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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Whether a woman has money or not, often the characteristics of the body will be reflected, and a woman without money, even if she will decorate her appearance, will be exposed in the traces carved in her bones.
Women who are really rich are often confident and noble, and they inadvertently exude a unique atmosphere.
And women without money, it is difficult to achieve real self-confidence, even if they disguise self-confidence, they will not have a noble temperament, but it will set off the inferiority of the heart.
The more a person lacks something, the more he may care about something, and those women who often live a delicate life may not be really exquisite.
Because, really rich women, do not show off themselves, but quietly bloom, do not need to prove their lives to others.
As Yishu said: "A really temperamental lady never shows off everything she has, she does not tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority." ”
Therefore, a woman is very "poor", and these characteristics will be obvious on the body:
First, inferiority in bones
Whether a woman has money or not, see if she has an inferiority complex.
Rich women, showing self-confidence, in front of others will always be a confident and positive mental outlook.
And women without money will lack self-confidence, they are very inferior in their bones, and they always look afraid in front of others, and they look like they have never seen the world.
Moreover, if women have no money for a long time, their thinking will also be solidified, and no matter what they do, they will hold "I can't afford to buy it, I don't deserve to use such a noble thing."
Once this solidification is formed, the heart will naturally be inferior, it is impossible to be confident, and even the disguise cannot escape the impact of the solidification.
For example, they don't dare to go to high-end stores, they don't dare to buy expensive things, and even if they see clothes they like, they don't dare to try on them.
In the final analysis, they are too inferior to be truly confident, especially care about other people's opinions, and they are even more confused.
This is the case with her colleague Miss Hu, whose family conditions are not good, and the words she heard from childhood to adulthood were "no money" and "save some money."
Due to the long-term formation of solidified thinking, so that later in life, it is also extremely inferior and cannot let go.
No matter what the occasion, she was silently hiding in the corner, not wanting others to find out.
Moreover, every time she goes out to buy something, she also goes to the cheapest place, rarely goes to expensive shopping malls, and dare not rush into high-end stores.
Even if she needs something very much, she has been thinking about it for a long time, feeling that "it is too expensive" and "still not buying it", and seems hesitant.
Therefore, Miss Hu basically buys cheap consumer goods, and even if she falls in love later, she does not dare to buy expensive skirts.
Even if her boyfriend pulls her to a more upscale place, she doesn't dare to try on clothes, afraid of being looked at by her.
In fact, this is the woman who has no money, and the inferiority carved in her bones makes them afraid of their hands and feet, and they never dare to do what they want to do.
Second, like to show off themselves
Whether a woman has money or not, it is clear to see her usual behavior, and those women who like to show off themselves mostly have no money.
Women who are really rich don't show off themselves, what they have, how good they are, they don't need to prove it to others, and they don't have to get comfort from others.
Only women who have no money will often show off, eager to prove themselves to others, and if they can get the approval of others, they will feel particularly comforted, even complacent.
For example, some women like to show their exquisite life the most, what they eat today, what expensive things they use, they will send a circle of friends first, hoping to get the recognition of others.
Moreover, whenever they arrive at a high-end place, they will locate and then send a lot of circles of friends, hoping that others will not know where she has gone.
Such women are basically vanity-minded, like to show off, and naturally are not really rich people.
In reality, there are too many pseudo-delicate women, and the more they lack something, the more they want to prove something.
I remember reading a report before that several young girls rented a house outside during their work, and they were usually dressed up very delicately, and everyone around them thought they were girls from rich families.
In addition to going to work, these girls spend the rest of their time taking pictures and sending circles of friends to set off their exquisite lives.
Therefore, in their circle of friends, it is basically the afternoon tea every day, the high-end food they have eaten, the books and diaries they have posed, and the positioning and photos of various high-end places.
Later, when the girls quit their jobs and checked out, the landlord found that it was dirty and messy, and there was no place to get off their feet.
There are piles of garbage inside, instant noodles, peels, paper and all kinds of garbage can't bear to look directly, and there is a strong pungent smell.
To this end, after they left, the landlord specially asked someone to clean it for three days before cleaning it.
This is the pseudo-delicacy that women who have no money show off, and the more they want to prove that they are living well, the more they reflect their vanity and inner poverty.
Third, I hope to find a rich person
If women are poor, they are eager to find a rich person in their hearts and want to change their lives.
Most of these women will disguise themselves and pretend to be exquisite, in fact, just to find a rich boyfriend.
They will especially decorate their delicate and good-looking appearances, often go in and out of various high-end places, and are eager to meet successful men.
Because they have been in the melancholy of no money for a long time, they will pay more attention to material things for love, and generally only make friends with rich men, and most of them will not look at men without money.
Just like Luo Zijun in "the first half of my life|", he used to live the life of a rich wife before, and became particularly panicked in the face of a sudden divorce.
So, she was anxious to find a rich boyfriend, and when she met the old Kim who was much older than her, she decided to date without much thought.
This man had a house and a deposit in his hand, which was exactly what Luo Zijun needed. She has to raise children, she has to live, she can't do without money at all times, and she has to grasp the man in front of her who can give her life security.
In reality, there are also many women like Luo Zijun, who are particularly short of money, unable to take charge of a heavy life, and have to hope to find a rich object to change their fate.
Such a woman, the purpose of interacting with men is very simple, as long as the other party's economic conditions meet their requirements, they are generally willing to communicate.
However, such a woman always does not have much capital and confidence, and once the freshness of a man has passed, it is easy to be disappointed.
A woman who wants to live a more dignified life still needs to rely on herself, and only by making herself strong and having enough ability to live can she live more confidently.
Truly rich women never want to rely on men to support, only women without money will pin their hopes on men and become men's attachments.
Therefore, a woman is poor, basically will have the idea of finding a rich boyfriend, which requires women to correct their attitude, want to get happiness, must be achieved through personal efforts.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, women without money generally have these three characteristics, and the traces on their bodies cannot be hidden.
They have inferiority in their bones, like to show off themselves, and hope to find a rich object, which is easy to see.
This should also remind individual women that they must change their minds, you can be poor, but you cannot be mentally poor.
Even if you don't have any money, as long as you have a positive and hard-working mentality, you will struggle a little bit, and one day you will realize the value of life and get the happiness you want.
The superficial delicacy is not really exquisite, the disguised money is not really rich, only by maintaining the spiritual nobility, deciding to change yourself, and working hard with your heart, will you live a more dignified life.
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