that. Not so many rules. As long as two people are in agreement, they can live together.

But the next Sunday, Ms. Liu made a meal and beckoned me to eat. Suddenly, she told me that her son wanted to start his own business, that he was short of money and wanted to borrow ten thousand yuan from me.

Ms. Liu and I have been living together. Although there are no couples, there are already couples with names. I happen to have money in my hands. Help me if you can. I generously agreed. Ms. Liu is grateful to me, she said that she has been with the right person all her life.

Since then, Ms. Liu has taken good care of me. Since the death of my wife, I have not expected much of life for a long time, and now the appearance of Ms. Liu has given me hope in life.

After another week, Ms. Liu asked me to borrow money again. She said her son still needed ten thousand yuan to buy, which embarrassed me. I don't have much money in my hands. If I lend it to Ms. Liu, then I really don't have any money.

I told the truth to Ms. Liu.

After learning of this, Ms. Liu was very upset. She said to me, "It's okay, I can't lend you all your money." That's not good. Just when I didn't say anything. ”

After so many days together, it was the first time I saw Ms. Liu so depressed. I can't. I said to Ms. Liu, "Now that we are together, your son is also my son." If my son needs help, I will do everything I can to help him. ”

In the end, I also lent the money to Ms. Liu.

If Ms. Liu is really with me for a long time, I don't want this 20,000 yuan. After all, like I said, her son is also my son, and there is no need to divide it so clearly, so it looks like a stranger.

Unexpectedly, just yesterday, after dinner, Ms. Liu pulled me to the bedroom and said to me, "I want to tell you something, but it's really embarrassing, but I have to say it again."

I asked her what it was.

Ms. Liu said: "After so many days with you, you are really a good husband, and I especially like you. Without the intervention of my daughter-in-law, I would really love to be with you forever. ”

Ms. Liu said: "Just yesterday, my daughter-in-law introduced me to one. The other party is also widowed, with a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan. Economic conditions are relatively good. My daughter-in-law asked me to associate with him. What am I going to do? ”

Ms. Liu meant that she wanted to break up with me. Although I am very unhappy, since she has a better candidate, I don't want to embarrass her.

However, Ms. Liu's next words turned my worries into happiness. She said: "Actually, I still like to be with you, but my daughter-in-law introduced me to me, and I can't refuse her." I was afraid of hurting my daughter-in-law's face and embarrassing her. ”

Ms. Liu's words touched me very much, and I didn't want to drag her down anymore. I said to her, "If you don't want to embarrass your daughter-in-law, you can be with her and I won't have any problems." I am not in a hurry to pay the money back. ”

Ms. Liu said: "Because of 20,000 yuan, I don't want to be with you." I just think you're very practical. I just don't know how to reject my daughter-in-law. ”

It seems that Ms. Liu really likes me, but now her daughter-in-law has introduced her to one. How can I tell my daughter-in-law so that she won't have a problem with Ms. Liu?

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