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After the death of my second wife, I returned to my son's house, and my daughter-in-law placed me on the balcony. The daughter of the second wife rushed over and said, "Mom, let's go home!" "I didn't expect my own son

author:Invert the hourglass

After the death of my second wife, I returned to my son's house, and my daughter-in-law placed me on the balcony. The daughter of the second wife rushed over and said, "Mom, let's go home!" "I didn't expect that my own son would ignore me, but this unrelated daughter would give me a pension, and I made a decision."

I'm 64 years old and have been retired for ten years. When my son got married the year I retired, I renovated the family's three-room house, and my son lived with me after marriage. My wife died two years before I retired, and this house was also the fund-raising house that our unit was divided at that time.

In fact, before my son got married, I had 300,000 savings in my hand, and I offered to pay a down payment to my son. I also understand that today's young people are reluctant to live with the elderly. But at that time, my daughter-in-law said very well, took my arm and said, "Auntie, we don't buy a house anymore, let's live together after we get married." We are not at ease that you live by yourself, and we just have a care when you live together. ”

The three hundred thousand I gave them two small families as the starting capital for the new family, and the daughter-in-law took a mouthful of a mother, calling it sweet.

Since my son got married, many people in the community have introduced me to my wife, and my son and daughter-in-law have also supported me. I was very relieved at the time, thinking that they were for my happiness in my old age, and later I learned that it was the aunt of the daughter-in-law's childcare community who introduced me to the object.

At that time, the son's salary was 5,000 a month, and the daughter-in-law's salary was 3,000 a month, and they didn't have a mortgage, which was actually enough to spend. Later, I heard my son say that the three hundred thousand was lent to my daughter-in-law's brother to buy a house, and I didn't say anything.

Later, someone introduced me to Lao Zhang, who was a retired cadre with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, ten years older than me. I have a good impression of Lao Zhang, he seems to have quality, and he is very capable of talking and doing things.

Lao Zhang's wife has also died for many years, and a daughter married to a foreign country, and he has been living alone. Lao Zhang's daughter is a master's degree graduate, I heard that she is now a middle-level foreign company, and her son-in-law is a very good surgeon.

The daughter and son-in-law have always wanted to take him to live together, but Lao Zhang said that he would not go anywhere, saying that his homeland was difficult to leave.

I heard that someone had introduced lao Zhang to a forty-year-old woman before. However, the other party wanted a dowry of 200,000 yuan and also gave 100,000 pocket money every year, and Lao Zhang did not agree.

We decided to live together, and Lao Zhang said that he was responsible for the living expenses, and we did the housework together. I don't have a problem with that.

This is how I am, and it is decided that I will take it seriously. After moving to Lao Zhang's house, I first cleaned up the house. The whole house looks like the windows are clear, and I bought a lot of greenery, which looks full of life. He also arranged recipes according to Lao Zhang's body, and made him nutritious meals suitable for him every day.

After living with Lao Zhang for more than a month, Lao Zhang suddenly gave me his salary card, saying that in the future, the family's money and wealth will be under my control, and I can buy whatever I want.

At that moment, I was touched, Lao Zhang recognized me, and also recognized my character. A few months after I was with Lao Zhang, my son began to ask me for money. Although the old card is in my place, and the card has a six-figure deposit, I really don't want to move this money. Later, I couldn't do it, so I gave my pay card to my son.

That year's Spring Festival, Lao Zhang's daughter Wenwen wanted to come back for the New Year. I was so nervous that I didn't know what to do, and Lao Zhang kept comforting me, saying that her daughter was very good to get along with.

Before Wenwen came back, I carefully cleaned her room, all the bedding was replaced, and the quilts were taken to the roof of the building to dry.

Wenwen is a very good child and has great respect for me. Came back for five days and we got along like a family. Before Wenwen left, she also gave me a gift, a set of gold jewelry. There are necklaces, earrings, bracelets, rings. I don't want it, Wenwen said that I am dressed very plainly, this set of jewelry is very suitable for me, it is her New Year's gift to me.

I was happy and sad in my heart, glad to have her approval, sad that my son went to his mother-in-law's house for the New Year and did not even make a phone call.

In a flash, I lived with Lao Zhang for ten years, and the last two years of Lao Zhang's health were very bad, and I served him more carefully, hoping that he could accompany me for two more years. Two years before Lao Zhang died, he wanted to transfer the house to me, and I didn't want it. Wenwen has been urging us to hurry up and go to the house, afraid that her father will suddenly be unconscious and it will be difficult to deal with. I didn't say anything about the transfer of the house to me, I was afraid that my son would remember it early.

I served Lao Zhang until he died, and together with Wenwen, I handled Lao Zhang's funeral. My heart was suddenly empty, and lao Zhang gave me a safe haven and a stable life for so many years.

Old Zhang is gone, Wenwen also went back, this home I am sad, I went back to my son's home. Unexpectedly, after going back, there was no room for me at home, three bedrooms, the mother of the daughter-in-law lived in one, the little grandson lived in one, and the son installed a single bed for me on the balcony.

When I went back, I was not comfortable, and I didn't tell them about the house. Wenwen sent me a WeChat message to ask me how I was, and I was aggrieved and told Wenwen about it.

Unexpectedly, the child came back overnight, and after entering the house, he asked me to pack up my things and said, "Mom, let's go back to our own house." "That mom made me cry, this child has always called me aunt before, I don't think there's anything wrong with it, I don't have any nurturing grace for her, I didn't expect that after her father died, she recognized me as a mother."

After Wenwen took me back, she discussed with me whether to go with her or live alone here, and Wenwen said that she would give me a pension in the future. Wenwen and I said, "Let's discuss other things, and first transfer this house to you." ”

 Yes, I'm going to give wenwen the house, do you say I did the right thing?

@Invert hourglass

Hello, I think you are doing the right thing, your son and daughter-in-law are not good for you, and your daughter who is not related to you is very filial.

In the case that her father has passed away, she still has to give you a pension, which shows that you have paid a lot and have made this child treat you as a real mother.

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