My other half, as a door-to-door son-in-law, always carries a special self-esteem. Rewind to two years ago, and the atmosphere at home was tense. My child and grandmother are not in good health, and I wish he could come home sooner, but he is caught in the whirlpool of work. On that day, he brought his sister and brother-in-law home to visit the children, but the atmosphere of the originally warm family gathering changed suddenly due to the impulse of my mother and me. We bluntly expressed our dissatisfaction with his late return, and during the argument, the word "divorce" blurted out.
In the interweaving of emotions, it is easy to overlook a delicate balance point - the self-esteem of the partner. This rose in our hearts needs to be cared for with a more delicate attitude. Marriage is not a simple union, but a blend of two worlds. In this process of blending, the "outsiders" are those who are unable to reach the depths of our hearts. And for each other, it is the closest "own person" in life.
Love is not a cage, but a free sky, which requires us to fly together with respect as wings. When we try to let go of the obsession of "how it should be" and truly feel the other person's heartbeat, love can flow more freely. Those expectations of "you must" and "you should" will only become the shackles of love, making each other's hearts drift apart.
I once witnessed a father who held his child in his arms like a beacon. That cherishing made me realize that the true meaning of love lies in cherishing. To cherish the people around you is to cherish every moment of your life. When we take love as ink and respect as the pen, we can draw a gorgeous and colorful picture of life together. On this journey, let's move forward hand in hand and brighten each other's world with love.