After the party, I said to my husband: "The house you live in was bought by my father, and my son and daughter were brought up by my mother. Want to divorce straight. The husband sighed and told the truth

After the party, I said to my husband: "The house you live in was bought by my father, and my son and daughter were brought up by my mother. Want to divorce straight. After my husband sighed and told the truth, I felt guilty and apologized one after another.

This was the first time I accompanied my husband to a classmate's association, and I didn't want to go because I grew up abroad and wasn't interested in his college life. My husband said that this is their graduation tenth anniversary party, which is very meaningful, others are bringing their families, let me give him some face.

I said, "You guys are really in trouble, you need face for anything, isn't it good to live simply?" The husband said: "Yes, yes, what you say is right, but there are some things you have to slip around, you can't be high-profile, don't let people have a sense of distance." ”

For his words, I really can't agree, although we have said before that we will not do anything for each other, but his request is reasonable, and I reluctantly agreed.

I did my hair in advance, picked out the dress, and asked my husband to try on the clothes. But after the phone was connected, he said that he didn't need to prepare, and let me dress casually. He didn't do this all to give him so-called "face", since he didn't appreciate it.

In the evening, my husband drove to pick me up, and as soon as I got in the car, I posed in a very moving pose, waiting for him to praise. My husband looked from top to bottom, but his eyebrows wrinkled, and I said, "What's wrong with this dress not looking good?" ”

He shook his head and said, "Nice, but not too high-profile?" I said, "The degree of dress at the party represents the importance of each other, and don't you also say that you must give you enough face outside?" My husband smiled and kissed me on the cheek and started the car.

When we arrived at the hotel, there was only one person in the private room. My husband introduced me to him, he was the youngest in the dormitory, his name was Xiaoming, and he was an insurance salesman. Xiaoming is very good at chatting, always saying that I am beautiful and temperamental, and also ridiculed her husband: "Third brother, you are really blessed to marry such a beautiful daughter-in-law, even like I am more than thirty years old and bare sticks." ”

Unexpectedly, my husband said with a look of envy: "Xiaoming, you are wrong, now the happiest of several buddies is you, free to do anything, unlike me who goes home late and has to ask your sister-in-law for leave, marriage this grave I am considered to be early!" ”

They laughed when they finished, but I was so angry with my husband's words that he pretended not to see. I was in that luck, a group of people came in from outside, my husband warmly came forward to say hello, Zhang Luo everyone sat down, and began to introduce me one by one.

In fact, I am a slow and hot person, and I am really a little overwhelmed when I suddenly see so many strangers. My husband asked me to call the person next to me the second sister-in-law, saying that she had just given birth to her second child, and asked me to ask people for advice.

Before I could speak, the second sister-in-law waved her hand in front of everyone and said, "You all see, this little waist of the people looks like someone who has just given birth to a second child!" Third elder, when you asked me to sit next to your daughter-in-law, did you deliberately bury your second sister-in-law? ”

I was embarrassed by her, and looked at my husband on the side, but guess what he said? The husband said: "Second sister-in-law, don't be funny, you see her thin milk is not much, hungry children wow wow crying, I am now almost sad to die." I rolled my eyes in anger and gave him a kick directly below.

At this time, two more people came in outside, and for a moment I was stunned, because these two people weighed 400 pounds together. The people in the room politely let the two of them to the middle position, and I knew that this should be the boss that my husband usually said.

The old people are in the catering business, when they go to school, they will always invite their husbands to eat, and their husbands introduce me to the big brother and sister-in-law, and I am also very well-behaved to greet them. I was just about to sit down when I heard my sister-in-law say, "Husband, you see this is the new money chain I want to buy, you are still too expensive!" Or the old three have strength. ”

Listening to her words, everyone looked at her, but my husband said: "Where do I have that spare money, every month's mortgage and car loan, and the cost of two children, will crush me, this is the A goods I bought, everyone has been deceived!" ”

Can you imagine? I ate this meal so awkwardly, I held my stomach, and as soon as I walked to the restaurant, I broke out, and I said, "The house you live in was bought by my father, and the full payment is 1.6 million." My son and daughter were brought up by my mother, it doesn't matter if you want a penny, what right do you have to complain? Want to divorce straight. ”

The husband sighed and said: "Wife, you don't understand, this is "Chinese-style socializing", and their life in each family is not satisfactory." Although the boss is not bad for money, he has no children so far.

The second sister-in-law just had postpartum depression when she gave birth to her second child, and almost divorced her second brother. Xiaoming is still single, all because there is an old mother who has been taking medicine for many years. If I tell the truth, how will you let them live? ”

I was stunned by my husband's words, and I felt that I was really unsophisticated and guilty. Never thought of a simple party, from dressing to speaking, there is such a big knowledge.

I don't know how everyone is facing this kind of "Chinese-style socializing", have you ever experienced such an embarrassing meal like me? #Emotion##情感事务所 #

@A Single Uncle Thank you for your trust.

Your narration is very vivid, and I can fully appreciate that your mood at the dinner table at that time was really embarrassing to the extreme.

It is undeniable that as long as there are people, there is a "Chinese-style social" place, which is a very profound learning, one sentence or two sentences can not be said clearly, you can discuss this with your husband, you can also read books in this area to deepen some understanding.

Some people are accustomed to wearing the best clothes and saying the worst things, while others like your husband hide their edges so that they don't feel distance, because people are still social animals in the end.

"Chinese-style socializing" is a truth that each of us can't learn in a lifetime, do you think I am right?