Husband and wife get along
The vigorous love talk has passed, the sweet honeymoon has also passed, and the next step is to methodically enter the period of living at home. In this period, whether the husband is a wife, compared with the love period and the honeymoon period, it will change more or less, especially the shortcomings that are usually hidden will be exposed, and some couples will even have such a thought, "How can I marry (marry) him (her)". This period is a critical period for husband and wife to get along, and both husband and wife need to objectively treat these changes after marriage during this period, adapt to each other, and lay a good foundation for the consolidation of marriage. Therefore, this period is also known as the period of adaptation to married life.
First, we need to understand why both spouses have changed. In the love or honeymoon period, in order to get the other party's love and liking for themselves, always try to show their own advantages to each other, for example, people who are originally lazy will also be diligent, and unromantic people also open up in order to please their lovers, and disguise romance in front of their lovers. Moreover, people in love often have the "halo effect" mentioned in psychology, and the person they like changes from a little good to a good place, and even regards the shortcomings of the other party as an advantage, such as the rudeness of men into bravery and manhood; the stubbornness of women as attachment. After marriage, Shengbo began to be homeized and formalized, and people no longer deliberately covered up their shortcomings, and the originally too emotional minds of the husband and wife began to be rational, and began to rationally analyze the self-destructed husband or wife, and found that the other party was very different from the previous impression in their own hearts.
