In the first year of marriage, in the in-laws' family for the New Year, sleep is not good, eat and eat unaccustomed, every day is careful, feel very constrained. I wanted to go home, I thought of my parents, and I couldn't help but cry.
My in-laws' and mother-in-law's family, in different towns in the same county, are an hour's drive away. But ten miles of different winds, a hundred miles of different customs, the habits of the two families are even more far apart. In the twenty-sixth year, I took the car back to my in-laws' house and found that the hygiene was engaged in seven seven eight eight, and my mood was a little better. But dinner was so bad that I couldn't eat it after just a few bites. Found a few packets of cookies to fill your stomach.
In my mother's family, everyone has a good cooking skill, and my mouth is full of food, so when I go to my in-laws' house, I can't eat meals that have no color and fragrance. I didn't eat enough, and when I went to take a shower, I found that the shower water of the water heater was too fine and not hot enough. The weather was very cold, only eight or nine degrees at night, gritting my teeth and taking a warm bath and quickly lying down.
In my mother's house, I want to sleep until what time I get up at what time, my parents understand my usual hard work, and let me sleep until I wake up naturally. At my in-laws' house, I was woken up by the neighbor's rooster at six or seven o'clock, brushed my teeth, cleaned up and went downstairs, and it was only seven or eight o'clock.
Two days I slept too late and got up a little late, and my mother-in-law was a little upset. Of course, she was not targeting me, my husband, and my eldest brother and sister-in-law, they came downstairs at eight o'clock, and they were all shaken up late. My heart is so tired, I have already counted up very early. At my mother's house I slept until ten o'clock, and my mother asked me how I got up so early, and my brother and my sister slept until eleven or twelve.
At my in-laws' house, I wash vegetables, cut vegetables, wash dishes, and help with the children every day. I didn't live much, but I didn't idle. Sleep badly, eat badly, live carefully every day, afraid of provoking others to be unhappy, nervous, and can't help but cry at night.
Maybe I'm a little too arrogant, but I just miss my parents and want to go home. The golden nest and silver nest are not as good as their own kennels, and they can relax wholeheartedly when they return to their own homes, and their smiles are much more. I'm a bit of a cleanliness and a lot of hard work, and I work the same way back to my mother's house. I'm not afraid to work, but I'm afraid of being tired.
On the second day of the New Year, I finally waited to return to my mother's house. When I got home, my brother, my sister, and my parents prepared a table of good dishes for me to eat. The family does not distinguish between you and me, all work together to cook, do things, the family's heart goes to one place, try to make a place, no complaints, only mutual understanding, there are talk and laughter, all day is very happy, I like the atmosphere of our family.
And the in-laws, there is no very lazy person, but the mother-in-law is equivalent to a supervisor, promoting all the processes, if there is no smooth, will say more, such as scolding the father-in-law, do not say me, but I am not comfortable.
The in-laws are relatively remote and there is nowhere to go. The mother's family develops a new countryside, and when you are idle, you can also go to the village head park and the village tail scenic spot to take a walk. I don't know my in-laws' relatives well, and I can't interject when I come to visit. Back at my mother's house, my uncles and uncles, my brothers and sisters were a lot, all pulling me to chat and play cards and eat. I tease the dog at home, blow water, eat a meal here and there, and it's another day of raising pigs.
I asked my husband how it was like to come to my house. He said that just like your cousin doesn't want to go to his wife's house, he always feels a little restrained, not as free as in his own home, and there are too many relatives, a little noisy. I said, I feel the same way I go to your house, I still think your home is too quiet, not lively enough, you can understand me now.
Everyone likes to go back to their own home, unrestrained, free, do whatever they want, without looking at people's faces. Therefore, do not force the daughter-in-law to integrate into the in-laws' family, and do not force the son-in-law to integrate into the mother-in-law's family. After all, the atmosphere and habits of the two families are different, and it is difficult to integrate.
In the new year, go to the in-laws' house for a few days, and then go to the mother's house for a few days, so that both people can enjoy the free and free days, the remaining three hundred days are working and living outside, establishing their own small home, two people are singing inside and no one cares about you. Therefore, Whether to go to the in-laws' house or go back to the mother's house in the New Year, there is no need to have too many complaints, after all, it is only a few days of the New Year.
(Attached are a few photos of the pig life of the mother's family [Ma Sichun's smile])
